I have a crush on my best friend's husband!

[crowned_pixie]

And I am in a committed relationship...we're engaged. But my fiance and I aren't really getting along right now. And I think that my best friend's husband has a "thing" for me too...

UUUGGHH!!! What am I gonna do? I've either got to act on this or figure out some other way to get this out of my system!

 

[KillerMuffin]

Don't be an idiot, don't act on it and get it out of your system. There's really nothing like ripping your best friend to shreds and emotionally destroying her by doing something so incredibly heinous.

It's easier to be a good friend in the long run. You'll appreciate the sensation and so will she.

 

[Tantrikenetic]

As usual, the only way out is through a massive orgy!

 

[superlittlegirl]

Agh!

Another Pixie!

Just chill and let it pass. Dump your man if you're not getting along, but don't fuck your girlfriend unless it's in the good way. And, upon thinking about that advice, don't do that either, because it's bound to fuck things up!

Maybe you should go live in the mountains, herd sheep, and learn how to spin wool. That's what I'd do if I were in your situation.

 

[Guest]

Aren't crushes passing fancies - it'll be over before you know it. Better not act on it and find your crush is crushed - crushing you all.

 

[patient1]

That's up to you, but you might want to take a closer look at your committed relationship. This other stuff is a diversion.

 

[Gilly Bean]

Um hmm.



So, ask yourself how much your relationship, your best friends relationship, and your friends ship means to you in the long run.


I guess if they mean nothing, by all means, go fuck your best friends husband.


Maybe you can pull a Hope Floats and tell her on Springer. I'm sure that would be fun.

 

[Guest]

in simple terms.

option 1: fuck best friends husband...and end up completely and totally alone with no best friend.. no fiance... NO ONE.

option 2: ignore the husband... fix things or end things with fiance...and if ending the relationship is better...find someone who you can get along with.

I am just gonna tell ya up front. To your girlfriend's hubby...you are a piece of ass. Sure he may act like you are not...but if you think that if you do have a fling... he's going to leave his wife for you..chances are slim to none.

 

[Starfish]

Agh!

Another Pixie!

Just chill and let it pass. Dump your man if you're not getting along, but don't fuck your girlfriend unless it's in the good way. And, upon thinking about that advice, don't do that either, because it's bound to fuck things up!

Maybe you should go live in the mountains, herd sheep, and learn how to spin wool. That's what I'd do if I were in your situation.

Have I told you I love you lately?

I love you.


Lady, dump your man and go get another one, but not hers.

That is the only way to do it. That is the way I am doing it, with a crush on my husband's best friend (that is another no no) past me and I am so glad I resisted cause in the long run, that is the best policy.

DON'T RUIN FRIENDSHIPS OVER SEX!

 

[sunstruck]

Why would anyone actually need to ask this question.

Assuming you're real, you know what the right thing to do is.

 

[Starfish]

Some people know better and do it anyway.

I know people like that.

 

[crowned_pixie]

Ok, I'm not asking this question as though I would actually act on it...

God, I'm not that pathetic. I'm merely trying desperately to get it out of my system! I mean, I sure as hell can't tell my fiance, or my best friend, or my friend's hubby.

And I know that this is just a passing crush that will go away...but it's just been driving me nuts!

Any suggestions on HOW to get over it?

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

I say, set up an accident that would knock off your best friend and fiance in one fell swoop. How convenient! Then surely mutual consoling would ensue.

 

[HeavyStick]

True love is defined by a single bratwurst and sauerkraut blast. Wait til bed time and let out prune juice induced fart bomb that makes the dog leave the room. If you can, trap his head under the blankets for the "dutch oven" effect.

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

True love is defined by a single bratwurst and sauerkraut blast. Wait til bed time and let out prune juice induced fart bomb that makes the dog leave the room. If you can, trap his head under the blankets for the "dutch oven" effect.

Is this your plan to murder the fiance or to murder the best friend?

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

And I am in a committed relationship...we're engaged. But my fiance and I aren't really getting along right now. And I think that my best friend's husband has a "thing" for me too...

UUUGGHH!!! What am I gonna do? I've either got to act on this or figure out some other way to get this out of my system!

You know I was going to have a nice comment, but then I said fuck it!

YOu just fucking stupid... If your have outs with your BF then talk it over with him or get rid of him.... and if you are really fucking dumb and go with the husband well say good by to the friend ship
.


Enough said.

 

[MissTaken]

Crushes are cool.

They keep our heart racing and remind us that we are sexual and sensual beings.

However, they stop there.

No fence sitting here: Don't do anything foolish like outting your crush or trying to act on it.

How would you feel if the situation were reversed.

Your situation with your fiance is one issue.

Your crush another.

The crush can over flow and fuck up four lives, not just one.

So deal with it rationally. Enjoy a funny look or appreciative wink, but leave it there.

Oh, I guess my on the fence response is , "Do whatever you feel is best and be ready to face the consequences", but that is bs.

 

[TheOlderGuy]

Agh!

Another Pixie!

Just chill and let it pass. Dump your man if you're not getting along, but don't fuck your girlfriend unless it's in the good way. And, upon thinking about that advice, don't do that either, because it's bound to fuck things up!

Maybe you should go live in the mountains, herd sheep, and learn how to spin wool. That's what I'd do if I were in your situation.

you make a damn good case for being a sheep

 

[*Eve*]

And I am in a committed relationship...we're engaged. But my fiance and I aren't really getting along right now. And I think that my best friend's husband has a "thing" for me too...

UUUGGHH!!! What am I gonna do? I've either got to act on this or figure out some other way to get this out of my system!

First of all, if you feel like cheating on your fiance before you even marry him, he isn't the one for yo. Second, you need to think about how you would feel if you were in that guy's wife's situation before you act upon your feelings.

 

[^Jedi_Master69^]

Hi

 

[Killswitch]

And I am in a committed relationship...we're engaged. But my fiance and I aren't really getting along right now. And I think that my best friend's husband has a "thing" for me too...

UUUGGHH!!! What am I gonna do? I've either got to act on this or figure out some other way to get this out of my system!

Sleep with him, ruin your engagement, and your best friends marriage all in one fell swoop.

What do you think you are going to do you dope....show some class, and self control.

duh

 

[Killswitch]

Oh, and he probably just wants to bang you once....then he would drop you in a flash, just like you have dropped your ethics.

Next caller.....Boise Idaho....hello, and welcome to the Dr Killswitch show.