is this bb nothing but a hangout for semi-lonely to very lonely GUYS only? I haven't been to Lit in a long time because it reminds me of walking into one of those bars where there are about 50 guys and 5 girls. Every time the door opens, 100 eager man eyes whip around in the hopes that a bacherlorette party of 25 out-of-control, drunk young hotties might be walking in looking for some action. Yes, I too am a man looking for some fun (of any kind, mind you, at least to jolt me out of this semi-conscious state that the mid to late 30's seems to induce); I usually prefer to conduct my search in that scary place called the real world, enjoying actual physical contact and spoken conversation over nervously carassing a mouse and keyboard while I check a bb 50 times a day while hoping for a response that probably will never come. But what the hell! Here goes- if you are a sensual woman who is bored as hell like me, drop me a response. I'm married, yes, but now only for appearances, and probably not for long. I have one of those interesting "limbo" arrangements that allows the floodgates of my libido to safely open to great happy hour hookups and wild workplace fliteration, but I have not yet met my female soulmate match. Is there no one to keep up with me?