i hate being jealous

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its one of those things that i hardly ever feel. it sneaks up on me and bites me in the face real hard.

i hate that feeling that washes over me and the way my mind races and works on a thousand different possibilities. and they play in my head over and over again and i cant make them stop.

i hate the way it makes me feel.
 
femininity said:
its one of those things that i hardly ever feel. it sneaks up on me and bites me in the face real hard.

i hate that feeling that washes over me and the way my mind races and works on a thousand different possibilities. and they play in my head over and over again and i cant make them stop.

i hate the way it makes me feel.

Can I :kiss: where it bit you?

Or I can offer you some magic spit to make it all better? :catroar: :heart:
 
I hear ya. My ex is chatting up some girl on Facebook and it makes me all Grrrrr... even though I dumped him. *shrugs*

It's all part of being human.
 
Sapphire_O said:
I hear ya. My ex is chatting up some girl on Facebook and it makes me all Grrrrr... even though I dumped him. *shrugs*

It's all part of being human.
sucks doesnt it. cause it's like you have no right to feel that way but you still do.
 
femininity said:
its one of those things that i hardly ever feel. it sneaks up on me and bites me in the face real hard.

i hate that feeling that washes over me and the way my mind races and works on a thousand different possibilities. and they play in my head over and over again and i cant make them stop.

i hate the way it makes me feel.

*cuddles* All I can offer is cuddles and a few kisses and that it passes soon sweetie and the thoughts/feelings calm. :kiss:
 
*hugs* Jess, it isnt a nice feeling, i know, hopefully it passes or is dealt with.

Im not used to feeling jealous, and sometimes i do, it really depends on the situation.

Also, sometimes its not nice to be the object of jealousy, it again depends on the situation.

:rose:
 
As those eminent Aristotlean philosophers Mick Jagger and Keith Richards wrote, "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you just might find you get what you need."

Whatever that means. :rolleyes: Well, the first part is clear, and is true enough. The question is, how does one maintain equilibrium, live the good life and have happiness when faced with this "existential reality" that you truly can't always get what you want?

Those things are certainly possible because many people accomplish them, and I suppose they all have different strategies to accomplish it. I imagine these all have in common not focusing to excess on the fact of one's desire ("obsessing"), which means getting into the habit of not letting yourself "go there" mentally. If one gets good at this then one can still take pleasure rather than pain in the presence of the desired-but-unattainable person.

:rose:
 
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I hate it, too.

I'm not normally a jealous person at all, although I confess to the occasional twinge, but sometimes....

it sucks.
 
I get massive surges of this occasionally, and the only thing that usually helps me get over it is to confess.

Then I just feel stupid, but I prefer stupid to jealous.
 
I guess the best thing is to be grateful it's not something you feel often. A close relative of mine is a jealous type person all the time. Always feels slighted over the smallest things. If a neighbor gets new furniture, she'll watch as it's being taken from the delivery truck and just burn with envy. Same for any type of home improvements, new cars, etc. And in relationships with everyone...It must be exhausting.
 
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