I get to see my girls this month!

[Betticus]

Finally! After a couple of months of doing nothing but working/sleeping and going insane. Things like quitting smoking, going vegetarian and working out with RJMasters under the threat of AA I get to trek back to Colorado and see my girls.

I'm going back for a birthday party for one of them and get to do something special for one that had her birthday at the beginning of the month. It's going to be great.

This brings me to another subject though. There has been a lot of daddy talk here lately. Girl daddies of course but I want to get this out and then get some feedback from anyone who has thoughts on the subject.

All of my girl friends tend to call me daddy at one time or another. When something is bothering them they know they can come to me or call and talk to me. They know that I'm good for the hugs and cuddling and support but also that I'm probably the naughtiest guy they know or will ever know. The know that they can relax and let themselves go when I'm there. Take parties for instance, they know that they can drink and flirt and no other guys will be allowed to mess with them in any way without ending up being my bitch.

Recently one of my very best friends and the girl that was my first model for photography. She was in my first lesbian photoshoot and is the subject of some of my best photos called me daddy on her message board. I have to admit that this has only happened recently with her and that I did send her a very nice photo of my cock a few days ago. She doesn't even call her father daddy or refer to him by anything other than his name. He was in jail for most of her life. This kind of thing has been happening more often with my female friends that I'm close to.

Allright, that is my story. Ask any questions if you need more information but I still would like to discuss it.

 

[graceanne]

Congratulations. I know you've been homesick, this should help. I hope you have fun.
As to the 'daddy' thing, I personally would have a lot of trouble calling any man other than my dad 'daddy'.

First of all, EW.

And second of all, I don't like my dad very much. He's a selfish, egotisitical, lying prick. So if I were to call someone 'daddy' it wouldn't be a compliment.

 

[Hajar]

And second of all, I don't like my dad very much. He's a selfish, egotisitical, lying prick. So if I were to call someone 'daddy' it wouldn't be a compliment.

Do we share a dad?

I do call my Sir/husband daddy, he's only 4 years older than me, and is nothing like my dad (a very good thing) but he provides that warm loving feeling that I've associated with a dad.
And while Daddy play makes up very little of our play now, it's still something I call him, because of the significance of the feelings, strong, secure, trust worthy, grounded in self and able to provide that stable emotional foundation all girls need.

 

[Betticus]

Congratulations. I know you've been homesick, this should help. I hope you have fun.
As to the 'daddy' thing, I personally would have a lot of trouble calling any man other than my dad 'daddy'.

First of all, EW.

And second of all, I don't like my dad very much. He's a selfish, egotisitical, lying prick. So if I were to call someone 'daddy' it wouldn't be a compliment.

Not like their own fathers who are almost all assholes or just never there.... Hajar hit on it. I think that for them I fill a place inside them that has been neglected or in some way just make them feel like a well loved, special little girl. I don't want to be associated with their fathers. I want what Hajar is talking about but from the other perspective.

 

[graceanne]

YOu know, other people have tried to explain this to me, and I can see it, sorta, but I still don't get it. It really goes under 'I don't need to understand.' If it works for you all, that's cool. Just me personally.

 

[Betticus]

YOu know, other people have tried to explain this to me, and I can see it, sorta, but I still don't get it. It really goes under 'I don't need to understand.' If it works for you all, that's cool. Just me personally.

I guess that I have to point out that these aren't girls that I have sex with. Well, maybe one or two in the past but I'm not talking about any kind of roleplay or anything else. It just seems to fall into a natural pattern like this.

I'm so getting leather pants that say daddy across the ass!