My best friend is as straight as they come, but i find myself fantasising about him all day. I can't stop imagining what his dick would feel like up my ass, or how his cum tastes, i can't do anything without thinking about him. And yesterday i saw him naked in the showers. But i don't want to do anything that will jeopardise my friendship with him. What can i do?
I find myself uncontrollably aroused by my straight Best friend what should i do?
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bicuriousosaur
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Does he know you are gay? Is he homophobic?
CuriousNiceGuy
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I don't want to make you feel bad, but the same thing happened a year ago with me and a good friend of mine.
I started fantasizing and thinking about him everyday.He knew I was bi, but we never talked about it more, I just told him and he said ok.
After some time I tried to suppress my 'feelings' about him, but sometimes I'd stare at him and things like that.
One night I was at his home and he said he was tired and I offered to give him a massage.Nothing remained the same..
For the next one month he didn't even appear as a friend to me.It was like he was mad with me and I didn't even know why.
His best friend then told me that the guy thought I liked him.
Of course that was true, but I NEVER made a move on him..
My point is, if you don't wanna ruin your friendship, don't tell him.
Of course, you know your friend better than I do, so if you think he'd be able to understand your feelings and not treat you like shit, tell him.
I really think though, in these situations we just have to keep it to ourselves and forget all about it..If it's only sexual it'll go away easily, if it's something more deep, I'm sorry, but either way you're gonna end up hurt/confused/unhappy.I'm sure you'll make it just fine though.
I started fantasizing and thinking about him everyday.He knew I was bi, but we never talked about it more, I just told him and he said ok.
After some time I tried to suppress my 'feelings' about him, but sometimes I'd stare at him and things like that.
One night I was at his home and he said he was tired and I offered to give him a massage.Nothing remained the same..
For the next one month he didn't even appear as a friend to me.It was like he was mad with me and I didn't even know why.
His best friend then told me that the guy thought I liked him.
Of course that was true, but I NEVER made a move on him..
My point is, if you don't wanna ruin your friendship, don't tell him.
Of course, you know your friend better than I do, so if you think he'd be able to understand your feelings and not treat you like shit, tell him.
I really think though, in these situations we just have to keep it to ourselves and forget all about it..If it's only sexual it'll go away easily, if it's something more deep, I'm sorry, but either way you're gonna end up hurt/confused/unhappy.I'm sure you'll make it just fine though.
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Honey I have the exact same problem! My best friend, I am practically in love with.
I got to sleep over at her house once when her hubby was out of town. We shared a bed....I truly learned what "self control" means! hee hee
I got to sleep over at her house once when her hubby was out of town. We shared a bed....I truly learned what "self control" means! hee hee
CuriousNiceGuy
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Omg you slept next to her..at times like that I reaaaally feel awkward.
It's fun, yet every time I touched him accidentally I felt weird.
Lol, it's like this:Weekend at a summerhouse me and a guy I liked
'Guy I liked':Hey, it's getting late.Wanna go to bed?
'My thought':Sure and I can fuck your brains out!
'My words':*nervous laughing* uuh..sure..yeah!
Self Control is a haaaaaaaaaaaaaaard thing to master, but I can safely say I have
It's fun, yet every time I touched him accidentally I felt weird.
Lol, it's like this:Weekend at a summerhouse me and a guy I liked
'Guy I liked':Hey, it's getting late.Wanna go to bed?
'My thought':Sure and I can fuck your brains out!
'My words':*nervous laughing* uuh..sure..yeah!
Self Control is a haaaaaaaaaaaaaaard thing to master, but I can safely say I have
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bimori said:
I say take him out and have some beer take him back to your place and suck him of like he never has been sucked off before . He may pretend like it never happen or he may cum back for more .
Ha! That is exactly what happened with my straight best friend. That was 3 years ago and we are still fucking around every time his g/f is not around. We even live together now.
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Nothing more fun than a roomy that you can suck the cum out of . Of course a cock that taste like pussy is just a bonus .VinnieMeatball said:Ha! That is exactly what happened with my straight best friend. That was 3 years ago and we are still fucking around every time his g/f is not around. We even live together now.
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Huge_Dick said:
Hi buddy,
This is my first post here!!
I just registered myself because I'm in the same situation as you are!!
I work with a guy... He's my best friend too!! I can't stop imagining what his dick would feel like up my ass too!! As you, I don't know what to do!!
Help me guys!!
bimori said:
I say take him out and have some beer take him back to your place and suck him of like he never has been sucked off before . He may pretend like it never happen or he may cum back for more .
I am as straight as they come and I get way too many offers from strangers (male) to get my dick sucked, and I have always refused it. Imagine how his friend would feel about it, especially him being straight.
Dont ruin your relation with him. Its not worth it.
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Well
I have a friend , who I have been in love with, and he had feelings for me like he would have for a girl (well I use his words), but since he is a fanatic christian he could not even see me as his boyfriend, and he knows that I am bi, so well when we are together I sleep at right next to him on the floor on a mattress.
And yes I have been looking alot on his muscles and thinking about giving him the best blowjob ever.
But I think he is really a very closed closet case, i won´t ruin the friendship with him.
But I don´t sense any gaydar pings around him Strangely enough .
But I am not in love with him anymore, but well I think he could even be bi, since he has been in love with a girl.
So the situation is special. And him and I have had experienced some serious ups and downs.
BALUS that lovely woman gave me peace in my mind about the whole horrible thing that happened when i was on holiday with him.
BALUS
Ok I will stop now .
I have a friend , who I have been in love with, and he had feelings for me like he would have for a girl (well I use his words), but since he is a fanatic christian he could not even see me as his boyfriend, and he knows that I am bi, so well when we are together I sleep at right next to him on the floor on a mattress.
And yes I have been looking alot on his muscles and thinking about giving him the best blowjob ever.
But I think he is really a very closed closet case, i won´t ruin the friendship with him.
But I don´t sense any gaydar pings around him Strangely enough .
But I am not in love with him anymore, but well I think he could even be bi, since he has been in love with a girl.
So the situation is special. And him and I have had experienced some serious ups and downs.
BALUS that lovely woman gave me peace in my mind about the whole horrible thing that happened when i was on holiday with him.
BALUS
Ok I will stop now
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