I Finally Told My Girl I Wanted Her To Fuck Me With A Strap-On

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After years of fantasizing about it and trying to tell her but being worried about her reaction I finally told her. I had gotten her to play with my ass before but she rarely did it and often was reluctant. But when I told her today that I wanted her to do me in the butt she said "i already knew that." Haha wow I was trippin for no reason. My question is what type of strap-on should we buy? We are gunna go shopping for one on wednesday or thursday probably.
 
Start small

And use loads of lube. You can always get adventurous later. Have fun.
 
Start off with something small (first one I used was five inches), use plenty of lubricant, go slow at first, don't be afraid of asking her to stop if it gets too much. And as the above said, have fun.
 
Try to make sure it's fairly rigid. I once bought one that was not 'stiff' enough to do the job. Obviously you won't want it to be too unyielding, but it must be able to hold it's length fairly straight.
 
I have been dreaming about his for many years - my virgin ass needs a good fucking from a willing lady! HELP please.
 
It's great that she was understanding and there was no need for you to worry! You have to be careful about getting one that is too short because you miss out on leverage so I don't recommend going right for the shortest available, even if you are worried. Try to find a good compromise between short and long.

And I think the advice from SissyKatie is great. Something rigid but comfortable.
 
Thank you for all the suggestions. Wed we are going to go buy the strap on so hopefully it all happens on wed. =D
 
This is something I`ve always wanted to try, but the wife won`t have anything to do with it. You`ll have to update us on how this turns out for you. :)
 
Your lucky that your partner understands and doesn't mind! I've just ended a relationship with someone who was completely against that sort of thing.
 
You've got to go for one that looks like it's owned by a girl, right? I think it should remind you of the person wearing it.
 
sex shop or internet shopping. she might be a little more relaxed if your internet shopping.

ID glide is a superb lube. luv to see pix if her wearing it...hehe. You'll be hooked for sure
 
So we still haven't gone out and bought a strap on. Those things are freaking expensive. So Imma have to save for a little bit in order to get the one that we want and everything. I will keep you all posted though. Hopefully Ill be fucked in the ass by her soon ;P
 
Another good thing see if you can find one with a butterfly. Vibe along whole length is good, as is a pspot one if you can find one.
 
I Love It When She Gets Her Tounge After My Bum, And So Does She. She Just Melts When I Tounge Her Litle Heinie
 
you are very very lucky because it's absolutely wonderful. You'll enjoy every second of it.

Buy a flexible silicone one; you can go pretty huge and it'll find its way in with a bit of patience.

There's nothing like the feeling of submission you get, lovely.
 
After years of fantasizing about it and trying to tell her but being worried about her reaction I finally told her. I had gotten her to play with my ass before but she rarely did it and often was reluctant. But when I told her today that I wanted her to do me in the butt she said "i already knew that." Haha wow I was trippin for no reason. My question is what type of strap-on should we buy? We are gunna go shopping for one on wednesday or thursday probably.
Start small, vib/ dildo, enema first & lots of lube.
 
Have talked with the wife already about this actually. She was surprisingly into it. We're thinking of getting a strapon called Feeldoe. Makes for pleasuring the both of us.
 
you are very very lucky because it's absolutely wonderful. You'll enjoy every second of it.

Buy a flexible silicone one; you can go pretty huge and it'll find its way in with a bit of patience.

There's nothing like the feeling of submission you get, lovely.

I agree to work your way up to it, but expand until you're taking the biggest one you can take without any pain. That massively invaded and filled feeling makes me cum every time.
 
I'm going out on a dong here and am asking if something that vibrates would be helpful in this effort.
 
It's amazing. I bought a good harness and 3 dildos for her for Christmas. I asked on the How To thread before that on what to buy. I was told to spend the extra and get medical grade material as it won't break down and lasts.

I'd suggest buying a smaller dildo with lube first so she can fuck you with it with her hand. My wife started doing that to me in 2012 and last night was the first time we both used the strap on. She gave it to me with the 6" and I gave it to her with the 8".
OMG, the talking we both gave each other during it was just so hot.
 
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