I finally have a boyfriend!!!!

[Man with a Plan]

There is a point to me posting this but let me tell you the great news.

As many of you may or not know, I am bi and until last week I was searching for my first experience. This was until last Friday Night. Well let me get you to that point, just a month ago I met this guy at a club where I was with another friend looking to get some girls. So while my friend was on the dance floor going up to every bar in the place, I sat down on the side of the room where the couches and stuff were and watched him make a fool of himself. While I was there I noticed a good looking guy sitting at the end. It startled me that he wasn't out dancing or doing anything so I went down to make conversation strictly as a straight guy.

I sat down next to him and introduced myself. We started up a conversation on how stupid everyone looked out there dancing. He told me that he was only there because his cousin and his girlfriend needed a designated driver for when they get drunk. I chuckled and said that I was there to pick up a girl but the whole scene didn't interest me much. We just sat there and chatted for a while. My friend left with some girl so we talked about sports and everything until his cousin was so piss drunk that they had to leave. We exchanged phone numbers and said goodbye.

Over the next couple of days we became close and started talking about various things. I went to his place and watched the baseball playoffs and all of that (along with various other people, a mix of my friends and his) basically since his apartment had the biggest television, it was agreed to be our baseball party central. Anyway, it was all fun. I noticed though that during the conversations about women that he seemed to not be there. He never took part in them and usually focused on the game. Never thought much of it until last Wednesday. After being friends for three weeks, we decided that we'd have a sleepover. Basically just us two. It was like we were kids again. Watching movies and all of that. Around midnight, I went to get something to drink. He told me that he wanted to tell me something and that I need to sit down. He started asking me if I noticed him becoming uninterested in the conversations about women. I nodded. He asked a couple of more questions before saying "I'm gay." I was a bit shocked. He started saying that he had to tell me this and if I was uncomfortable that I could leave if I wanted to. I told him that I was bi and I accepted him. His face lit up like a kid on Christmas morning as he asked me if I had ever had a man. I said no. He asked me to come back Friday Night and he'll have it all set up for us. That is if I'm interested. I said, I'll try it. He asked me if I wanted to kiss a man now though. I chuckled and said yes. He leaned in and our lips met. It was a powerful feeling. I loved it. I wanted to take him right then and there.

Things started becoming clear, he wasn't dancing at the club because he was gay. I started becoming nervous. Very nervous. On Friday Night, I went over to his apartment. He answered the door dressed in a robe and I entered. He closed the door and lit candles. I immediately unbuttoned my shirt and removed my pants. I was dressed only in boxers as I leaned in and kissed him. I untied his robe and dropped it. He stood naked infront of me. I began to kiss down his neck and then started playing with his nipples. I rubbed his chest as I did do. I was so happy, I was in 7th heaven, on cloud nine. This felt so surreal. I slapped and grabbed his ass as my head came back up to kiss him again. He whispered in my ear to let's take it to the bedroom. We went in there and had amazing sex. Best ever. We did anal, I recieved the best blowjob that I have ever got (and even gave one). At the end of the night, I was left wondering how I ever lived without men. I fell asleep in his arms with our cocks together. The next day was Saturday so we spend all day inside walking around in bath robes. It was simply wonderful. Since I live a long way from my parents now, I never have to worry about them or anything. I'm happy. Every night we have sex, alternating between my apartment and his. We even did a special roleplay on the night of Game Seven of the ALCS. We both went out and bought Red Sox and Yankees jersey and settled the ALCS "the way it should have been settled." I love having sex with my man.

Now here's the question, it was partly my idea. Even though, we are lovers we keep our mouths shut about it and live "straight" lifestyles (even though he's gay). No one out of ius knows about our sex life with each other. Do you think that's fair to him if we live that kind of lifestyle.

(If there are typos, I'm sorry but I'm leaving soon and I had to get this up in a hurry)

 

[SweetErika]

First off, congratulations! The joy and excitement in your story made me happy.

I'm not sure I understand the "little question"...are you both living "straight" lives because you're both concerned that people who know you might find out that you're bi? Is the concern that he's living a lie for your sake? Or are you both pretending because neither of you are out?

If you're the only one who's not out, then he has the choice of keeping quiet, telling people, or not continuing the relationship. If he's chosen to keep it a secret, then that's fine, as long as it's his choice and not because you've insisted on it. Of course you have every right to ask him to not tell anyone, as long as you understand he may not want to be in that kind of relationship.

Sorry, I'm sure others on here can give you much better advice and answers! Good luck, and congratulations again!

 

[Lady Chastity]

That sounds SO romantic! I'm happy for you ^_^ And I think after a while, if you two hide who you really are its going to hurt you both.

How I feel about the subject is that if someone isn't going to like you for your sex, race, religon or so on, its their loss and you don't need a person who's going to judge your personality on those things.

I'm pretty sure, when you think the time is right to let people know, you'll say it and live it. Don't take to long though, it's unhealthy to keep hidden too long.

Nice to meet you by the way, I's Chas.

 

[Man with a Plan]

Thanks and he's actually okay. He finds the whole secretive thing to be a turn on. Basically, he's not out to everyone. We want to keep our sexuality a secret to avoid any backlash against us and have people judge us for who we are instead of what we do to each other.

(I wish he didn't have to go back to work. I'm ready to have sex now. I can't wait for later.)

 

[Netzach]

go with the flow, you've just hooked up

if you still have a toothbrush at his place 2 years from now and want to go to the company picnic together, you may eventually revamp your thoughts, maybe not....

it's really all up to what you both feel good about.

edited to add, it's a very sweet hooking up and enjoy and have fun!

 

[DirkPryde]

Fantastic ... I am really happy for you to have found a man ... pretty hard to do that around where I live.

The people here have made good points, go with the flow, communicate thoughts and ideas, if you both agree on what is right for the two of you then no harm is done

Once again, congrats!

 

[Man with a Plan]

We decided to take tonight off, don't want to make everything get stale.

I just got back from his place. We watched a movie and could barely keep our hands of each other. I'm thankful that I have a guy who works out.

Last night was possibly the hottest of them all. He got home from work around 1 AM and I came over shortly after. He was still wearing his restaurant uniform (he works there while attending college). I come in and he is sitting on the couch. I unbutton his shirt and begin kissing down his chest. I unbutton his pants, pull down his boxers and proceed to give him a blowjob. Just something about unbuttoning a man in uniform gave me a raging hardon. Of course after that, we took it to the bedroom and had hot steamy sex. I'm starting to question my attraction for women. My man provides all that I could want. He is so wonderful.

EDIT- Post if you are actually interested in hearing about our sex life. If you aren't then tell me and I won't post anymore about it.

 

[OnHarry]

For heaven's sake if we were not interested in hearing about it we would mot be here. By all means post about the sex please.

 

[theoneadd2]

First off, congratulations and good luck. I hope you were the Sox god I hate the Yankees. Don't push things if you both like it the way it is then keep it that way. I've been in a relationship for about a year and a half and I'm having the time of my life. We’re both out but that just the way things work out for us. There is just one thing every guy or girl that I ever wanted is coming on to me now. When a year and a half ago they wouldn’t give me the time of day. Watch out there coming for you.

 

[Man with a Plan]

First off, congratulations and good luck. I hope you were the Sox god I hate the Yankees. Don't push things if you both like it the way it is then keep it that way. I've been in a relationship for about a year and a half and I'm having the time of my life. We’re both out but that just the way things work out for us. There is just one thing every guy or girl that I ever wanted is coming on to me now. When a year and a half ago they wouldn’t give me the time of day. Watch out there coming for you.

I hate the Yankees but he loves them so I got to make love to a Yankee. Sucking the cock of a man in a Yankees uniform. Never thought that I'd do that.

Best feeling ever: Receiving anal. Pure heaven. I went to his house today on my way to work as he was leaving to go to college (we are 2 years apart). I came over to see him in the morning. I had to see him, smell him and kiss him. Of course I timed it as to where I'd show up just as he was waking up so we took a shower together. We blew each other but that's as far as we went this morning. I loved rubbing his chest and caressing his nipples. His chest is so awesome.

Sorry, I've gotten off track.

We need a GLBT Chatroom on AIM or something.

EDIT- Forgot to mention this but....

Is it just me or are gay men generally more horny and a better fuck than straight women? I've had better sex with my man than I have with any woman. I could have never did what I did this morning to any girl that I have ever dated.

 

[fella63]

Details

Man, I love the details!! They make my cock throb. Pics would be nice, but for obvious reasons, I understand your not wanting to post them. How did you like your first taste of cum? What was going through your mind when you had his cock in your mouth and you knew he was getting close to exploding? Did you share that hot juice in a deep kiss? What is your favorite position? Can you deep throat him? How big is he/you? Details, Man, they make my cock throb.

Fella

 

[Man with a Plan]

Re: Details

Man, I love the details!! They make my cock throb. Pics would be nice, but for obvious reasons, I understand your not wanting to post them. How did you like your first taste of cum? What was going through your mind when you had his cock in your mouth and you knew he was getting close to exploding? Did you share that hot juice in a deep kiss? What is your favorite position? Can you deep throat him? How big is he/you? Details, Man, they make my cock throb.

Fella

Our first time was so hot. I'd say that our Yankees/Red Sox Sex session ranks as hottest though. Having a cock in my mouth felt surprisingly natural. I just sucked it, felt a little nervous at first but when I looked up and saw his face I just kept going. When I knew he was close, all I could think of was "I hope it tastes good." It tasted good and then we kissed before he went down on me. We finished off our first time with a 69. Cum tasted very good, felt hot to share it with him twice. I'd say that we are average in cock size, I never measure him nor me. Not quite experienced enough to deep throat.

Not really a sexual position but I love to have him on top of me kissing my body, working his way down to my cock with our cocks touching. I'm getting a huge hard-on remembering it. It's just so hot. I love his ass so I can slap it and admire it all day long. I just love fucking it and reaching around to feel him jerking off while I'm fucking his ass.

EDIT- I'm about to head to his house in a little while, keep the thread active while I'm off having sex.

 

[theoneadd2]

Break it off if he loves the Yankees nothing good can come from this. Do it before he gets you to join the dark side.

 

[Man with a Plan]

Break it off if he loves the Yankees nothing good can come from this. Do it before he gets you to join the dark side.

Makes for a fun baseball season for us. Just imagine the sex that we can have based on that.

Writing all of this is making me so horny all over again.

Anybody interested in hearing about our sex last night?

 

[Man with a Plan]

I hope that someone is reading. If you are, I would like you to post something telling me whether or not you find this interesting at all.

Last night was great, I arrived around midnight. He met me at the door with a kiss. So he answered the door wearing a t-shirt and jeans as he had just got home from work and changed quickly. He was wearing tight pants so his tight ass was visible. Anyway, I lift up his shirt and lower myself to kiss his abs. I drop to my knees and take off his pants. I give him a blowjob. That hard cock in my mouth. He took off his shirt as I was blowing him. He came, I swallowed. We shared it with a kiss. 10 Minutes later, we're up in the bedroom with him fucking my ass. I jerk off while he's doing it. We change up and now I fuck his ass. We do some more things. It all ends with us in bed together with me on top of him sleeping as we usually sleep with one on top of the other. He looks up to me and asked me if I'd been transformed into a complete gay guy yet. In the heat of the passion, I said "yes baby."


I need a personal opinion, after reading all of this. Do you think that I could actually be gay and not just bisexual?

 

[SweetErika]

I hope that someone is reading. If you are, I would like you to post something telling me whether or not you find this interesting at all.

Last night was great, I arrived around midnight. He met me at the door with a kiss. So he answered the door wearing a t-shirt and jeans as he had just got home from work and changed quickly. He was wearing tight pants so his tight ass was visible. Anyway, I lift up his shirt and lower myself to kiss his abs. I drop to my knees and take off his pants. I give him a blowjob. That hard cock in my mouth. He took off his shirt as I was blowing him. He came, I swallowed. We shared it with a kiss. 10 Minutes later, we're up in the bedroom with him fucking my ass. I jerk off while he's doing it. We change up and now I fuck his ass. We do some more things. It all ends with us in bed together with me on top of him sleeping as we usually sleep with one on top of the other. He looks up to me and asked me if I'd been transformed into a complete gay guy yet. In the heat of the passion, I said "yes baby."


I need a personal opinion, after reading all of this. Do you think that I could actually be gay and not just bisexual?

Only you can know that for sure. Maybe you are bi, but have a preference for men. Maybe you're gay. My opinion is it doesn't really matter what label you use as long as you're happy with who you are and what you're doing.

 

[Man with a Plan]

Only you can know that for sure. Maybe you are bi, but have a preference for men. Maybe you're gay. My opinion is it doesn't really matter what label you use as long as you're happy with who you are and what you're doing.

Probably, even though prior to meeting him, I had a strong attraction to females but he's so good in bed that he actually almost turns me gay. He's usually easier to get into bed and hey, only a man truly knows how he is making the other man feel.

Is there anything hotter than holding a man close with his cock rubbing against you?

 

[SweetErika]

Probably, even though prior to meeting him, I had a strong attraction to females but he's so good in bed that he actually almost turns me gay. He's usually easier to get into bed and hey, only a man truly knows how he is making the other man feel.

Is there anything hotter than holding a man close with his cock rubbing against you?

Well, I think sexuality is biological, but you can certainly have different preferences at different points in your life. It sounds like meeting him has simply revealed your full attraction and preference for men (or maybe just this one man), but your attraction to women is probably still there as well.

The only thing hotter than holding a man close with his cock rubbing against me is holding a woman close with her breasts and pussy rubbing against me. That's just MY preference though.

 

[Man with a Plan]

Well, I think sexuality is biological, but you can certainly have different preferences at different points in your life. It sounds like meeting him has simply revealed your full attraction and preference for men (or maybe just this one man), but your attraction to women is probably still there as well.

The only thing hotter than holding a man close with his cock rubbing against me is holding a woman close with her breasts and pussy rubbing against me. That's just MY preference though.

I agree that sexuality is biological (a position also supported by John Kerry, VOTE KERRY). I am just so much in love with him that it makes me wonder a bit. I'd love to discuss this with you on AIM. Do you have it?

 

[SweetErika]

Nope, I don't chat usually. You can PM me though! I'm getting off for awhile to have dinner and relax, but I'll respond.

 

[Man with a Plan]

Nope, I don't chat usually. You can PM me though! I'm getting off for awhile to have dinner and relax, but I'll respond.

I'll say something here first and maybe you can respond to this when you get back. Do you find that your same sex partner relationships tend to be more sexually stimulating than your opposite sex ones. I mean, my man truly knows how he's making me feel and vice versa. I suck his cock and I know how much pleasure it brings him. I basically know what to do to make him happy based on my own body. I love him and I could see myself with him for the rest of my life. My interest in women has been decreasing since I met him.

 

[SweetErika]

I'll say something here first and maybe you can respond to this when you get back. Do you find that your same sex partner relationships tend to be more sexually stimulating than your opposite sex ones. I mean, my man truly knows how he's making me feel and vice versa. I suck his cock and I know how much pleasure it brings him. I basically know what to do to make him happy based on my own body. I love him and I could see myself with him for the rest of my life. My interest in women has been decreasing since I met him.

Well, I think it's natural for your interest in others (same or opposite sex) to decrease when you're immersed in a relationship. I don't give more than a passing thought to other men...my husband fills that spot completely.

Take this with a grain of salt because I haven't had a lot of same-sex experience...I do find women more exciting and arousing, but I think most of that is the novelty of it because I've had the same feelings for men. The other factor is that I feel a deeper connection with women, and the almost spiritual quality to the sex is exciting.

Now I know you're on the new-relationship/experience high, but take care in declaring your undying love for him. You are probably deeply in lust, but have you really spent enough time together to truly love him and think you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Highly unlikely. I'm only mentioning this because I've been in your shoes and in hindsight, I set myself up for a hard fall when the relationship didn't work down the line. Build your friendship, have the best sex of your life, and if it's meant to be, real love will come in time.

 

[Man with a Plan]

Well, I think it's natural for your interest in others (same or opposite sex) to decrease when you're immersed in a relationship. I don't give more than a passing thought to other men...my husband fills that spot completely.

Take this with a grain of salt because I haven't had a lot of same-sex experience...I do find women more exciting and arousing, but I think most of that is the novelty of it because I've had the same feelings for men. The other factor is that I feel a deeper connection with women, and the almost spiritual quality to the sex is exciting.

Now I know you're on the new-relationship/experience high, but take care in declaring your undying love for him. You are probably deeply in lust, but have you really spent enough time together to truly love him and think you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Highly unlikely. I'm only mentioning this because I've been in your shoes and in hindsight, I set myself up for a hard fall when the relationship didn't work down the line. Build your friendship, have the best sex of your life, and if it's meant to be, real love will come in time.

I know what you're saying. In addition to having sex, we are great friends. We watch TV together and hang out like any normal friend would, except we like to have sex so there is a degree of love there. I may be trapped in some lust. I'll give an example of what usually happens when I'm at his place sometimes

I'll show up around midnight and if we aren't extra horny, we'll have a couple of sodas and discuss what ever is going on and our common interests before heading up to the room and having sex. Sex with him is great, he knows how to work a cock and everything. So the sex and communication are great.

 

[deezire1900]

Did you use a condom?

 

[Man with a Plan]

Did you use a condom?

Yes but we are thinking of going without one soon. We trust each other that much. Not sure, I really don't like condom and I like giving him a blowjob without the condom on.