I felt dirty

[ManOSafety]

Last weekend we had a Christmas Program at my church and I played a wiseman (yes, it was a stretch, I thought they wanted wise GUYS)...anyway, as I was hanging out in Herod's Palace, they had a group of four girls (including my niece) that did a couple of dance numbers for Herod and the Wise Men. So, I'm sitting there watching these girls and find myself thinking, "Hmmm, she's really got a nice ass on her...I'd love to see her naked...I bet she'd be great in bed..." Fortunately, none of these thoughts were about my niece, just her friends, but I still feel a little weird about it.

 

[Juliangel]

How old are they?

 

[ManOSafety]

Oh yeah

I guess that is relevant...

18 and 19, but it wasn't there age that made me feel weird, I think it's the fact that they are my niece's friends (so maybe age does play some role, I'm not really sure) and the fact that we were at the church as I had these thoughts...

 

[Nicole]

Okay well how old are you? Not being nosey but, if the age does come into it, then how old are you?

Thinking it and acting on it are two different things. Don't panic too much.

 

[ManOSafety]

I'm 33 and have no intention of acting on it, just made me feel wierd

If I were single, I don't think I'd have a problem with a 14-15 year age difference necessarily, but the fact that they are my niece's age, makes me think of it a bit differently, it becomes, "wait a second, this is the same age as Julie..."

 

[Nicole]

BUT, you said you wouldn't act on it.

Do you have the same feelings when a girl that age walks down the street? No, becuase you don't associate your neice to them.

Don't panic too much, it was just one of those things.

Good Luck anyway. By the way 33 is perfect (thinking to self Mmmmmmmmmmm)

 

[ManOSafety]

Perfect for what hmmmm??? Do tell, do tell pleasepleaseplease...

And i'm not really worried about it, just thought i'd mention it

 

[TonyG]

Nothing to fret about. When my daughters were in high school, I went to many father-daughter dances. There I would be around her friends whom I normally saw in jeans and sweats. Now they were all dressed up and I found myself thinking ...these girls are hot looking. I mentioned it to some of the other "dads" and we had all been thinking the same thing.

 

[Guru]

 

[Alyrahh]

ManOSafety

Rest assured, there's nothing wrong with what you were thinking. If you didn't have those kind of thoughts when you saw a young, firm package then that would be reason to worry. LOL

Oh, and don't think the girls don't know what you're thinking either. I remember when I was that age, I was keenly aware of my friends fathers and male relataives attention. 'Course I was, and still am, a horrible tease.. so I found myself doing/wearing things to attract their attention all the more. Especially at that age, it gives the girl a sense of power.

 

[livin_simple]

Guess this input will sort of head things in a slightly different direction.
I've found that virtually every woman I see gets passed through an internal filter that could be labeled "Sexual Partner Potential". It doesn't matter where I am or who the person is, they are first evaluated with this filter and then life continues forward.
This filter has been active since puberty and was not disabled through marriage or life-after-marriage. And no, it wasn't a factor in the current 'life-after-marriage' state I've found myself in.
Am I grossly over-hormoned or is this common enough to be considered 'normal male'?

 

[Countess DeWinter]

MoS, there's certainly nothing for you to feel bad about 18-19 year old girls are still untouched by gravity. I'd be more concerned if you didn't look!
On a similar note, why the hell do you think I go to so many high school football games? (I'm your age, btw ) It's not because we have a great team (we do) but because there's nothing like watching all that raging testosterone and knowing now what I didn't know as much of then.
But Guru's right. Fantasy's fine, as fantasy. I'll take an older, more knowlegable man over a 19 year old any day.

 

[Merelan]

But now we know what to wear to turn him on...

 

[TN_Vixen]

Man-o

I completely relate. I remember the first time I was attracted to a man my father's age and at first thought it was like, "Wow, he's sexy, I wonder..." and then the thought process veered to "Ewww, wait a min, he's my DAD'S age" hehe

Perfectly normal to be attracted to young pretty women and feel weird about it because they are your neice's friends. Get past the "ewww" factor and you'll be ok. *smile*

 

[Guest]

I tend to like men much older than myself. Men 45 to 55 really appeal to me. Even when I was 18 or 19 like your young teasers. You never know one of them may have been checking you out too. But nothing happened ...no one hurt... and a fantasy was born without consequences. Sounds like you just have a bad case of oh ... oh ... Nooooooo HORMONES!!!

 

[Andra_Jenny]

I went to my youngest sister's graduation. Came home with a lifetime lover.








No it wasn't her, you perve! Get it back in!

 

[ManOSafety]

Hmmmm....

I appreciate all of the feedback, but now you ladies telling me that these young hotties were flirting with me and teasing me as changed my wierd feelings to horniness...lol, j/k

Thanks for the replies everyone