i fell in love tonight....

[wizbit9]

with a beautiful girl

she was the voice of reason, the face of an angel and the heart of a princess.

what do i do??????

 

[stargazer]

Are you saying that there is a problem here?

 

[nasty1]

What do you mean? You date her, and, hopefully, getting laid comes later.

 

[Ice Cold]

Well if you think there is a chance.... start feeling her out, to see if she might feel the same as you.

 

[wizbit9]

Well if you think there is a chance.... start feeling her out, to see if she might feel the same as you.

i think she does but she's 5yrs younger than me and i dont want to come across using my experiance to woo her

 

[Ice Cold]

Just be open and honest with her. If you are then the age and experience should not come into play, beause she will like you for who you really are.

 

[nasty1]

i think she does but she's 5yrs younger than me and i dont want to come across using my experiance to woo her

THat type of age difference is nothing,(unless you're 22. Think about it. )

 

[katori]

If I was in your position, I'd be painfully shy, and try to telepathically communicate my intense adoration while avoiding actually speaking to her much for fear of making a fool of myself, and destroying at least the illusion of having a chance.

Probably not the best course of action, though. That's just what I would do.

 

[stargazer]

Age should make no difference. Communication and connection-that is what you should focus on.

Hope things work out for you. Being in love is wonderful; loving, even better.

 

[nasty1]

I'd do the same thing. I guess taht's why I've only dated 2 woman in my life.

 

[katori]

I'd do the same thing. I guess taht's why I've only dated 2 woman in my life.

I've only actually dated one, but had sex with two, and a guy. And had a li'l orgy with three friends--But that's all due to luck and them taking the initiative. Learn from our mistakes, wizbit. But keep an open mind (that's how I was able to take advantage of those enjoyable opportunities that did happen to come along.)

 

[#1tankcomander]

PERSUE, PERSUE, PERSUE.......

If you don't, you might have lost the love of your life!!!!! If everything clicks, then go for it!!!!! You won't be sorry!
I presued my SO for a year till she broke down for just a date with me, we've been together for 18 years, married for 16!!
At least check it out. Age has no boundries, believe me!!!

 

[Ezarc]

Wizbit9,
Follow your heart. If it tells you to go for it, then go with all your love. For love is a precious thing that should never be put aside or left to fester. Chase your passion and even if you should not attain the shared love at least you let it try. To not try is something to regret, trying is something that is never forgotten or regretted.
Take Care and Love Hard,
Ezarc

 

[nasty1]

I've only actually dated one, but had sex with two, and a guy. And had a li'l orgy with three friends--But that's all due to luck and them taking the initiative. Learn from our mistakes, wizbit. But keep an open mind (that's how I was able to take advantage of those enjoyable opportunities that did happen to come along.)

Well, hell. You're doing better than me. I've only blown a guy, twice. But, because of my disability, it may make sex impossible. At least, I've already decided, unless a miracle happens with my private areas, and, they become larger, overnight, then, I'm gonna HAVE to abstain from intercourse. I'd be TOO insecure to even have a woman look at my penis. No matter how many times I hear, "Size doesn't matter," it just wont help. Sorry about the rant & the hijacking.

 

[LukkyKnight]

5 years matters if she's under 21, I suppose... by the time you're into the mid to upper 20s that's not a huge interval by any means.

 

[KellyFong]

LOL. Um, regardless of age, if you're asking 'what do I do' on a message board, I doubt she's in too much danger of being beguiled by your 'experience'. Your experiences in life make up who you are, and most girls that I know, myself included are much happier when a guy isn't acting and is confident enough to just be himself.

Good luck

Kel