Mrswargamer9dash1
Virgin
- Joined
- Sep 17, 2025
- Posts
- 13
Got the comfy chair and the raspberry beverage trying to chill
Why am I here? I was active in 2000, then life happens
I knew someone on here (connected to the life happens)
I tried to find them randomly over the years, Google searches got nowhere
Yesterday I saw a 2022 entry from them, thought "they must be still active here"
So I 'joined up' my past account was so long ago I have no knowledge of it any more
Yes I want to contact them. Trying to figure out how, so that they actually know it's me
The problem is how to actually do that (within the rules)
I'm not here just for the above though. I do still want to contribute stories. Not sure they are spicy enough to entertain any of the membership though.
Anyone want to hear about how I married my teddy bear? Or a strange story about how I had my mind transferred into a cis female body? Or my first work about how the ghost of a man's departed wife told him I was the one, that she liked me for him?
In my past account, I wrote dumb ass schlock that I think was 2 dimensional. But I am now many years past transitioning. I'm transgender and in 2000 well I sure had no idea I was. So my writngs reflect this change.
Sadly, I have NOT found any manner of 'happy community' of transgender persons online. Even on sites expressly devoted to my own kind. In fact my worst experiences online have actually been with transgender forums. So I would be impressed if this site turns out to be 'safe' when all others have failed.
I'm ex military, yes there really is a lot of ex military trans. But the world of the military has not been 'easy' for me
Woodworking, nope. Modeling, nope. Name most social media sites and the result is nope. Today right now, I don't feel like I belong in most places. I think it is partly because most people like me, tend to be dead before 63. I feel out of place talking to people more than 10 years younger than me. Which is almost all of the transgender world.
My account being labelled 'Virgin' is amusing. Well technically I have not had a man yet (since the surgery).
I'm hoping my rambling post illustrates I'm not afraid to type. My grammar might suck though. I'd always thought my brother would be m editor. But he just retired, so I guess maybe not. He was a sports editor for a large newspaper in Ottawa.
Anyway, I posted this here. I hope the lounge is correct enough.
Why am I here? I was active in 2000, then life happens
I knew someone on here (connected to the life happens)
I tried to find them randomly over the years, Google searches got nowhere
Yesterday I saw a 2022 entry from them, thought "they must be still active here"
So I 'joined up' my past account was so long ago I have no knowledge of it any more
Yes I want to contact them. Trying to figure out how, so that they actually know it's me
The problem is how to actually do that (within the rules)
I'm not here just for the above though. I do still want to contribute stories. Not sure they are spicy enough to entertain any of the membership though.
Anyone want to hear about how I married my teddy bear? Or a strange story about how I had my mind transferred into a cis female body? Or my first work about how the ghost of a man's departed wife told him I was the one, that she liked me for him?
In my past account, I wrote dumb ass schlock that I think was 2 dimensional. But I am now many years past transitioning. I'm transgender and in 2000 well I sure had no idea I was. So my writngs reflect this change.
Sadly, I have NOT found any manner of 'happy community' of transgender persons online. Even on sites expressly devoted to my own kind. In fact my worst experiences online have actually been with transgender forums. So I would be impressed if this site turns out to be 'safe' when all others have failed.
I'm ex military, yes there really is a lot of ex military trans. But the world of the military has not been 'easy' for me
Woodworking, nope. Modeling, nope. Name most social media sites and the result is nope. Today right now, I don't feel like I belong in most places. I think it is partly because most people like me, tend to be dead before 63. I feel out of place talking to people more than 10 years younger than me. Which is almost all of the transgender world.
My account being labelled 'Virgin' is amusing. Well technically I have not had a man yet (since the surgery).
I'm hoping my rambling post illustrates I'm not afraid to type. My grammar might suck though. I'd always thought my brother would be m editor. But he just retired, so I guess maybe not. He was a sports editor for a large newspaper in Ottawa.
Anyway, I posted this here. I hope the lounge is correct enough.
