i feel hurt.

[Silverluna]

this guy in some of my classes, Enrique , has been VERY friendly in what to me might be considered a "flirting" behavior....for about 2 months now...and as any one might do , I flirted back....not a major way , but i smiled a lot, giggled, ect (im not good at flirting detection and execution of this techniqe....)

And tonight the bombshell was dropped....(we were role playing and his girlfriend kept calling...) He said, "sorry guys (there were more than just me there) my girlfriend wanted to know what i was doing..." I swear I felt like falling down into the cracks of humiliation and despare....
Here I was 99.9% sure this guy was REALLY flirting...i mean you don't walk a girl to her car, of your own free will, you don't invite her over late at night to watch movies on a couch...(ok so nothing happened) you don't make it a point to talk to this girl if you aren't some what intrested.....(to me anyway) He never mentioned this "girlfriend" before....until now.

I will admit chances are I am just upset and not thinking very well right now...but i am still hurting...mostly its because i was so foolish...

~Hurting Luna~

 

[Silverluna]

what a way to start a supposed great weekend...

please excuse and spelling or gramatical errors i might be commiting, its hard to think about that stuff....

 

[Lancecastor]

Sorry Luna...

That sucks.

But there is a valuable lesson in this for you and young women everywhere:

"Never, ever even think about getting gooey over any guy named Enrique."

 

[Ms_Lilith]

*hugs you tight, and hands you chocolate and a teddybear*

Wanna do voodoo?

*grin*

I'm sorry you're hurt, love.

 

[Cerberus666]

Dude probably was interested in you, hence the not mentioning of girlfriend. men are pigs, I hate us.

 

[curious2c]

Oh hon' I know what you are feeling. I was interested in a girl once who I was sure was flirting with me in a serious way. I really went out on a limb and asked her out (this was in High school) and after she got done laughing in my face I discovered that she wasn't all that nice, let alone as sweet and innocent as I had thought.

I had some other friends who knew what it had taken for me to go so far as asking her out and they were very supportive, but it still hurt a whole bunch.

Funny, I have never forgotten that. I never got angry with her, just hurt. Later, (after Highschool) she put the make on me at a bar. I ignored her, sure that she was playing me again. Moved away shortly after that night and even more years later I discovered that she had really felt bad about laughing at me, and then I guess I gained something after highschool that caused her to really want to be with me and it was too late. I can still remember that laugh though. Causes me to really think about waht I say and how I act around others to this day.

The hurt may never go all the way away, but it will soften and then, when you least expect it, someone special will come along and you will not remember this jackass in the same way. He has lost out on a beautiful and intelligent woman in you.

 

[lost]

*hugs*

 

[Shaq]

this guy in some of my classes, Enrique , has been VERY friendly in what to me might be considered a "flirting" behavior....for about 2 months now...and as any one might do , I flirted back....not a major way , but i smiled a lot, giggled, ect (im not good at flirting detection and execution of this techniqe....)

And tonight the bombshell was dropped....(we were role playing and his girlfriend kept calling...) He said, "sorry guys (there were more than just me there) my girlfriend wanted to know what i was doing..." I swear I felt like falling down into the cracks of humiliation and despare....
Here I was 99.9% sure this guy was REALLY flirting...i mean you don't walk a girl to her car, of your own free will, you don't invite her over late at night to watch movies on a couch...(ok so nothing happened) you don't make it a point to talk to this girl if you aren't some what intrested.....(to me anyway) He never mentioned this "girlfriend" before....until now.

I will admit chances are I am just upset and not thinking very well right now...but i am still hurting...mostly its because i was so foolish...

~Hurting Luna~

Solace AKA Silver Lining AKA Lil bit of crack left in the pipe= He was interested in you just not in a romantic courting way. You must be a person he wanted to hang around a care about. And maybe he's laying the "groundwork" for a future thing. Be his friend and figure the same qualities he liked about you someone else will.

And your roleplaying...was it Everquest?

 

[Shaq]

*hugs you tight, and hands you chocolate and a teddybear*

Wanna do voodoo?

*grin*

I'm sorry you're hurt, love.

Would you like to mate with me this season? We'd better do it now...hibernation isn't but a couple months away for me...

 

[Silverluna]

a sort of catharsis?

you know the sort of thing that makes you deal with all your feelings that have been building up since before you really can remember? and suddenly gushing them all out in about 30 mins?? well that's what its like now...im sobbing..and if there was a theme song to punctuate this moment it would be Staind's Epiphany...

 

[Lancecastor]

Dude probably was interested in you, hence the not mentioning of girlfriend. men are pigs, I hate us.

Well, yes, of course he likes you Luna.

If you dig him you should look him in the eye and tell him.

But don't forget The Enrique Factor.

 

[Silverluna]

Re: Re: i feel hurt.

Solace AKA Silver Lining AKA Lil bit of crack left in the pipe= He was interested in you just not in a romantic courting way. You must be a person he wanted to hang around a care about. And maybe he's laying the "groundwork" for a future thing. Be his friend and figure the same qualities he liked about you someone else will.

And your roleplaying...was it Everquest?

thanks...it was D&D...he's in 3 of my classes, AND in a student gov concil with me...i can't avoid this guy...my pride is so fragile right now...i swear if there was a way to just DISAPEAR ...then i'd do it...

 

[Shaq]

Re: Re: Re: i feel hurt.

thanks...it was D&D...he's in 3 of my classes, AND in a student gov concil with me...i can't avoid this guy...my pride is so fragile right now...i swear if there was a way to just DISAPEAR ...then i'd do it...

Weekend will give you time to recover...and just cause he has a girlfriend doesn't mean he wasn't flirting...

 

[Silverluna]

this always happens...

always....unavoidable, you think i would learn not to take it so bad....i never was a quick learner...

 

[Silverluna]

*hugs you tight, and hands you chocolate and a teddybear*

Wanna do voodoo?

*grin*

I'm sorry you're hurt, love.

no. karma will do what it will to "avenge" the situation....might just need to wave the flag a bit and get its attention but karma usually will handle such things....not always a good move , but its nessesary...

 

[Silverluna]

im going to bed now, i hope i can get some rest...goodnight and thank you for letting me rant...