I don't know why I stray from the BDSM boards

tealsphynx

It Goes Both Ways...
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Some times I glance over the General Board, though I rarely have anything to talk about there. Through my wanderings I've realized some things:

1. The BDSM boards are slower than the General Boards, therefore easier for me to keep track of.
I'm not online too often these days and following a thread on the GB normally requires too much involvement.
To me the BDSM boards move slower because the people here don't post just because they can. Yes there's thread hijacks and parodies, but not like on the GB.

2. There are less trolls on the BDSM boards. Yes we get them occasionally, but for the most part the people here choose to ignore them instead of fueling their fire.
It seems the people on the GB just want to have a place and a reason to argue so they do at every chance that might peek around the corner at them.

3. The people here on the BDSM boards are more than willing to share their experiences no matter how often somebody does a topic that has already been discussed. They also will help search through the archives for thread topics already discussed to help people get as much of an answer as they need. I've seen countess "Noob wondering what BDSM is threads" and every response I've seen is warm and welcoming.

I remember my first days here on the board. I remember my first post, it was a thread questioning about homage. I remember getting some wonderful responses from the people here at the BDSM boards. It seems like the only way to get accepted on the GB is to pick who you're going to agree with and argue with any body who disagrees with them. It's to tough to follow, and often very affending.

This is just my way of saying thank you to all the people here on the BDSM boards for making this a wonderful community! :rose:
 
So far, these have been the best forums I've ever been on. For a person who spends upwards of 6 hours a day online, that is saying quite a bit.

I have no life. :D
 
O'Mac said:
<snip>I have no life. :D

That's because you live in Canada. Move down here to the States, and you'll get a life. :D



Note! This is a JOKE, CCutie and any other of our Canadian friends who might think about feeling insulted...

Edited to add: Glad you like it here - 'tis a pretty good place to hang out. :)
 
I don't think I've ever been to the general board or ANY other board on this forum. I don't even know what other boards there are...I came here for the BDSM board and the rest of the crap just doesn't interest me.

From the sounds of it, the general board is the online version of going back to high school.
 
serijules said:
I don't think I've ever been to the general board or ANY other board on this forum. I don't even know what other boards there are...I came here for the BDSM board and the rest of the crap just doesn't interest me.

From the sounds of it, the general board is the online version of going back to high school.
LOL that's a good way of putting it! Funny because everyone there talks about how it is an ADULT forum!

I have almost no life, I either am on the internet or doing house work (that needs to be done), both of which normally involve my baby in my arms.....wait a minute, it's not no life...just life as a new mother! Lol, I love my life and woulnd't have it any other way.
 
tealsphynx said:
LOL that's a good way of putting it! Funny because everyone there talks about how it is an ADULT forum!

Most teenagers in or just out of high school think they are adults too. Some of them even post on this board, heh.

tealsphynx said:
I have almost no life, I either am on the internet or doing house work (that needs to be done), both of which normally involve my baby in my arms.....wait a minute, it's not no life...just life as a new mother! Lol, I love my life and woulnd't have it any other way.

I'm truly jealous :) Been wanting to be a mother as long as I can remember...just don't feel the time is right yet, or that I am ready. I'll be one of those older mommies I reckon.
 
That's because you live in Canada. Move down here to the States, and you'll get a life.

I'll take my chances up north, thank-you. :D
 
I'm truly jealous :) Been wanting to be a mother as long as I can remember...just don't feel the time is right yet, or that I am ready. I'll be one of those older mommies I reckon.[/QUOTE]
Mine came sooner than planned, but I don't regret a moment of it. :D
 
I like dual citizenship.

There are tons of pervs on the GB. This forum is great but a bit small-townish.
 
rosco rathbone said:
I like dual citizenship.

There are tons of pervs on the GB. This forum is great but a bit small-townish.

My dual citizenship is on the queer board and this one, and I like it, it's like being in two small towns. My one complaint and it's pretty small, the GLBT board is given to...well kinda silly questions from myriad horny bicurious married guys, God love 'em. I've peeked in on the GB, weighed in a few times, but realized that any ongoing engagement there would suck up more time than I could stand.
 
I have wandered down the other corridors and have lingered in the GB, but not often

Usually just to let them know one of the trolls have escaped or to perv on Dolfs latest AV.

Sometimes the cat fights are amusing but I don't join in; I usually prefer to stand and watch
(being shy and everything :rolleyes:).

I have also ventured into the 'How too' boards and found people their friendly.

I like the GLBT boards, they often give an interesting perspective on some of the topics we have discussed here, and I have looked there for advice about specific things.
People on there are friendly and don't give you a hard time simply because its not your usual hang out.

As to the BDSM boards, they are sometimes a little slow and can be overzealous on non-BDSM topics at times.

Sometimes the boards are boring.

Yes, I really did say that!!

But, the BDSM boards, for the most part, suit me.

Its a good place to hang out, laugh, have fun, cry, find other people who have 'been there, done that,' ask questions and get 101 alternate perspectives that you never would have thought of, all of which are both right and wrong.

What more is there?
 
Sir_Winston54 said:
Note! This is a JOKE, CCutie and any other of our Canadian friends who might think about feeling insulted...

You don't know what you're saying. I mean, you got South Dakota. South Fucking Dakota!





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Anyways, these boards are ok. I spend about 2-3 hours actually perusing the boards, littering between 10-30 posts when I am not working. My post count has gone up substantially in the last three months (3-4,000 posts). Still, only my second favourite site. As for the BDSM forums, they're ok. A bit slow for me to hang around here only.
 
Xelebes said:
You don't know what you're saying. I mean, you got South Dakota. South Fucking Dakota!

Don't forget North Dakota!

Everyone forgets North Dakota.
 
The BDSM board is my home, but I do go to the GB every once in a while to do battle or ask a question where a higher population is helpful.
 
Wow, small world! I used to work with someone from North Dakota.

Gosh, the two of you must make.... what? 5% of the population?

:p
 
aI like to look around.

I've been to and posted on most of the boards at least once.

So far I've had no problems. Oh wait once some chick, something Fairy or other I think it was, who had helped me with my avatar said she didn't like Furry. I think it was her and that was why it surprised me so much. I asked very specifically, listing her options, what she meant by that. I guess she could tell from my tone I was willing to take it to the wall, I usually am. Anyway as far as I know she never answered. I usually unsubscribe from threads pretty quickly. I get more than enough e-mail, if they aren't talking to me or about something I still care about I pull the thread out.

Overall though people have been pretty darned nice. There are some real freaks over there though. Personally, I don't feed the trolls, unless I've poisoned it. Remember the Oreos! LOL!

Okay someone just waved their ass at me. I'm thinking it's time to log off and hit it.

*grins*

Fury




:rose:
 
onceburned said:
Wow, small world! I used to work with someone from North Dakota.

Gosh, the two of you must make.... what? 5% of the population?

:p


Someone else used to live here??

Damnit, why doesn't anyone tell me this stuff!

Seriously though, it's kind of amusing. Everyone knows someone that "used to live" in North Dakota, which isn't that interesting in and of itself, but the way they say is more like "omg, I know someone that is from Antarctica!" or something. It's funny to me because I'm sitting there thinking, well cripes, ND is this whole huge state (albeit a rather unpopulated huge state lol) and people act like it's another world or something.

Which, granted, it probably is LOL
 
serijules said:
*sniff* It's where lonely old me lives, all by my kinky self.

My paternal side of the family hails from that state. And then they moved to Saskatchewan.
 
*newbie post alert*

I can't seem to find a groove anywhere here, probably because I don't post enough, and certainly don't suck enough ass. I've posted on the ampix board a bit, but I tend to thank people in bunches, and then quit, rather than slobber over every post where someone says "nice tits".

I lurk here a great deal though...and hope maybe someday I'll fit in somewhere.
 
Kimberleigh65 said:
*newbie post alert*

I can't seem to find a groove anywhere here, probably because I don't post enough, and certainly don't suck enough ass. I've posted on the ampix board a bit, but I tend to thank people in bunches, and then quit, rather than slobber over every post where someone says "nice tits".

I lurk here a great deal though...and hope maybe someday I'll fit in somewhere.

I used to think the popular folk were just such because they sucked a lot of ass. The truth is, most of the ass-kissing you see among any members with a post count higher than 1000 is pretty genuine. A lot of us have been posting here for a while, and when we compliment each other we mean it.
 
shy slave said:
I have wandered down the other corridors and have lingered in the GB, but not often

Usually just to let them know one of the trolls have escaped or to perv on Dolfs latest AV.

QUOTE]
Yes Dolf's AV's almost makes weeding through the GB for something I want to read worth the trouble. I do get tired of the americans that bash america, but I just ignore them any more.
 
The GB is so time-consuming. I can't even imagine having the energy to post there constantly. I peek every now and then (very infrequently) and I started a thread there once when I was REALLY bored and restless... And it continued all night, and was pretty entertaining, but all fluff.

The BDSM forum is small-townish as Rosco said. But hey, I come from a VERY small town (and island, lol.) It suits me just fine. :)


Plus, we have the best people around, in my humble opinon. :cool:
 
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