I could use some help guys!

[SlowMoe]

Ok everyone, I need some help here. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and everytime I give him head or a hand job I can not get him to cum. He alway has to finish himself. How can I get him to cum? Thanks for any suggestions.





SlowMoe

 

[SexyChele]

Have you tried asking him or talking to him? Just as with us women, each guy does himself a little differently. I also know there are men out there who just can't orgasm from oral sex.

You could try this: ask him to masturbate for you and watch very carefully what he does. What movements does he make? Does he start off slow? Does he play with his balls? How so? How much pressure does he apply. Don't get involved, just watch - and take good mental notes!

The first step, though, is to talk to him. His answer might just surprise you!

 

[Different Guy]

Definately talk to him. 3 years should mean you're open with each other. The first 2 times I got head from my partner, which was the first time I ever had it from anyone, I was nervous and just was not relaxed enough to cum. There might just be a mental barrier of him cumming in your mouth or something, just talk to him.

 

[DuckLover]

I've had the same problem. Since you've been together 3 years, it's probably not a nerves issue. Are you maintaining lots of eye contact? That can be a major key. For me, another issue is knowing that SHE is really turned on; the more excited I can tell she is, the closer I get to cumming. So all those little moans and gasps and stuff really help.

 

[Lust Engine]

You just might not be able to make him cum via a handjob. While I'm sure he enjoys it thoroughly, it just might not be the thing that brings him over that edge. I'm sure you watch him intently as he gets himself off. Is there some clue as to his grip or technique that might help? Or it could just be HIS approach with squeezing, pacing & his own breathing that you can't duplicate. Don't be down on the fact that you can't get him off this way. You still get him closer to that brink than you realize.

I'm sure you have more in your arsenal that could make him cum though. Don't give up trying all kinds of things though; that's half the fun right there!

Every guy should be this lucky!

 

[throbbingcock]

Dont worry when I first was with my G/F she would spend upto 2 hours sucking her jaw would hurt for days after. Now she can make me cumm in about 30 mins (sucking) handjob she has never made me cumm that way she is still trying.