I can't orgasm either

[twistedpair]

Hi All,
Me again. I posted a thread about my girlfriend not being able to orgasm from internal stimulation. Here is another related question, but it needs a new thread. The problem with us is twofold. Not only can she not be able to get an orgasm with me in her, but I have had considerable difficulty doing the same. In fact the only two orgasms I have had was with me thrusting her clitoral area outside of her! The problem has to do with the fact that I can't feel anything in my penis anymore. Well, better put, I can't feel much. When I reached orgasm the first two times, it had nothing to do with how my penis was being stimulated, but by virtue of the motion that we were engaged in (I think). I am wondering how normal this is. I am 25 BTW. I would expect to have this problem at 40 or so . . . Any ideas on how to fix this problem?

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[Wizard]

Nope not normal....not at all....just might want to see a Dr. about that one....can you get yourself off?..................

 

[WriterDom]

you expect this problem at 40? I'm over forty but don't feel my cock has aged at all. If only my greying hair, failing eyesight and hearing was the same

 

[twistedpair]

Wizard,
I can get myself off, but I have to rely much more on imagination than I have in the past. The more I think about it, the more I think I should take your advice and see a doc about it.

Thanx!

 

[ericred50]

Well twistedpair, I think you are trying to hard, try abstaining, for a few days. And have a look at some of the erotic stories, on this site. Failing that I would see a doctor, I may be able to help your girl friend though.

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[Juliet]

I don't even have a cock and I'll tell you this one is not normal...My husband is almost 50 and is still going strong so I'm glad your theory of "expecting it at 40" is not correct. Aaawww but what do I know I'm a woman. But I'm with Wizard and ericred50 on this one...See a doctor.

 

[Closet Desire]

Hate to say this...

...are you sure you're compatible?

CD-able has this magic ability to give me an erection just by thinking about her. She's no young, buxom bimbo either. We're both in our forties, but everything about her turns me on. I think what tipped me was your need to use your imagination to get off.

Reading erotica is a great way to stimulate yourself mentally although, I must admit, I prefer books because I can sprawl out on the bed or CD-able can lounge in the tub. We have some books listed on our site that you can easily get in the states (no...you guys...I'm not talking about our books!). We also have some erotic videos listed (not hard core bang 'em up either) that might help set the mood.

Yes...I've been with a stunning, drop dead gorgeous woman and it just didn't work. Only time I've ever not been able to get it up. How embarrassing...

Good luck.

 

[Guest]

Re: Problem with your g/f

Dear Literoctica user,
Well, this does not seem usual at all... I wonder if I tried to get her off if I could. Feel free to give me a line anytime. I would be more than helpful in this situation.