Does Nature really copy Art?
There may be close to a thousand stories on the Literotica site whose principal theme is of a Husband with a craving to see his wife having sex with another man. In some stories, the husband inadvertently witnesses his wife in flagrante, but refrains from killing the adulterous pair because he is strangely stimulated. In others, the husband has the idea in the first place, and persuades his wife to have sex with another man, provided by the husband. This is the angle that interests me.
What is the turn-on here?
Is it the pleasure of watching people have sex?
Why particularly one's wife?
Is this a posession/control thing? As in: she belongs to ME, and I will lend her out as and when I wish?
Does this work ONLY for couples who have concluded that, for them at least, sex and love are quite unconnected?
It would be very interesting to hear from people who have experienced this in real life rather than fantasy.
From the husband: what is going through your mind?
What is the source of satisfaction?
Are you into 'sloppy seconds'? Cream Pies?
From the wife: what was going through your mind?
Did you get more, or less satisfaction because your husband was watching?
Did you feel triumphant because you were getting one over the old fart? or did you feel used?
From the second man: what was going through your mind?
Is fucking a married woman an extra thrill?
Is being watched an extra thrill?
What was your opinion of the husband?
Of the wife?
What of the marriage? what happened to it?
I have been told that in certain cases the reasons are mainly physical.
Some women are built big and crave an occasional bout of satisfaction that can best be provided by a team of three or four really well hung professionals; the husband arranges these sessions for his wife as an act of love. More than a box of chocolates or a bouquet, less than a diamond bracelet. He gets to watch, and to chat with the studs. Food and drink are available. There is no mystery here.
Also, I believe that there are men (women too?) who are psychological voyeurs, and need this stimulation to excite their libidos.
Personal experiences are the most important thing here. Perhaps people could log on as Unregistered guests to hide identities, if need be.
Links to informative web sites would also be very much appreciated.
{edited to remove hilarious spelling mistake. This is serious stuff}
There may be close to a thousand stories on the Literotica site whose principal theme is of a Husband with a craving to see his wife having sex with another man. In some stories, the husband inadvertently witnesses his wife in flagrante, but refrains from killing the adulterous pair because he is strangely stimulated. In others, the husband has the idea in the first place, and persuades his wife to have sex with another man, provided by the husband. This is the angle that interests me.
What is the turn-on here?
Is it the pleasure of watching people have sex?
Why particularly one's wife?
Is this a posession/control thing? As in: she belongs to ME, and I will lend her out as and when I wish?
Does this work ONLY for couples who have concluded that, for them at least, sex and love are quite unconnected?
It would be very interesting to hear from people who have experienced this in real life rather than fantasy.
From the husband: what is going through your mind?
What is the source of satisfaction?
Are you into 'sloppy seconds'? Cream Pies?
From the wife: what was going through your mind?
Did you get more, or less satisfaction because your husband was watching?
Did you feel triumphant because you were getting one over the old fart? or did you feel used?
From the second man: what was going through your mind?
Is fucking a married woman an extra thrill?
Is being watched an extra thrill?
What was your opinion of the husband?
Of the wife?
What of the marriage? what happened to it?
I have been told that in certain cases the reasons are mainly physical.
Some women are built big and crave an occasional bout of satisfaction that can best be provided by a team of three or four really well hung professionals; the husband arranges these sessions for his wife as an act of love. More than a box of chocolates or a bouquet, less than a diamond bracelet. He gets to watch, and to chat with the studs. Food and drink are available. There is no mystery here.
Also, I believe that there are men (women too?) who are psychological voyeurs, and need this stimulation to excite their libidos.
Personal experiences are the most important thing here. Perhaps people could log on as Unregistered guests to hide identities, if need be.
Links to informative web sites would also be very much appreciated.
{edited to remove hilarious spelling mistake. This is serious stuff}
