Husbands denial

[95sunsets]

Finally gathered the courage to make a post about my husband and I playing with a chastity cage. We have done several days at a time and each time I get more into the idea of him being caged!

It's only day one of this time locking him and I have been soo wet all day waiting for him to get home! The amount of attention emotionally as well as sexually when he is locked up is like a dream. We have three of the exact same candles and lit them and let them melt for over 3 hours before dropping in the keys to his cage this morning. The second he said he dropped them in I started thinking of tonight!

I will pick one at random and only light one each day. They are all black so you cant see the key in it. Once he comes to bed to feel my dripping pussy I'll let him go down on me to taste my wetness from today before checking if the candle has melted enough yet to expose the key or determine if I picked the wrong one. If the key isn't exposed yet I'll have him use a toy and I will have an amazing orgasm from the whole day of thoughts.
While I feel so bad the anticipation of checking for the key is so erotic and just builds up to a possible release for him or a complete tease! I love the feeling of all the attention and getting an orgasm while I can see his cock dripping out of the cage.

Now I'm wondering as I write if I pick the wrong candle tonight should I mix all three up again or each day leave it out to increase his odds of release.

 

[9to5]

I love the candle idea, and yes mix them up again. you both wont know if this will be the one to free his cock.
at least you still get your orgasm.
if you pick the right candle is he only free for that night and will cage back up after?

I love that your enjoying this so much. I love being locked in mine

 

[95sunsets]

Well last night wasn't quite what I had in mind but my perspective was better! Life happens so after he got home we got in a small argument before dinner. I decided I wasn't going to sneak away and pick a random candle to light.

We carried on our night and bedtime came around after the random kisses and touches since he's so horny he really goes above and beyond to care for me. I made sure he went into get ready for bed before me so he can see I didn't light a candle. We get into bed and the kissing and touching start. As I reach over to feel his cage I can feel him dripping, I make sure to wait until he touches me to feel how I'm extremely wet. As he touches me and moans he asks if I forgot to light the candle. I calmly respond, "Your comments before dinner will not be rewarded, so maybe tomorrow I will light one." I know he can't release with the cage on but it's crazy how much he drips.

As I said that and I know all he wants to do in continue to play with my wet lips I remove his hand and tell him you don't get to touch me either, and roll over on my side. So some time goes past and I know I'm as aroused as he is, I slip my hand down to finish what I would rather him do but I'm still frustrated at him.. I play with myself, as I feel the sexual tension building in my whole body and trying to not make a sound to clue him into what I'm doing only adding to my play i finally bring myself to an amazing orgasm trying to hold as still and quite as possible. All while I know his cock being denied and dripping.

I slipped away to an amazing night sleep. We're both probably in the wrong or misunderstood why we even argued but I'm undecided how to progress tonight. I'm partially thinking if he doesn't apologize and kiss my neck to make me feel overly cared for, I'm wondering if I don't "forget" to light one for another day just to prolong this play...

I'm over the argument but I could still pretend to be hurt by it and let him please me until I get my release... Choices!!
( I don't feel I'm being deceitful in anyway, just playing as if I was really taking to much control there's nothing stopping him from lighting the candles himself )

I will definitely be mixing the candle back into the mix for now and normally we take a break for a few days after release.

 

[9to5]

let him hear you cum just to add to his frustration. and now he knows a candle wont be lit every night. your such a fun women
the cage is on him to help him keep his focused on you!
keep going I love what your doing and reading about it

 

[95sunsets]

So I made sure to beat my husband to bed last night as I decided I wasn't going to light a candle again just to see his reaction to me being more dominate while I know he just figured one would be lit. He walked into the room and as he looked over into the bathroom I could see his face. He made a silent large exhale of breathe and I know he was just dripping.

As we lay in bed he starts teasing my breasts and running his hands down into my pants. Once he can feel how wet I am as I'm just holding his cock in his cage as its tights as possible he's filling my hands with his pre cum I use it to rub into my pussy. He inserts a vibrator into me and begins focusing on my breasts once again. He whispers to me to take control of the vibrator and make yourself come the proper way you deserve, not the quite shy way you did last night!! ( I wasn't as secret as I thought! )

As he begins increasing the pressure and teasing my breast I begin to come right on the edge as he quick pulls the vibrator out and leaves me begging for it again. After gentle rubbing his hands all over my body he reinserts it and lets me finish. It was incredible knowing he has fully submitted to me as he didn't even mention not lighting a candle again and knowing he had to lay next to me making myself orgasm last night and he could hear all of it while his locked cock just dripped all night.

Any ideas I could hint about more like "worshiping me" while I have control of his cage? He is very good at added attention, kisses, massage, lighting rubbing all over my body but is there anything I'm missing as we're still new to this..?

 

[9to5]

Love how he is putting your pleasure first, that's the way us caged males should be.
being caged and doing some of the jobs around the house like laundry or vacuum.
for me I like naked and caged. having you watch him work like that.
holding his caged cock is a great way to get it dripping. maybe you could attach a leash to it?

 

[switchersm]

If you dont have the urge for your husband's cock in your pussy, you should talk with your hubby, if he's willing to stay locked one week, minimum. And after one week discuss again to possibly make it longer. In this time he should satisfy you with his lips, hands and tongue, also toys as you demand.
In my case, I'm permanently locked in 17th year now. Wife and I are nudists and mostly naked at home. We share the chorus around our home. They are not only my job. For example, I cook and my wife does the laundry.

 

[LtxGdss]

I love this candle concept, the time it takes for the wax to melt will really build the anticipation. Hopefully he is attentive in that window.

I have developed several games of chance for his release with anything from dice to a treasure hunt... but I think I will definitely take inspiration from yours.

 

[9to5]

I love this candle concept, the time it takes for the wax to melt will really build the anticipation. Hopefully he is attentive in that window.

I have developed several games of chance for his release with anything from dice to a treasure hunt... but I think I will definitely take inspiration from yours.

the candle is a great and new idea. what about your treasure hunt? love the games of chance to maybe get unlocked

 

[LtxGdss]

Just hide the key somewhere in the house... if he finds it before session time I will unlock him. It can take days if you hide well. Our cleaner found it before he did once... awkward.

Like swapping the candles you can move it to somewhere he has already looked... or not hide it at all.

 

[95sunsets]

What we like about the candle idea is he really has no clue how long it will be, all depends on a random pick. Takes the pressure off me to control the release time. I start feeling so guilty with how much I get pleasured and his attentiveness if they're wasn't a game ( self regulated rules) neither of us would make it a day! Time will tell how long it goes, and of course I check in and make sure we should continue or make adjustments as the days progress.

The anticipation of waiting to see if a key is exposed is unreal- for both of us!

Please share your past games you played so we can possibly try them out!

I have the desire for his cock in me just so I can have all of his cum, but since I know none of it is getting wasted I'm ok for now with the pleasure he's giving to me. I really couldn't ask for more!

 

[OralAllOver]

I propose that he must prove his devotion by licking another man's cum out of you before his masculinity may possibly be restored

 

[9to5]

so even you have to wait for the key to be found. its like chastity for two I love it

 

[LtxGdss]

so even you have to wait for the key to be found. its like chastity for two I love it

Its no concern to me... he has a tongue and I have a wand

 

[LtxGdss]

Another is to give a graded reward to a task. For example three household tasks to be done to your own standard.

If none meet your standard he remains caged
If one meets your standard he gets pleasure through the cage
If two meet your standard he gets uncaged but has to self pleasure
If all three meet your standard he gets a full reward... and you get to enjoy a tidy house.

 

[9to5]

Its no concern to me... he has a tongue and I have a wand

yes you do still get the better part of the deal lots of orgasm.
but you also dont know when he will get release. in case you want him inside you

 

[LtxGdss]

yes you do still get the better part of the deal lots of orgasm.
but you also dont know when he will get release. in case you want him inside you

Don't worry, it has never came to this but I was the one who hid it so if it gets too much I will retrieve it myself

 

[9to5]

Don't worry, it has never came to this but I was the one who hid it so if it gets too much I will retrieve it myself

I like that you keep him guessing

 

[95sunsets]

I agree with the hiding it, worse case you can just grab it but I wouldn't be able to not go get it in the heat of our sessions. With the candle at any point I know if one of us give in to our own desires its still two hours out if we light all the candles!

After this many years of marriage while he is locked, it's like our first month together. It's almost for him he has endless energy to please me. Last night again after I came he stayed up for who knows how long as I fell sleep with him running his hands over my lower back/ butt.

He mentioned how he's waking up around three times a night just from the pressure and tightness of the cage which I don't notice but I know I wake up to his arms wrapped around me and I feel safe and secure again in our relationship. I wonder how long he can go before he begs to be released or if he even would knowing my needs are being overly met.

 

[9to5]

I love to be woken by my cock trying to get out. all I can do is hold my balls till it get to relax a little. for me its a great feeling

 

[CagedViking]

I love to be woken by my cock trying to get out. all I can do is hold my balls till it get to relax a little. for me its a great feeling

Aye, cage strain is real... hurts so good! Totally wakes you up whenever it wants to

 

[danjtoy]

Don't worry, it has never came to this but I was the one who hid it so if it gets too much I will retrieve it myself

I like the idea of your cleaners moving the key!!

 

[CagedViking]

I like the idea of your cleaners moving the key!!

Aye, wonder if it's a male or female cleaner... that could go two very different ways.

 

[95sunsets]

Maybe a small note next to it for the cleaner next time... "If found please hide"

I think he would agree with you guys about waking up to a great love/ hate feeling!

 

[SmilingLez]

Finally gathered the courage to make a post about my husband and I playing with a chastity cage. We have done several days at a time and each time I get more into the idea of him being caged!

It's only day one of this time locking him and I have been soo wet all day waiting for him to get home! The amount of attention emotionally as well as sexually when he is locked up is like a dream. We have three of the exact same candles and lit them and let them melt for over 3 hours before dropping in the keys to his cage this morning. The second he said he dropped them in I started thinking of tonight!

I will pick one at random and only light one each day. They are all black so you cant see the key in it. Once he comes to bed to feel my dripping pussy I'll let him go down on me to taste my wetness from today before checking if the candle has melted enough yet to expose the key or determine if I picked the wrong one. If the key isn't exposed yet I'll have him use a toy and I will have an amazing orgasm from the whole day of thoughts.
While I feel so bad the anticipation of checking for the key is so erotic and just builds up to a possible release for him or a complete tease! I love the feeling of all the attention and getting an orgasm while I can see his cock dripping out of the cage.

Now I'm wondering as I write if I pick the wrong candle tonight should I mix all three up again or each day leave it out to increase his odds of release.

You write well. Have you thought about turning this experience into a story and posting it? It would be perfect in the Romance section of Literotica