Husband wants to try anal.

[Guest]

We tried it one night, bought the KY and everything. It was painful for me so we stopped. Is there a way to make it more comfortable for a woman? You know...to prepare yourself for it?

 

[Sav]

I'm sure there my be ways to ease yourself into it. But some women just find it to painfull. My wife and I tried it a couple times but it wasn't ment to be. She was just to tight and I was just a bit big @ 7 3/4 inches as well as gerth. I figure if after a few times trying or even after the first time, you'll know if it's a go or not. Don't go through it if you're to uncomfortable. And personally I didn't care for it as there was that nice pussy right there anyway

 

[Andra_Jenny]

Start small and you insert. Then work up to it, but you stay in control until he is in and you are ready to ride. Men are just too impatient!

 

[Sav]

Good point Andra_Jenny.

In my example my wife and I went very slowly and I only let her tell me when to go in more ( dam near lost my erection a few times .. hehe .. ) My wifes idea was to try it and if she was ok and it pleased her she would've gone for it. So just go slowly and be in control as Andra_Jenny says.

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

I have tried everything and let me tell you it still hurts. We finally gave up and started trying other things to have change. Personally I think you either love it or hate it, no middle ground on this one.

 

[brazenblaze]

Start out slow, and pace yourself. First time I tried it with my husband, hurt like hell and made him stop. However, one night he got my really worked up and the rest is history. Its not something you can rush into the first time, and if you don't like it, let him know. Plenty of other things to do, to keep up the flame.

 

[R Nitelight]

Husband wants to try anal?
Great. Bend him over and grease him up.

 

[sweetfeet]

I just officially lost the last of my virginity this last weekend - I was nervous about anal sex, but this worked real well --
We were in the spoon position, with A LOT of lube, and I was able to back myself onto him, so I completely controlled the pace. It was great, and definately worth it.

 

[Skitten]

I have a few suggestions for you and you may think it is distugusting but it worked. Instead of going right in and doing anal work up to it. Give yourself enemas so that you open up that virgin area, then start slowly and move up use a small butt plug and then work up to the bigger ones. That will help you with accepting his penis into you. And by all means use lots of lube ky is good, but also try astroglide it isn't as greasy and makes it feel oh sooo good.
Trust me a little and try some of my suggestions I know it took us a couple of months to work up to me being able to accept wizard's penis, but now when we have anal it is sooo spectacular. I hope this helps, it will be worth it in the long run.