Humiliation/Embarrassment

[BrightlyGo]

Lit board may not be your target audience then, because as I see it, people are telling you exactly what you ask for, the blurring of gender roles ie "no men can be sexy too" and "women don't have to resign to being objects of desire".

BDSM is supposed to be one of those communities that's removed enough from the mainstream to have plenty of room for those kinds of things. That's what touched off this digression: that mainstream or traditional perceptions of sex roles somehow penetrated down to the femdom corner of BDSM.

The whole "women only graft themselves onto men because power" is kind of a harsh helping of binary gendered crap.

And one that mainstream culture and even the oh-so-accepting 'kinky' sub-cultures haven't strayed so far from.

It is nice, though, to hear from individuals who haven't bought into it. Thank you for that.

 

[annred]

BrightlyGo, Netzach has hit the nail on the head. If I as a lesbian can see men as sexy, sensual and even at times as sex objects. Why would you ever think women who do desire men sexually wouldn't more so.

Ya want to know something dear, I desire women, I at time lust after women, I see women as objects of desire but I do not only see other women in that light. We contrary to what you seem to think want to be desired sexually and sometimes that's all we really want from another person. At times we can be just as fuck them and leave them as any man can be.

We are many, many things and one of those things is sexual.

Exactly I couldn't have put it better my self, although I am not lesbian I am bi sexual

 

[BrightlyGo]

PS- be the change you want to see in the world. Start finding men hot

I don't know if it's coincidence or the power of suggestion (imagine, a mind-control fetishist being suggestible ), but, damn, i've been noticing a lot of hot guys around lately...