Hugs and random non-sex chat aka Our Court aka Hoes and Bros who empower each other

Currently going through a really shitty month. Next month will probably be worse
A crap, highly stressful move over the next week, to be followed by a lotta instability and stress and crap for a time
Also effectively told by the person I’ve come to care about most on Lit to f off, in a really quite cruel way
And then stressful decisions about what path I’m gonna follow in the Fall
One of those points where everything is kinda shit
I know many others have worse to deal with
But still a nightmare
*extra hugs*
I'm sorry.
It's gonna get better.
 
*extra hugs*
I'm sorry.
It's gonna get better.
I know you mean well, so hugs for that, thank you
So this is gonna sound so harsh, for which I apologize, but -
I soooo dislike the glib ā€˜It’s gonna get better’ kinda comments
You don’t know. I don’t know. Certainly hope it will. But it’s far from definite
And certainly the part about being treated so harshly by someone I care about so much - you don’t have any basis for saying that other than meaningless ā€œYou’ll get over itā€ comments
Those comments are always well meaning, but all they do is force the person hearing them to nod in feigned gratitude to let the person who said it feel helpful
But I know you were well-meaning, so thank you
 
I know you mean well, so hugs for that, thank you
So this is gonna sound so harsh, for which I apologize, but -
I soooo dislike the glib ā€˜It’s gonna get better’ kinda comments
You don’t know. I don’t know. Certainly hope it will. But it’s far from definite
And certainly the part about being treated so harshly by someone I care about so much - you don’t have any basis for saying that other than meaningless ā€œYou’ll get over itā€ comments
Those comments are always well meaning, but all they do is force the person hearing them to nod in feigned gratitude to let the person who said it feel helpful
But I know you were well-meaning, so thank you
I didn't mean it to be so.

*more extra hugs*
 
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