HT Orgasms And Sex

[Jada59]

Wasn't quite sure how to title this.

I cum very quickly. Sometimes, very, very quickly! I'm not sure exactly what technique my new guys uses, but when he fingers me, I have my first orgasm in 15 seconds or less. And they just keep coming.

He wants me to tell him before I cum, but because I cum so quickly, I can't really do that. This morning, it was a series of... I'm cumming, I'm cumming, again...again...again... At one point, I did say, "I'm cumming really hard!"

I do find it difficult to keep this banter up though because it kind of takes away from the sex.

Despite all this, he still can't tell when I'm cumming. He always asks me afterwards if I came. And he doesn't seem to believe me when I say that I came many times. And he keeps asking me if I'm okay!

This morning, he asked me why I always cry during sex. I don't! He then said, but you keep going, "Ahhh... Ahhh... Ahhh...". Yeah I do! I tried to explain that they were moans of pleasure. He acted like he didn't believe me.

Then he went on to ask why I kept moving around during sex? I realize that some women just lie there, but he mentioned my moving my legs.

For one thing, hi favorite position is not comfortable for me. He starts by putting a pillow down. Then another pillow on top, folded in half, and another pillow on top of that, folded in half. He expects me to put my feet on his shoulders, lift my butt up and hoist it onto the pillows. He does not cum quickly so I do try to hasten that along because my legs start going numb and my back hurts. I will lower my legs.feet around his back so I can lift my hips up to meet his thrusts. Based on his reaction, this is working, but he is questioning what I'm doing.

I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, but he's upset and thinks he's doing something wrong. i should add, this is not the only position we use. And others seem to work far better for me. I still cum like this, but it's not very comfortable.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

The truth is generally the best thing, in your case:

“Honey, I’m sorry you can’t tell when I’m coming and I’m sorry I’m enjoying myself too much to tell you when it’s happening, but, trust me, you make me come like Christmas, just about every time, just wonderfully. You are an amazing lover.”

and

“Honey, I love you, but this position hurts my back.”

 

[Jada59]

The truth is generally the best thing, in your case:

“Honey, I’m sorry you can’t tell when I’m coming and I’m sorry I’m enjoying myself too much to tell you when it’s happening, but, trust me, you make me come like Christmas, just about every time, just wonderfully. You are an amazing lover.”

and

“Honey, I love you, but this position hurts my back.”

Thanks!

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Some men are clueless as to what is going on with the woman they are with and must be led by the hand and taught what is going on with the woman they are with. Sometimes it takes a slap upside the head to get them to even pay attention to what's happening.

Just my thought on my gender of the species.

Personally, I have never had a problem telling when a woman was having a good time with me.

 

[janealicious]

Wasn't quite sure how to title this.

I cum very quickly. Sometimes, very, very quickly! I'm not sure exactly what technique my new guys uses, but when he fingers me, I have my first orgasm in 15 seconds or less. And they just keep coming.

He wants me to tell him before I cum, but because I cum so quickly, I can't really do that. This morning, it was a series of... I'm cumming, I'm cumming, again...again...again... At one point, I did say, "I'm cumming really hard!"

I do find it difficult to keep this banter up though because it kind of takes away from the sex.

Despite all this, he still can't tell when I'm cumming. He always asks me afterwards if I came. And he doesn't seem to believe me when I say that I came many times. And he keeps asking me if I'm okay!

This morning, he asked me why I always cry during sex. I don't! He then said, but you keep going, "Ahhh... Ahhh... Ahhh...". Yeah I do! I tried to explain that they were moans of pleasure. He acted like he didn't believe me.

Then he went on to ask why I kept moving around during sex? I realize that some women just lie there, but he mentioned my moving my legs.

For one thing, hi favorite position is not comfortable for me. He starts by putting a pillow down. Then another pillow on top, folded in half, and another pillow on top of that, folded in half. He expects me to put my feet on his shoulders, lift my butt up and hoist it onto the pillows. He does not cum quickly so I do try to hasten that along because my legs start going numb and my back hurts. I will lower my legs.feet around his back so I can lift my hips up to meet his thrusts. Based on his reaction, this is working, but he is questioning what I'm doing.

I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, but he's upset and thinks he's doing something wrong. i should add, this is not the only position we use. And others seem to work far better for me. I still cum like this, but it's not very comfortable.

I agree with you totally Jada, sometimes they just don't get it, I think they spend to much time trying to look at the big picture rather than the task at hand, you have to get them to refocus I guess, as far as position goes we prefer me riding him, its comfortable for both of us and I can control everything, depth, speed etc, good luck on your journey.....Jane

 

[Jada59]

Thanks for the replies.

 

[jehoram]

Some men are clueless as to what is going on with the woman they are with and must be led by the hand and taught what is going on with the woman they are with.

Some men?

I'd say all men, at least at first. The lucky ones are the ones that can find the lovers who can lead them by the hand and teach them what they need to know.

My current round of stories is about that.

I sure wish my first three lovers were that kind of woman. I would have been a lot better off, and so would they.

 

[bobcatcat68]

You give him the gift that a lot of women couldn't. I think that if you are into someone you could cum just at their touch. You certainly would drive me nuts

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

Had a girlfriend who never seemed to have an orgasm. I love ravishing a pussy with my mouth and fingers and making a woman cum as many times as she can take it. Usually you can tell she cums by her pussy contractions, or shaking, moaning, groaning etc. But I could not tell if/when she came!

I asked her once to let me know every time she came while I was eating her. After awhile she told me she was having one, but I felt none of the classic body tells. She said she did several times that session and I never felt anything!

I often wondered if she really did have those orgasms or was trying to please me. Weird...

 

[PapaDan]

Jada: You need to educate your guy about women and sex. Sounds like he doesn't know what the hell he is doing!

 

[Jada59]

Had a girlfriend who never seemed to have an orgasm. I love ravishing a pussy with my mouth and fingers and making a woman cum as many times as she can take it. Usually you can tell she cums by her pussy contractions, or shaking, moaning, groaning etc. But I could not tell if/when she came!

I asked her once to let me know every time she came while I was eating her. After awhile she told me she was having one, but I felt none of the classic body tells. She said she did several times that session and I never felt anything!

I often wondered if she really did have those orgasms or was trying to please me. Weird...

Hmmm... Yes.

 

[Jada59]

Jada: You need to educate your guy about women and sex. Sounds like he doesn't know what the hell he is doing!

He know how to make me cum!

 

[Zeb_Carter]

He know how to make me cum!

But he doesn't know that you are, right?

In 48 years of marriage, I only had to ask her a few times, because she had some silent orgasm because of the kids. I soon recognized the signs after that and never had to ask again. When the kids were finally out of the house, she became real noisy again.

 

[PapaDan]

He know how to make me cum!

It takes more than just knowing how to make a woman cum to keep her happy. He must be really insecure if he has to ask if you orgasmed.

 

[Jada59]

You give him the gift that a lot of women couldn't. I think that if you are into someone you could cum just at their touch. You certainly would drive me nuts

I can cum from the sound of some voices too. His is one.

 

[Jada59]

But he doesn't know that you are, right?

In 48 years of marriage, I only had to ask her a few times, because she had some silent orgasm because of the kids. I soon recognized the signs after that and never had to ask again. When the kids were finally out of the house, she became real noisy again.

Right. And sorry for my poor English prior. I kid you not, whatever he does with his fingers, causes me to orgasm in 15 seconds or less. I always thought I preferred rough sex but he is very gently. i can see and feel the signs. Pussy clenching, stomach pulling in, panting, moaning, crying out with pleasure, and eventually squirming when I've cum so much that it'sensitive down there.

It sounds like he haw been with a lot of women. But it also sounds like they were just still and quiet. That's not me at all!

 

[Jada59]

It takes more than just knowing how to make a woman cum to keep her happy. He must be really insecure if he has to ask if you orgasmed.

He might be. He worries if he calls and it goes to voicemail. And he bites his nails.

He came on at first like he owned the world, but I'm thinking now it was all for show. He's really very gentle and quiet.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

He might be. He worries if he calls and it goes to voicemail. And he bites his nails.

He came on at first like he owned the world, but I'm thinking now it was all for show. He's really very gentle and quiet.

And insecure. You may have to talk like some of my female characters during sex, letting him know that what he is doing is just right and what you want him to do.

"Oh god, yes. Yes, yes, yes. No to far, that's it right there. Oh god, I'm cumming, I'm cumming! Oh my godddddddddddddddd!"

 

[PapaDan]

He might be. He worries if he calls and it goes to voicemail. And he bites his nails.

He came on at first like he owned the world, but I'm thinking now it was all for show. He's really very gentle and quiet.

It's a woman that makes a man strong. He will be as strong or as weak as you make him. Men have egos: feed it, but don't over feed it.

He can be what you make him.

 

[missyunderstanding]

Women VS Men

Women do have a much greater sexual capacity then men but what you are describing is well outside the limits of normal female sexual experience. I think you should get a doctors advice about this.

 

[Jada59]

It's a woman that makes a man strong. He will be as strong or as weak as you make him. Men have egos: feed it, but don't over feed it.

He can be what you make him.

Thanks!

 

[Jada59]

Women do have a much greater sexual capacity then men but what you are describing is well outside the limits of normal female sexual experience. I think you should get a doctors advice about this.

Advice about specifically, what?

 

[Jada59]

After getting together with him today, I think he has severe anxiety. He was watching a news show on his phone. It was on during sex and also while he was sleeping. They kept talking about white supremacists as though they were taking over the nation. He was clearly terrified.

When we got to bed, he took a painfully long time to get undressed. I assumed he was having trouble getting an erection, and that did seem to be so.

The sex was a bit strange. Again, he started lightly touching me between my legs. All external. I started to cum nearly instantly and just kept cumming. I did tell him. He didn't believe me.

He got out the coconut oil and began lubing my ass, very slowly and gently. This made me cum and cum too. Again, I told him I was cumming. Again, he didn't believe me.

He fucked my ass, never once putting anything into my pussy. As I sit here typing, it feels very needy as in swollen and needing attention.

He used much better positions, at least for me. He was close to cummng, but could not. He had to put me in his favorite position again, but he came very quickly. He asked if I was going to cum with him. I said, "yes", then I did. As he lay there on top of me, I kissed him and told him him how good it was.

Fast forward to him sleeping a lot, having maybe nightmares or something and him saying he preferred to be lone but for me to wake him up. I gave up on the waking him up as I clearly could not. But at one point, he pulled me to him and asked if the sex was good. I said it was and he asked me again. Sheesh. I might have to give him a blue ribbon next time.

Oh and... I did stroke and suck him too.