HT be more active in this position?

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I don't know what you call it. I'm sure some helpful person will come along with a pic. :D

He likes to yank me forcefully until my butt is off the side of the bed. He is standing between my legs.He then puts his cock in me and forces my legs way back.

Note to self. Do not overdo the exercise, particularly the belly dancing before sex. I was having cramps in my stomach and legs while in this position! What he does feels great but... I like to be more active.

Could he be putting me in this position so I can't be more active? I can't even seem to move my hips much, especially when he is ramming into me very hard. I can reach for his hands and arms but that's about it.

I was actually tempted to climb on top of him but we had such limited time earlier so it wasn't the time to try something new. Anyway...

What can I do to be more active in this position? While he is fucking me I just keep cumming and cumming and my mind kinda goes to mush. :D Thanks!
 
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And you want to change this????

Hehehe. It's great! I just feel like I'mm letting him do all the work! But I got a PM from someone who said this is probably just what he wants! He can also look at me more easily and I can tell that he liked watching!

I also researched the position and apparently it's a lot easier on the guy because he can thrust deeper and harder this way. So, I guess it's a big win for both of us! i just never had anyone use this position on me before.

Gee... Learn something new every day!
 
It does sound like he just wants to pound you in that position. Probably doesn’t want you to be “active”. Wants to see you getting fucked hard by him.

We like multiple positions. There are times I just want to fuck my wife hard. There are others when we move together in rhythm.

I think you said earlier that you only had time for a quickie. This might have been the hottest way for him to fuck you in a short period of time.

Sounds HOT and sounds like you and him both enjoyed it!
 
I don't know what you call it. I'm sure some helpful person will come along with a pic. :D

He likes to yank me forcefully until my butt is off the side of the bed. He is standing between my legs.He then puts his cock in me and forces my legs way back.

Note to self. Do not overdo the exercise, particularly the belly dancing before sex. I was having cramps in my stomach and legs while in this position! What he does feels great but... I like to be more active.

Could he be putting me in this position so I can't be more active? I can't even seem to move my hips much, especially when he is ramming into me very hard. I can reach for his hands and arms but that's about it.

I was actually tempted to climb on top of him but we had such limited time earlier so it wasn't the time to try something new. Anyway...

What can I do to be more active in this position? While he is fucking me I just keep cumming and cumming and my mind kinda goes to mush. :D Thanks!

You seem to be having a lot of sex lately! Good for you!!:D
 
How many times do you cum before he shoots his load ? Sounds like a great fucking position
 
Yes.

I like to fuck Dee in that position too. I have control and I can fuck her mercilessly and very deep during several orgasms and she cannot do anything about unless she says stop!

Trouble is she forgets how to talk!;)

I grab her ankles and hold her legs far apart most of the time ... when she starts to cum after awhile I close them and fold her up I bend forward for some intense thrusting.

Never had any complaints...

She did tell me I fucked like a porn star after watching one of our movies.

(YES MA'AM!) :cool:
 
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I don't know what you call it. I'm sure some helpful person will come along with a pic. :D

He likes to yank me forcefully until my butt is off the side of the bed. He is standing between my legs.He then puts his cock in me and forces my legs way back.

Note to self. Do not overdo the exercise, particularly the belly dancing before sex. I was having cramps in my stomach and legs while in this position! What he does feels great but... I like to be more active.

Could he be putting me in this position so I can't be more active? I can't even seem to move my hips much, especially when he is ramming into me very hard. I can reach for his hands and arms but that's about it.

I was actually tempted to climb on top of him but we had such limited time earlier so it wasn't the time to try something new. Anyway...

What can I do to be more active in this position? While he is fucking me I just keep cumming and cumming and my mind kinda goes to mush. :D Thanks!


It's a Dominant position. When he has you pinned to the bed in this position, he is forcing you to take him. I understand it is consensual and you like it, but if you wanted him to stop, you are under his control.
 
It's a Dominant position. When he has you pinned to the bed in this position, he is forcing you to take him. I understand it is consensual and you like it, but if you wanted him to stop, you are under his control.

Ah... Thanks!
 
Hehehe. It's great! I just feel like I'mm letting him do all the work!

Sometimes, for a man, it is fun to do all the work. There are several aspects to it that I enjoy. On the BDSM test I test as a dominant and rigger, so I enjoy both controlling and posing a woman's body in a way that is pleasurable for me. That's an incredibly pleasurable position for a man to see, because the woman is so submissive and so exposed. Also, I'm a leg man, and that's a position that emphasizes the woman's legs to the man. And, of course, there's the depth of penetration, which is great. But, perhaps ironically, there's also a "chivalrous" aspect to it, if you will. I like giving my partner pleasure, and when she is in a submissive and passive position I can do that and she doesn't have to think about reciprocating because there's not much she can do.

My overall view/response to your query is that in a good partnership the way to handle things is to communicate and mix things up so both are getting what they want. But that doesn't mean in every "episode." You can have sex one way one night and another the next. If you are fortunate you are compatible and can work it out. Sometimes, woman on bottom, sometimes, woman on top. From my experience, there's pretty much no such thing as a bad position.

I assure you, though, that if you have the right partner your partner can get pleasure in a particular bout of fun while doing all the work.
 
Sometimes, for a man, it is fun to do all the work. There are several aspects to it that I enjoy. On the BDSM test I test as a dominant and rigger, so I enjoy both controlling and posing a woman's body in a way that is pleasurable for me. That's an incredibly pleasurable position for a man to see, because the woman is so submissive and so exposed. Also, I'm a leg man, and that's a position that emphasizes the woman's legs to the man. And, of course, there's the depth of penetration, which is great. But, perhaps ironically, there's also a "chivalrous" aspect to it, if you will. I like giving my partner pleasure, and when she is in a submissive and passive position I can do that and she doesn't have to think about reciprocating because there's not much she can do.

My overall view/response to your query is that in a good partnership the way to handle things is to communicate and mix things up so both are getting what they want. But that doesn't mean in every "episode." You can have sex one way one night and another the next. If you are fortunate you are compatible and can work it out. Sometimes, woman on bottom, sometimes, woman on top. From my experience, there's pretty much no such thing as a bad position.

I assure you, though, that if you have the right partner your partner can get pleasure in a particular bout of fun while doing all the work.

Thanks!
 
I don't know what you call it. I'm sure some helpful person will come along with a pic. :D

He likes to yank me forcefully until my butt is off the side of the bed. He is standing between my legs.He then puts his cock in me and forces my legs way back.

Note to self. Do not overdo the exercise, particularly the belly dancing before sex. I was having cramps in my stomach and legs while in this position! What he does feels great but... I like to be more active.

Could he be putting me in this position so I can't be more active? I can't even seem to move my hips much, especially when he is ramming into me very hard. I can reach for his hands and arms but that's about it.

I was actually tempted to climb on top of him but we had such limited time earlier so it wasn't the time to try something new. Anyway...

What can I do to be more active in this position? While he is fucking me I just keep cumming and cumming and my mind kinda goes to mush. :D Thanks!

This is one of my top 3 positions, I can go fast or slow, deep of teasingly shallow. I can watch the look in her eyes watch the movements of her mouth and tongue. I also get so turned on watching her breast swaying about. You want to do something, I love to see her play and suck with her tits or her clit :). The biggest thing is I can see if and how I'm pleasuring her. :heart:
 
This is one of my top 3 positions, I can go fast or slow, deep of teasingly shallow. I can watch the look in her eyes watch the movements of her mouth and tongue. I also get so turned on watching her breast swaying about. You want to do something, I love to see her play and suck with her tits or her clit :). The biggest thing is I can see if and how I'm pleasuring her. :heart:

Ah, okay. Thanks!
 
This may be the wife’s favorite position. On her back, edge of bed, legs on my shoulder. She can rub herself, watch me pump her and this allows full penetration.
 
Sounds like a position for you to just lie back and enjoy the ride. No reason to feel bad about being self indulgent here. There may not be much you can do with your hips, but I think some creativity on your part could really up the excitement for him. Instead of putting your hands on him, put your hands on yourself. Give him a little show with your hands running over your chest, get them tangled up in your hair, have fun with it. Also a good time to scream as loud as you want, and beg him to never stop.
 
This may be the wife’s favorite position. On her back, edge of bed, legs on my shoulder. She can rub herself, watch me pump her and this allows full penetration.

It's very lovely!
 
Sounds like a position for you to just lie back and enjoy the ride. No reason to feel bad about being self indulgent here. There may not be much you can do with your hips, but I think some creativity on your part could really up the excitement for him. Instead of putting your hands on him, put your hands on yourself. Give him a little show with your hands running over your chest, get them tangled up in your hair, have fun with it. Also a good time to scream as loud as you want, and beg him to never stop.

Thanks for the suggestions!
 
The second one. Must try the first one now!

I can only say that from my perspective I love this position because it gives me the absolute best view of my cock sliding in and out of my wife, while easily being able to look up and watch her face when I want to. She actually prefers the first photo here, but then again, she likes it best from the rear so that may be why!
 
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