How................?

[PeteHulbert37]

How does someone get your attention? What resonates with you? What moves the meter so to speak?

Physical Attractiveness - he or she is HOT?

Great Personality - makes me laugh?

Intelligence - nobody wants to be with the box of rocks?

Charm - says the nicest things?

Cock shots - Clearly joking.

What about someone who is genuine?

What about someone who is in a bad place? A bleeding heart perhaps?

What is it about someone that lets you see past his/her transgressions and see the good in him or her?

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Bump.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Bump.

A mixture of all those. Instead of the cock shot. A facial picture would do.

 

[Lia Monde]

If someone can make me laugh, I'm open to further explorations. Not cheap humor or short jokes, but entertaining and interesting anecdotes well-told.

 

[done_got_old]

A good conversationalist with intelligent humor gets me every time.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[BlackCashmere]

Many things matter...

But what resonates with me MOST is genuine and consistent kindness shown towards others...

 

[Eva_Star]

Sense of humor always does it for me. There are, of course, many things that add to this attraction (intelligence, kindness, finding them physically attractive, attentive, loves animals and kids, etc etc etc). But always...always...the ones I fall for (male or female) are the ones that I cannot have a single conversation with them where we don't both dissolve into laughter. Clever, humorous, light-hearted people are so attractive.

 

[SweetSara86]

Someone who could build a house or lay tile and knows how to fix a car.☺

(I'm asking for alot, I know)

 

[KarenB59]

Someone who is easy to talk to. Who makes me laugh. I watch how they treat others. Are they courteous & helpful or do they act like the rest of us are in their world and are merely to be tolerated. I really dislike constant swearing. There are times when nothing but a few cuss words will do but not all the time & not every other word. Has a romantic streak. And is faithful

 

[MrsHumpty]

When someone is kind, respectful, and a little flirty it gets my attention.

Looks aren't everything, but a cute face and killer smile are a plus.

Someone who is there for me whether it's a shoulder to cry on or a naughty convo.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

What if I can do tricks, like juggling or magic? Always a crowd pleaser, right?


On a serious note, what about friendship? Ever had an amazing friend and you wanted to take it to the next level? How?

 

[Iceprincess12]

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Humor is always a good start.

 

[Violetvixen1]

Kindness, intelligence, humor, the ability to read people and understand nuance, self reliance, and a lot of silliness... these things get me every time.

 

[DayMaker]

I'm just watching this thread to see if someone does want to be with a box of rocks...there might be hope for me yet.

As for me, If they can understand my brand of neurotic and make me laugh I've found a gem.

 

[Farawyn]

Smarts.
Sharp wit.
Humor.
Wordplay.

^online

Tangible? The same as above, plus kindness. Depth. Common ground, but not with everything. Chemistry. Confidence. Open mindedness. Loyalty.

 

[chame1eon]

Different things at different times.

 

[Farawyn]

And yes. I need the physical attraction, but the stuff I mentioned above adds to that.

 

[Farawyn]

Someone who could build a house or lay tile and knows how to fix a car.☺

(I'm asking for alot, I know)

This, too. Big time.