How too??

Camaro396

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How 2??

I would really like to watch my wife fuck 2 other guys at once, but she isn't into that or anything beond the "normal" sexual relm. So how do I make this happen? Any ideas are welcome.
 
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You don't. If you wish to explore sexuality and experimentation with your wife talk to her, not us.
 
I have talked to her, but she is kinda shy, and has never done this sort or thin, and I was wondering if there was a good way to make it happen.
 
You can't "get" "make" or "convince" people to do things that they don't want to do. Not without creating a lot of resentment in the process.

Just be glad she fucks you.
 
I'm afraid no miracles on sale.
You just talk to her about it and if she is not interested or don't want to, then you have to forget about it and accept her the way she is, if you love her.
 
Camaro396 said:
I have talked to her, but she is kinda shy, and has never done this sort or thin, and I was wondering if there was a good way to make it happen.

Well, I'd explore it in depth in fantasy between the two of you. Look at pictures together, talk about it, both while you're in bed and out. What about it makes it appealing to you? Does it need to be her and two strangers or her with you and another man? Talking about it can be very hot, whether it ever happens or not.
 
vanelane said:
Talking about it can be very hot, whether it ever happens or not.
Exactly. Fantasies are sometimes best left as fantasy, and bringing others into one's bedroom isn't something to be taken lightly.
 
right. she is just a really shy person, although she is a freak in bed. I would like to watch her with others and she is a little hesatient as she has never done this before. She never said no, she just said she felt uncomfertable. so how do I make her comfertable with it?
 
vanelane said:
Well, I'd explore it in depth in fantasy between the two of you. Look at pictures together, talk about it, both while you're in bed and out. What about it makes it appealing to you? Does it need to be her and two strangers or her with you and another man? Talking about it can be very hot, whether it ever happens or not.

Or you could just pimp her out in a discount 2-fer-1 deal.
 
Eilan said:
Exactly. Fantasies are sometimes best left as fantasy, and bringing others into one's bedroom isn't something to be taken lightly.
She has brought it up before, but is unsure about it.
 
you can't make someone be comfortable. you can encourage them, beg and plead, but the bottom line is, its her choice. she has to decide for herself whether she wants to do it or not, and right now, she doesnt. at some point you continuing to try to get her to do this will turn her away from you.
 
Camaro396 said:
so how do I make her comfertable with it?
You can't, so don't even try. If she's gonna fuck someone else, she has to do it because SHE wants to, not because she's trying to please you.
 
Cratchit said:
you can't make someone be comfortable. you can encourage them, beg and plead, but the bottom line is, its her choice. she has to decide for herself whether she wants to do it or not, and right now, she doesnt. at some point you continuing to try to get her to do this will turn her away from you.
I don't pester her about it, but she brought it up to me and now I would like to watch it and she has mixed feelings about it. We are happy, but need a little "spice" in our sex lives. Like I said she brought it up to me and now I am comfertable with it and want it to happen, just gotta figur out how to bring that side of her back.
 
Eilan said:
Well, which is it? :confused:

I ment into multiple partners, she is a freak with me, and mentioned adding another guy, but I wanna watch her, I would deffently join in, and do my part.
 
honestly, i think you are searching for answers that simply arent there, camaro. listen to what seems to the dominant thought so far. you cant really do much to make up her mind for you. i think you just lay back and maybe mention it from time to time, see if her thoughts have changed on it
 
Maybe your question is unclear. Are you saying she's willing and you're willing and you're looking for volunteers?
 
vanelane said:
Maybe your question is unclear. Are you saying she's willing and you're willing and you're looking for volunteers?

Not really she brought it a few times, and I wan't sure about it, now I am and she isn't
 
Well, that's just the evolution of the thing. Keep the fantasy alive and someday the opportunity may present itself at a time you are both willing. We discuss this fantasy frequently. It's mostly me; some days my husband thinks it would really bother him and other days it seems hot to him. I figure we'll be married a long time. It may happen.
 
Camaro396 said:
I would really like to watch my wife fuck 2 other guys at once, but she isn't into that or anything beond the "normal" sexual relm. So how do I make this happen? Any ideas are welcome.
Please get rid of that extra o, please? It's annoying.
 
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