Hi everyone, it's me back again. I have another question for you fine people at Literotica...... I have a new girlfriend, she's great.... good looking, funny, SEXY..... well here comes the problem.... she can't french kiss! Like, at all! I went to french kiss her... and.... she stuck her tongue out and rubbed it against mine? What the hell? talk about a major turnoff, but, anyway... how can I get her to be a better kisser? Any advice from the "sexperts" out there? Any help would be greatly appreaciated... Thanks again....
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YoungStud said:
I dunno, I rather like the intimacy of tongues touching one another.
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Tiggs said:I dunno, I rather like the intimacy of tongues touching one another.
I don't think he's talking about intimate touching. I think it's more of the "slack jawed imitation ant-eater" technique that one girl I dated used -- there's nothing intimate about it.
The only thing I can suggest is to talk to her about it, and teach her what YOU like, and find out what SHE likes in a kiss. The girlfriend mentioned above preferred nibbling kisses with no tongue.
Kissing isn't about any particular technique, it's about being intimate in the way both participants enjoy most. (Well, second most, anyway. Maybe third most?)
Forget talking to her...this will only embarass her and make her intimidated about kissing you again. If you yourself are a good kisser you can "teach" her to be a good kisser. I know you have heard the phrase "practice makes perfect". Well this is definitely true with kissing and your girlfriend may not have had a whole lot of practice. Either that or she has had alot of experience with another terrible kisser. I think kissing is one of those things that is easily adjusted. This may be something that takes a little time but with patience you can have her giving you kisses that will make your knees weak in no time.
Don't be afraid to take the lead. If she starts giving you those tongue lashes that you don't care for just back it up a bit by giving her some gentle kisses on her cheek and move slowly back to her mouth giving her gentle pecks on her lips then suck her bottom lip into your mouth and slowly work your way back to adding your tongue to the kiss...well hopefully you get the picture!
[Edited by Juliet on 05-28-2001 at 03:52 PM]
Don't be afraid to take the lead. If she starts giving you those tongue lashes that you don't care for just back it up a bit by giving her some gentle kisses on her cheek and move slowly back to her mouth giving her gentle pecks on her lips then suck her bottom lip into your mouth and slowly work your way back to adding your tongue to the kiss...well hopefully you get the picture!
[Edited by Juliet on 05-28-2001 at 03:52 PM]
