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How the hell do I milk my husbands prostate? Because I want him to cum in my mouth ever single time I suck his dick and for some reason he will NEVER cum in my mouth at all he only did it once and he said it felt wierd.....:confused::confused: So if I cant get him to cum in my mouth willingly I will force him to cum down my throat.:cool::cool:
 
I've wondered this myself... I've stuck my finger up that particular drain pipe one time and felt around to see if I could "find" the prostate. I didn't notice any good feeling... just an awkward feeling of something up my ass.
 
How the hell do I milk my husbands prostate? Because I want him to cum in my mouth ever single time I suck his dick and for some reason he will NEVER cum in my mouth at all he only did it once and he said it felt wierd.....:confused::confused: So if I cant get him to cum in my mouth willingly I will force him to cum down my throat.:cool::cool:

Let's apply some troubleshooting here. I don't know you husband, and I'm not a professional, but let's think about this. Not too much, though, I prefer to think about female sex organs. :)

The normal male penis can always ejaculate given sufficient stimulation. It works with one's own hand, for godsakes! If he can cum in your pussy, he can cum in your mouth. So, the question is why he won't cum in your mouth when he otherwise ejaculates normally. I hate to say it, and I don't mean to belittle you or anything, but is it possible that you're just doing it wrong? I'm going to go through a list of things you may be doing wrong, and if one of them sounds correct, just let me know. It's nothing to be ashamed of. God knows that males have enogh problems trying to figure out the best way to please females, and if Redbook is any indication (yes, we spy on you through your magazines) so please don't be disappointed with yourself if you find that you are doing something wrong.

1) Are you using teeth? If you are, your boy doesn't like it much. Some guys like it, other guys don't. I understand that some females like to bite, but I've never found it to be enjoyable. It actually hurts a lot. As always, what is enjoyable for you may not be enjoyable for your partner.

2) What kind of technique do you use? Do you use your mouth like a vagina or do you leisurely suck and lick? In my experience, it always feels good to have a woman paying attention to your genitals, but it isn't always enough to make you climax. If you're the slow type, you might want to speed things up a little bit. If you're the fast, deep type who can really take it, you might want to add some dirty talk and a little fast-and-slow alteration. Male genitalia is a lot like female genitalia, but in reverse. In either case, a little teasing never hurts, y'know what I mean?

3) It is possible that your husband is just a total prude and has moral reservations about committing a sex act with your mouth. If he has some kind of moral reservation, I can't help you. I'd talk to some of the more creative females around here, they probably have a much better understanding of seduction.

If you are determined to milk your husband's prostate, you should first know that this technique doesn't always work. Your mate must first be comfortable with anal stimulation. If he isn't, you can rub his prostate all you want and you'll never get anything. It just doesn't work that way. The same ability that we manly men have to withold orgasms through sheer force of will also easily allows us to withold orgasms when we experience unpleasant stimulation. In other words, we are easily capable of avoiding ejaculation if we don't like things up our asses. It just depends on your hubby, and the condition of your relationship.

Now, If he is willing to accept anal stimulation, you need to start slowly, gently rubbing the area around the anal sphincter for several minutes to relax it. It helps if you generate some kind of pleasurable stimulus in the meantime, just take your pick. If he is ok with that, you should move one or two lubricated fingers gently into the anus and apply gentle pressure in your direction. You should feel some gentle resistance from the inner sphincter. Slide through that and work your way up, maybe an inch or so, possible less. You'll feel a little more bone, and then a stretchy area. That's what you're looking for. Gently, and I cannot stress this enough, gently apply a little pressure by hooking your fingers palmwards. You should feel a squishy little bulb-thing on the near side of the rectal tissue. Rub it gently and elevate the testes with your other hand at the same time. A little lip stimulation on the head will only help things along. As long as your man is okay with it, you'll soon feel the convulsions and he'll cum. You can actually keep this state for a while with some practice, but you aren't going to get any more semen or ejaculatory fluid than he has stored at the moment. He'll just keep experiencing muscular contractions until the "stop cumming" message reaches his brain, at which point he'll be just like any other guy after sex. How long he lasts depends upon foreplay and how well you can override his natural tendency to "finish" through sheer feminine allure. Sex is, above all, a state of mind, more than body.

I hope this helps you, Ms. Kinky. If it doesn't, you may wish to try another, more scientific, resource, or perhaps a more erotic one. There is no shortage of resources on the subject.
 
he only did it once and he said it felt wierd.....:confused::confused: So if I cant get him to cum in my mouth willingly I will force him to cum down my throat.:cool::cool:

By your own words, he doesn't want to. He said he didn't like it, right? If that's how your relationship works, go for it, I guess?

An alternative suggestion is to talk to him and see if, maybe, there was something about that one experience in particular he didn't like. If there was, work around it so you both get your fun.

Maybe a bit of biting at the end? I did that once on accident and the Mister nearly came unglued. Apparently, things are a bit sensitive at that particular moment. Who knew. :D (It didn't help that I couldn't stop laughing. Pardon me; it was hilarious watching him go from orgasmic to clinging to the ceiling by his finger- and toenails like a pissed off cat.) Maybe he just didn't like the swallowing sensation? Some guys don't. Possible biting risk or minimizing that swallowing feeling can both easily be fixed by backing off a bit just then. Use your hands and get messy; you get what you want, and so does he.
 
There are a lot of things that couples do TO and FOR each other that we do for their pleasure not necessarily our own. Of course it is always best if BOTH of you enjoy doing something - doing and receiving / receiving or doing.

One thing you need to do is COMMUNICATE. TELL HIM that nothing turns you on like him spurting into your mouth or throat. It is, trust me on this, something that he can get used to and it will not feel weird. He may have some hangups about not doing it based on perhaps what a previous g/f told him or maybe what his momma said. Who knows. Important thing is letting him know it turns YOUR crank.

As far as prostate massage goes ... it produces THE most intense orgasm a guy can possibly have (IMHO) next to wiring a 225V line straight into the orgasm center of your brain. It is dirty, invasive, somewhat submissive, physically draining, emotionally bonding, stupefyingly good and of course if your woman enjoys coming close to making your brain explode and the feeling she is sucking your SPINE out not just some sperm then she'll goes nuts for it too.

Here is a thread that deals with it. There is some great advice here:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657
 
How the hell do I milk my husbands prostate? Because I want him to cum in my mouth ever single time I suck his dick and for some reason he will NEVER cum in my mouth at all he only did it once and he said it felt wierd.....:confused::confused: So if I cant get him to cum in my mouth willingly I will force him to cum down my throat.:cool::cool:

I am in the completely opposite situation. My wife sucks a little, but ALWAYS stops short (I need to stop with the verbal cues!)....ugh!
 
Let's apply some troubleshooting here. I don't know you husband, and I'm not a professional, but let's think about this. Not too much, though, I prefer to think about female sex organs. :)

The normal male penis can always ejaculate given sufficient stimulation. It works with one's own hand, for godsakes! If he can cum in your pussy, he can cum in your mouth. So, the question is why he won't cum in your mouth when he otherwise ejaculates normally. I hate to say it, and I don't mean to belittle you or anything, but is it possible that you're just doing it wrong? I'm going to go through a list of things you may be doing wrong, and if one of them sounds correct, just let me know. It's nothing to be ashamed of. God knows that males have enogh problems trying to figure out the best way to please females, and if Redbook is any indication (yes, we spy on you through your magazines) so please don't be disappointed with yourself if you find that you are doing something wrong.

1) Are you using teeth? If you are, your boy doesn't like it much. Some guys like it, other guys don't. I understand that some females like to bite, but I've never found it to be enjoyable. It actually hurts a lot. As always, what is enjoyable for you may not be enjoyable for your partner.

2) What kind of technique do you use? Do you use your mouth like a vagina or do you leisurely suck and lick? In my experience, it always feels good to have a woman paying attention to your genitals, but it isn't always enough to make you climax. If you're the slow type, you might want to speed things up a little bit. If you're the fast, deep type who can really take it, you might want to add some dirty talk and a little fast-and-slow alteration. Male genitalia is a lot like female genitalia, but in reverse. In either case, a little teasing never hurts, y'know what I mean?

3) It is possible that your husband is just a total prude and has moral reservations about committing a sex act with your mouth. If he has some kind of moral reservation, I can't help you. I'd talk to some of the more creative females around here, they probably have a much better understanding of seduction.

If you are determined to milk your husband's prostate, you should first know that this technique doesn't always work. Your mate must first be comfortable with anal stimulation. If he isn't, you can rub his prostate all you want and you'll never get anything. It just doesn't work that way. The same ability that we manly men have to withold orgasms through sheer force of will also easily allows us to withold orgasms when we experience unpleasant stimulation. In other words, we are easily capable of avoiding ejaculation if we don't like things up our asses. It just depends on your hubby, and the condition of your relationship.

Now, If he is willing to accept anal stimulation, you need to start slowly, gently rubbing the area around the anal sphincter for several minutes to relax it. It helps if you generate some kind of pleasurable stimulus in the meantime, just take your pick. If he is ok with that, you should move one or two lubricated fingers gently into the anus and apply gentle pressure in your direction. You should feel some gentle resistance from the inner sphincter. Slide through that and work your way up, maybe an inch or so, possible less. You'll feel a little more bone, and then a stretchy area. That's what you're looking for. Gently, and I cannot stress this enough, gently apply a little pressure by hooking your fingers palmwards. You should feel a squishy little bulb-thing on the near side of the rectal tissue. Rub it gently and elevate the testes with your other hand at the same time. A little lip stimulation on the head will only help things along. As long as your man is okay with it, you'll soon feel the convulsions and he'll cum. You can actually keep this state for a while with some practice, but you aren't going to get any more semen or ejaculatory fluid than he has stored at the moment. He'll just keep experiencing muscular contractions until the "stop cumming" message reaches his brain, at which point he'll be just like any other guy after sex. How long he lasts depends upon foreplay and how well you can override his natural tendency to "finish" through sheer feminine allure. Sex is, above all, a state of mind, more than body.

I hope this helps you, Ms. Kinky. If it doesn't, you may wish to try another, more scientific, resource, or perhaps a more erotic one. There is no shortage of resources on the subject.


Okay I finally found out what it was with him he confessed that his little hang up had to do with a girl in his past who gave him bad head she bit the shit out of it and he said since then he doesnt really feel confterble period with receiving a blowjob out of fears godforbid i get mad at him one day will i bite him too...lol He said in fact i do a fantastic job! And he also said about the cumming in my mouth bit it just freaks him out that he has to kiss me afterwards....Smh it shouldnt be that icky to him
 
How about a dope slap?

I'm sorry, but he sounds like a dumbass. How many guys would give up a finger or a toe for a girl who actually wants him to cum in her mouth? He's got that and he can't do it? Unheard of. Hard for me to understand his issues, but even allowing that they're real, he's a grown-up and should figure out a way to get over them. Maybe you just need to keep sucking until you drown out the memory of Toothy.
 
I'm sorry, but he sounds like a dumbass. How many guys would give up a finger or a toe for a girl who actually wants him to cum in her mouth? He's got that and he can't do it? Unheard of. Hard for me to understand his issues, but even allowing that they're real, he's a grown-up and should figure out a way to get over them. Maybe you just need to keep sucking until you drown out the memory of Toothy.

Oh trust me i do ;) even when he is fast asleep i crawl under the covers butt ass naked and get to sucking until he wakes up ;) who wouldn't like that!
 
Wow

May I just say, my dear, you are a beautiful woman and he's a lucky man. Good luck.
 
massage the prostrate with a finger inside

My girlfriends was good at this, she'd suck me, and right inside the ass. When she sucked me she would push up and massage this small button or nub as soon as she would press her finger against the it I would start filling her mouth with thick hot cream, if your man will let you stick a finger in his ass and then you should feel the prostrate right on top. I would explode a major load of cum in my girlfriends mouth everytime she would suck me and massage the prostrate with a finger at the same time, forcing her to gulp and swallow until she emptied my full balls, she sure liked getting me off..
 
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