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[DonkeyDonnie]

new to this.
my wife wants me to be the dom.
she wants me to spank her and tell her what to do.
looking for something like a script, or should I read some stories.
I'm normally a soft cuddly kinda guy, I don't mind the spanking part, I just don't know what to say to without sounding like a douche

thanks for any help, please go easy

 

[amofiga]

If you try to work by a script, then it will all look fake and "playful" rather than what she may want which is a sense of true domination. SO..... I say look into your heart and into the back recesses of your brain to the dank basement of your personality and sexuality. What do you fantasize about? Ever fantasized about kidnapping some woman, tying her up and using her? Be honest with yourself. Are you THAT cuddly that you don't lust after some of the women you see at work and wish you could just drag them off somewhere and have your way with them? Hell, even Woody Allen uses these sorts of things as counterpoint to his usual nebbish characters in movies. Ever want to hit the game winning grand slam in the World Series or run back the punt for the game winning TD in the last 3 seconds of the Super Bowl? Ever want to be like Humphrey Bogart slapping a woman back into her senses? Let that part of you out to play.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Witchybug]

Above all this awesome advice....communicate, communicate, communicate.....Get to know what you both want