How to use a cock ring

[gga]

Old guy here (57M) but just looking into using a cock ring for the first time. My inexperience gets me wondering how to best use one.

Do I put it on when erect or semi-erect and then grow into it?
Assume I use lube to slide it one more easily.

I'm already shaved so I hope that would make life easier by avoiding the pulling of the public hairs.

Thanks.

 

[Bigspurt]

Old guy here (57M) but just looking into using a cock ring for the first time. My inexperience gets me wondering how to best use one.

Do I put it on when erect or semi-erect and then grow into it?
Assume I use lube to slide it one more easily.

I'm already shaved so I hope that would make life easier by avoiding the pulling of the public hairs.

Thanks.

There are several types. One goes just on the shaft and the other goes behind everything, balls and all. There are some that have both rings.

Size matters. Too tight, OUCH and blue balls, to large and they loose their purpose. I use one that goes behind everything. I have 3 different sizes. 1 3/4" ID, 1 7/8" ID and one that is 2" ID. Put on when flaccid, balls first. Then stuff the shaft through. While the 1 3/4" works and is a little tight, the challenge is getting my balls through and it's not easy to get off either. Soap and water help.

There is a previous thread where I have posted an "O" ring company. There is a universal chart for size. They cost a lot less there than from an "adult toy store".

 

[SissySalina]

What is your purpose in wearing a ring? That will decide what size and how to wear it.

 

[twister947]

Primary purpose is to prolong the erection. Not as young as I used to be.

Try a ring around the base of your cock. Before you spend a bunch of $, visit your hardware store and ask for welded rings. They come in several sizes, and are cheap. 1.25" works for me.

Don't leave it on too long.

 

[gga]

Thanks for the feedback.
And thanks to user @saintcero who directed me to the following thread.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1310732

 

[Funinkilts]

I agree with the top small problem. Felt the orgasm, but it shut down the urethra n thus no cum. Also stretched the skin way too tight.

I am an exhibitionist flasher with a penchant to flirt and talk dirty. I have no audience for said outlet. I have no inhibitions, filter or hangups. Pm’s always welcum

 

[bone251]

I use a rubber o ring for ED help. Go around balls and penis.
The rings are about a $1 each. Easy to buy all kinds of sizes to find your best fit.

 

[floridabeachguy]

You can buy a rubber one right at CVS, if you want to give it a try

 

[19LoverBoy69]

Old guy here (57M) but just looking into using a cock ring for the first time. My inexperience gets me wondering how to best use one.

Do I put it on when erect or semi-erect and then grow into it?
Assume I use lube to slide it one more easily.

I'm already shaved so I hope that would make life easier by avoiding the pulling of the public hairs.

Thanks.

Get the thiicker and stiff silicone clear colored one. Start with 3 pack. You get 3 different sizes. Just lube the ring with your favorite lube. I prefer pure pressed coconut oil or grape seen. When you start getting hard make sure when it's sliding over the head it's nice and tight but not to tight to cut off circulation. It will be hard and throbbing but you can't use it long like that. It will start hurting. But when you get the medium right. You will mimic Tarzan. No pill can do that and if it does that too strong for the body. It don't matter about the person you are a with if they like it hard and fast, or slow and easy and some like both switching back and forth. When you consider yourself done your partner will wore out and can't take anymore. Or _UCK other raw. It don't matter how much lube you use. But there no use in hurting it. It takes too long to recover. Take your time and take break and communicate continuously with each other.. Both drive for a while. Anyway you will think you are the man. With them veins popping. Good luck. Oyeah don't leave it on throbbing over ten min. Don't want do damage it. Believe me it will damage it

 

[19LoverBoy69]

Old guy here (57M) but just looking into using a cock ring for the first time. My inexperience gets me wondering how to best use one.

Do I put it on when erect or semi-erect and then grow into it?
Assume I use lube to slide it one more easily.

I'm already shaved so I hope that would make life easier by avoiding the pulling of the public hairs.Not much lube just on the inner part off the ring . Just a lite coat on the inside because the silicone ones that are thick will grip to it as you slide it on and make the head swell and the veins pop. Whomever you use it on just make you make the right choices. And always maintain it. Keep it wajed and sanitized. No bad g

What is your purpose in wearing a ring? That will decide what size and how to wear it.

Most people wear them to maintain. And boy do they maintain. Make them veins bulge. For hard and fast or slow and easy but drag it hard. Or all of the above

 

[LittleSwitchy]

If I can chime in.
I’d suggest getting a set of 3 silicone rings. It’s kinda like a training set. They vary in size.
I wood strongly suggest NOT getting a thin silicone ring. Total waste of time and money. It won’t last long at all.
I suggest getting silicone cause it has some give to it. Metal has no give. You don’t want to get the wrong size ring and get hurt.
One last thing. If you start experiencing discomfort. Stop!!

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

So I’ve read a couple of these threads and there is one glaring oversight. How do your SO’s like them?
i was considering one of the metal jobs but it looks like it may hurt her during a pound session?

Any feedback from our LitLadies would be helpful.

 

[falkor207]

As a bonus a ring can offer more pressure on her clit, especially if she's riding cowgirl. GF told me she felt fuller more stretched. I can see I'm girthier when I feet fully hard, not a huge amount, but I see it every day, so any change is easy to notice. I have a metal ring from Gear Essentials, but did start with a hard rubber to get the sizing right.

 

[Tallcajun]

Here is a good thread on the topic of cock rings.

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...cockrings-steel-silicone-leather-all.1310732/

 

[magic_rat]

So I’ve read a couple of these threads and there is one glaring oversight. How do your SO’s like them?
i was considering one of the metal jobs but it looks like it may hurt her during a pound session?

Any feedback from our LitLadies would be helpful.

DON'T get a metal one unless you know what you're doing.
The thick silicone ones that others have mentioned also stimulate the clit which most ladies in my experience find very pleasurable.

 

[gary04]

This cock ring is a little difficult to get on but once you figure it out it goes on easy. The hardest part is getting your ball in it all the way. Yes you put it on when you are soft.

 

[sandybrooke]

Old guy here (57M) but just looking into using a cock ring for the first time. My inexperience gets me wondering how to best use one.

Do I put it on when erect or semi-erect and then grow into it?
Assume I use lube to slide it one more easily.

I'm already shaved so I hope that would make life easier by avoiding the pulling of the public hairs.

Thanks.

I found using silicone rings as a beginner is best. You can buy them on Amazon at a reasonable price and experiment from there. Find your happy place so to speak. Combined with a pocket pussy is great!!

 

[magic_rat]

I found using silicone rings as a beginner is best. You can buy them on Amazon at a reasonable price and experiment from there. Find your happy place so to speak. Combined with a pocket pussy is great!!

Pocket pussy?

Ever considered trying a real one?

 

[sandybrooke]

Pocket pussy?

Ever considered trying a real one?

Wife lost interest during menopause. Pockets all I have

 

[Britva415]

Wife lost interest during menopause.

Here come the "Burn The Bitch" comments. In 3... 2... 1...

 

[Bigspurt]

Has any one used the giddy. It looks like it just goes on the shaft as close to the body as possible. Seems to be a bit expensive to me for a band and some rubber bands to hold it on. I went through their website for sizing and while the website has me as a "C", when I chatted with a representative, I'm a "D", which isn't offered on the for sale page. Hmmm
Anyway I think I prefer the full, behind the balls type and while a 1 3/4 feels best for the restriction, I can barely get my balls through it.

To put on, standing and hold the ring up against one or the other and push/pull through ball # 1. then holding ball #1 away and to the side, insert ball #2. Pushing and pulling as needed. Gravity helps which is why I suggested standing. Once through with the boys, hold them away and to the side and push your flaccid cock through. While still flaccid adjust the ring as needed for comfort. When flacid and place, I don't really feel it. That said I made a wider version using 2" PCV Pipe, Almost 3/4 inch long and sanded smooth around the edges. It is more noticeable when flaccid.

The routine is simply, put it on, have your fun and remove when once again flaccid. My usual 1 7/8 ID, 3/16 wide, silicone "O" ring is not noticeable if I leave it on. I just take it off the next time I pee.
Some suggest that the ring holds the collective unit away from the body, thus making the package look larger. Maybe with the 3/4 inch PVC but not much. Maybe if you are prancing around in your favorite swing club in an elastic brief with a pouch, or at the pool or beach in a speedo, there might be some size embellishment. Your mileage may vary..

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Has any one used the giddy. It looks like it just goes on the shaft as close to the body as possible. Seems to be a bit expensive to me for a band and some rubber bands to hold it on. I went through their website for sizing and while the website has me as a "C", when I chatted with a representative, I'm a "D", which isn't offered on the for sale page. Hmmm
Anyway I think I prefer the full, behind the balls type and while a 1 3/4 feels best for the restriction, I can barely get my balls through it.

To put on, standing and hold the ring up against one or the other and push/pull through ball # 1. then holding ball #1 away and to the side, insert ball #2. Pushing and pulling as needed. Gravity helps which is why I suggested standing. Once through with the boys, hold them away and to the side and push your flaccid cock through. While still flaccid adjust the ring as needed for comfort. When flacid and place, I don't really feel it. That said I made a wider version using 2" PCV Pipe, Almost 3/4 inch long and sanded smooth around the edges. It is more noticeable when flaccid.

The routine is simply, put it on, have your fun and remove when once again flaccid. My usual 1 7/8 ID, 3/16 wide, silicone "O" ring is not noticeable if I leave it on. I just take it off the next time I pee.
Some suggest that the ring holds the collective unit away from the body, thus making the package look larger. Maybe with the 3/4 inch PVC but not much. Maybe if you are prancing around in your favorite swing club in an elastic brief with a pouch, or at the pool or beach in a speedo, there might be some size embellishment. Your mileage may vary..

I saw this advertised on the Weather Channel of all places!. I’m guessing you’re talking about this one Eddie by Giddy?
Looks clinical but if it works this might be a good option. I agree, it’s on the pricey side. I did get the sizing ones from King Rings but then the wife cut me off for a few months and I just haven’t introduced them into the play since I’ve been deemed worthy again.

Will report on what I find out.