I have a close friend who always flirts with me. Sometimes she will tackle me out of the blue and sit on my legs. Another friend says that is a sign she really likes me but I don't know how to tell if it is just her natural personality or something more. Thank you guys in advance.
How to tell if someone likes you
- Thread starter JacksonS
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If you like her, tell her. If she likes you back, great! If not, she would realize that her actions are sending some confusing messages, and you can decide if you want to continue your friendship with her.
You seem young; getting in the habit of being clear and direct will save you a lot of sleepless nights in the future.
You seem young; getting in the habit of being clear and direct will save you a lot of sleepless nights in the future.
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I know people hate it when I post Youtube videos but this video sums it up perfectly
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I jest, but honestly I would observe her interactions with others she's close with.
If she does some of the same things, with them, that she does with you if may be her personality. If not then she probably does like you and is just as shy about saying something to you as you are to her.
Beware, though, of the friendship being changed if you're reading her wrong and say something.
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I totally agree with the "clear and direct" approach
You could playfully ask "are you wanting something more?"
Don't assume though - ask
and sometimes flirting is just flirting. It can be fun, playful and be a part of your friendship for years to come. I have friends who are outrageously fun flirts - it is a game where the boundaries are clearly understood.
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Your interpertation
In the years past time was lost in relationships just trying to figure them out.
Truth is best. Seek and ye shall find.
Talk is best, if they are your friend first, you can always talk.
In the years past time was lost in relationships just trying to figure them out.
Truth is best. Seek and ye shall find.
Talk is best, if they are your friend first, you can always talk.
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Wouldn't it be better if you asked this question to your friend?
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Only she knows, man. Ask her!
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Jackson,
You sound like you are still pretty young to be asking this question and the answers you are getting are horrible.
I take it that you would not be asking about her unless you have some interest in her. If you like a girl then you flirt with her. You don't literally tell her you like her. That kills attraction, especially in women I think. Women want to wonder about you and they want a challenge.
If you literally tell her you "like" her to whatever extent you could like at this stage of knowing her then that is about the worst thing you could do attraction wise. You can show her that you have curiosity about her by flirting with her, teasing her, giving a sexual vibe without saying anything overtly sexual.
I suggest you get some advice from dating and relationship experts. Two that I know of are Corey Wayne and Marni Kinrys. Also, if you are sexually active in any way then stop so you can have some sexual energy you can share with her because you are going to need it to naturally flirt with her and feel good.
Flirt with her some and if you like how she behaves and want to know he better tell her you want to see her again and hand her your phone and tell her to put her telephone number in there.
Then once you get her number you wait until it is convenient for you to text her and ask her what her schedule is for the next week. Find out a day she is available for a date and setup a date. Don't see her outside of that and don't text her back if she texts you except maybe to say something like "see you on day whatever of your date". You can do some flirting on the texting, but it really isn't necessary and has the potential to turn into too much interaction, which you want to save for the date because that is what in person is for. Texting is for setting up in person, not substituting it or becoming her friend.
All this stuff is covered in Corey Wayne's videos and book on relationship advice. I think it is good advice.
You sound like you are still pretty young to be asking this question and the answers you are getting are horrible.
I take it that you would not be asking about her unless you have some interest in her. If you like a girl then you flirt with her. You don't literally tell her you like her. That kills attraction, especially in women I think. Women want to wonder about you and they want a challenge.
If you literally tell her you "like" her to whatever extent you could like at this stage of knowing her then that is about the worst thing you could do attraction wise. You can show her that you have curiosity about her by flirting with her, teasing her, giving a sexual vibe without saying anything overtly sexual.
I suggest you get some advice from dating and relationship experts. Two that I know of are Corey Wayne and Marni Kinrys. Also, if you are sexually active in any way then stop so you can have some sexual energy you can share with her because you are going to need it to naturally flirt with her and feel good.
Flirt with her some and if you like how she behaves and want to know he better tell her you want to see her again and hand her your phone and tell her to put her telephone number in there.
Then once you get her number you wait until it is convenient for you to text her and ask her what her schedule is for the next week. Find out a day she is available for a date and setup a date. Don't see her outside of that and don't text her back if she texts you except maybe to say something like "see you on day whatever of your date". You can do some flirting on the texting, but it really isn't necessary and has the potential to turn into too much interaction, which you want to save for the date because that is what in person is for. Texting is for setting up in person, not substituting it or becoming her friend.
All this stuff is covered in Corey Wayne's videos and book on relationship advice. I think it is good advice.
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