How to suck dick?

[SweetChick]

hi all ,

i am new to the board ..

i also am new to sex .. it is my first time.

i have been active for 8 months..


can you guys give me tips on how to suck dick .. i am not the best at it and i know practice is what it takes...


i have really bad gag reflexes ... i cant go as low as my guy would like me to ..

please help me out ..

SweetChick

 

[mrs.jeepman6]

hi all ,

i am new to the board ..

i also am new to sex .. it is my first time.

i have been active for 8 months..


can you guys give me tips on how to suck dick .. i am not the best at it and i know practice is what it takes...


i have really bad gag reflexes ... i cant go as low as my guy would like me to ..

please help me out ..

SweetChick

As you gain more experience you will learn to relax and you'll be able to go down on him farther but the main thing is to just relax and enjoy.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

A great head job is so much more than just how far his cock can get down your throat. Most importantly is - have fun! Its sex - its supposed to be fun! Try licking it all over - from top to bottom, bottom to top. Get way down there deep by his balls, up his inner thighs and around and around his head. Get him nice and wet - use some lube if you want. Use your hands, fingers, lips, tongue, chin, eyes, face - get involved. LOVE what you're doing. Worship that cock like its the most magnificent thing you've ever held in your hands. Try taking just the head into your mouth while looking deep into his eyes. Use your hand to stroke his shaft while slipping his cock in and out of your mouth. It will only be a matter of minutes before you get your reward! lol

As with most things - your attitude is more important than your skill level! Oh - and practice practice practice.......

 

[Bobmi357]

NO TEETH!!!!



But seriously. Giving head isn't rocket science. Your biggest clues should come from reading your partner. Does he lay there talking about the sports page or does he goan and roll his eyes til all you can see are the whites?

Learn to spot the hidden messages your partner is giving you all the time. He can't help it, he's sending out signals and all you need to do is to learn to recognize them. Toes curling, sighing, maybe a moan or two. A gentle caress of his hand across your hair.

As an aside from the messages he's sending via body language, why don't you try asking him what he likes and dislikes. If this is a first for both of you, then play it like a little experiement and tell him you're going to do something, then ask how it felt. It will turn the event into a game of sorts, AND when you're done with him, he can return the favor by going down on you in the same manner.

As crazyBBWGirl said, this is sex, its supposed to be fun and enjoyable, so enjoy it, but learn to read your partner, and learn to talk to your partner. It will make for better sex all around.

 

[PrettyKitty427]

NO TEETH!!!!



But seriously. Giving head isn't rocket science. Your biggest clues should come from reading your partner. Does he lay there talking about the sports page or does he goan and roll his eyes til all you can see are the whites?

Learn to spot the hidden messages your partner is giving you all the time. He can't help it, he's sending out signals and all you need to do is to learn to recognize them. Toes curling, sighing, maybe a moan or two. A gentle caress of his hand across your hair.

As an aside from the messages he's sending via body language, why don't you try asking him what he likes and dislikes. If this is a first for both of you, then play it like a little experiement and tell him you're going to do something, then ask how it felt. It will turn the event into a game of sorts, AND when you're done with him, he can return the favor by going down on you in the same manner.

As crazyBBWGirl said, this is sex, its supposed to be fun and enjoyable, so enjoy it, but learn to read your partner, and learn to talk to your partner. It will make for better sex all around.

some guys like teeth...near the base, not the head. Hint: the more you enjoy giving the head the more likely he is to enjoy receiving it

 

[friendlyfellow]

I know a girl that gives head like no other. Like everybody says the secret is enthousiasm. Not desperate to please, just relaxed, savouring, confident and fun. Now in addition to what crazybbwgir has allready said, this girl does this thing where she licks her hand, then glides it very softly over the head. It creates a very intense tickling sensation that is kinda wonderful and horribly painfull at the same time. Not sure how she does it exactly. It will make him scream if you get it right and he won't want you to stop. What's more is it will prevent him from being able to cum. The girl that does this to me will torture me for a full hour like this. Bringing me close than rubbing it and making me scream. Over and over again. What a trip......

 

[sweet T]

Does anyone know the candy sugar daddy.. on a stick...

mmmmmmm


i like it like candy!

 

[Enodia]

apparently I'm good at blow jobs. *shrug* Any guy that complains about how a girl gives blow jobs should be strung up by their toe nails--they should be glad a girl wants to do it for them.

one trick, though:

turn your head so your mouth is parallel to his penis. put your mouth right on the center of the penis (there should be a little ridge there), just below the head. Then run your mouth up and down the entire length about three times, then go back to the head and suck on him for a bit, then repeat the other thing. My boyfriend loves this move.

 

[Limbhugger]

I couldn't add a thing to what CrazyBBW said. It is the act not the action that makes it such a wonderful experience.

I would say tho, don't let him force you to try to take more than you can. Some women (and men for that matter) have gag reflexes that are positioned very far up the mouth. We all must explore within our physical limitations. If you can't you just can't. If he doesn't like that, find someone who does. Because that is a sign of trouble on the horizon. Just MHO.

My wife is incredible when it comes to oral sex. Yes, she can take me almost fully into her mouth but truth be told that isn't what feels best. What really feels best is all the things CrazyBBW described. Physically speaking, I guess having the underside of my head, just where the glands come together feels the best. Pursing your lips and stroking them quickly over this spot is very intense!

Oral sex, like most everything else sexually, can be just for the pure quick physical relief or they can be taken to a higher plane. Depends on the mood of the receiver and the giver.

But in the end, at least at my age, it is the whole act that gets me off. The mental, spiritual, and physical. And yes, I do find oral sex spiritual. When given and received with the right motivation it is an incredible expression of love.

When a partner has that true worship look in their eye as they look up into your...wow. And you can't fake that, well at least not to the discerning eye.

Be free. Explore your own sexuality as you explore his physical response would be my only suggestion.

Oh and CrazyBBW, can my wife and I have your number?...LOL

 

[Mistress K]

Everyone has given you great advice on this - just go with the flow *so to speak *

I have been told i'm great a blowjobs but every guy that says it - gives me a different reason. I mean I can deepthroat but not everyone likes that. I have my tongue pierced too but one guy has told me to take it out before. It all depends on the guy.

One thing on the biting though - some guys also like it on the head but only if very gentle. My current affair loves to have me run my teeth along the head scraping softly at first and then a bit harder. This can get him off in a matter of minutes. But everyone is different so just ask your guy what he would like - it's that simple.

 

[SexyChele]

I have to agree with those who state it's all in the attitude. If you feel obligated or unsure of yourself, it will come through in your actions. Also, if you try something new and he indicates he doesn't like it, stop. (I've known women who have tried something on one man who enjoyed it and felt all other men should as well!)

For me, I like to just give all my attention to the penis, balls, and groin area. Don't forget that the feel of a tongue running along the inside of a thigh feels great to most men and women. And don't be afraid to try things - flicking your tongue over various spots, suck hard/light, using teeth (LIGHTLY!). And a biggie? As you have your man's penis between your lips, look up into his eyes. Trust me on this one - the sight of your man's face while receiving pleasure is overwhelming! Not to mention what the sight of your eyes looking into his is doing to his brain!

Let him know that you enjoy what you are doing: smile, tell him how much you are enjoying yourself, etc.

Enthusiasm often makes up for any perceived lack of technique!

 

[SnoManX]

I'll second the eye contact. It's a huge part when it comes to oral. It's hard to explain, but when she looks up at me with my dick in her mouth, it will send me over the edge almost every time.

 

[PassionsFlame]

A man I know loves this thing I do with stroking him with my hand and wrapping my lips over the head of his cock... I stroke my hand up and down as I move my lips the same way, and then off and on I will rub my hand all the way over the head of his cock a few times- which drives him wild- then resume.

But what *really* gets him though, is when I turn my fist around on the shaft as I stroke and turn my head also as I suck on him.... drives him crazy...

 

[citrausa]

A great head job is so much more than just how far his cock can get down your throat. Most importantly is - have fun! Its sex - its supposed to be fun! Try licking it all over - from top to bottom, bottom to top. Get way down there deep by his balls, up his inner thighs and around and around his head. Get him nice and wet - use some lube if you want. Use your hands, fingers, lips, tongue, chin, eyes, face - get involved. LOVE what you're doing. Worship that cock like its the most magnificent thing you've ever held in your hands. Try taking just the head into your mouth while looking deep into his eyes. Use your hand to stroke his shaft while slipping his cock in and out of your mouth. It will only be a matter of minutes before you get your reward! lol

As with most things - your attitude is more important than your skill level! Oh - and practice practice practice.......

Exactly !

 

[N8Dreams]

Imagine you lick some ice cream....