How To Successfully Pick Up Women

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Choose a light one.

No actually, what would be your secret? And ladies...any clues to how you should be approached?
 
This is my approach on how to pick-up a woman

Confidence and persistence. Make eye contact before you approach. Eye contact from a distance and see how she responds. If she holds your gaze- or even better, if she smiles, go talk to her.

If she is with friends- Don't express interest in both her & her friends .

Make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Often, a woman will go for a man on: how he makes her feel.
 
start easy with the fireman carry , but just bending over and letting them fall across your shoulder and then standing back up with them mounted on you is another good way. And I recomend always lifting with your knees to protect your back. After picking up women alot and you feel confident then try a piggy back carry, women love confidence so go for it!
 
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This is my approach on how to pick-up a woman

Confidence and persistence. Make eye contact before you approach. Eye contact from a distance and see how she responds. If she holds your gaze- or even better, if she smiles, go talk to her.

If she is with friends- Don't express interest in both her & her friends .

Make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Often, a woman will go for a man on: how he makes her feel.

Yep, that would do it!
 
My 2 cents?

Don't waste too much time trying to be interesting. Instead try being interested.
This is another person, not some alien being. We aren't that different from you. Be respectful, have a sense of humor, just be nice. Listen as much as you talk and if she wants you to go away then GO.
 
Be genuine. Get to know her and her interests. Make her laugh.

All else fails two arms and a lil elbow grease??!
 
Do not use any corny lines, just say Hi, be yourself whomever that may be.

PS. You can undress me with your eyes when I am not looking, but when I am eye contact works.

Also remember within the first minute there is a good chance I have made up my mind if I would sleep with you or not......lmao
 
Do not use any corny lines, just say Hi, be yourself whomever that may be.

PS. You can undress me with your eyes when I am not looking, but when I am eye contact works.

Also remember within the first minute there is a good chance I have made up my mind if I would sleep with you or not......lmao

well said girlfriend:)
 
How about this!

Don't try and pick them up, just talk to them and see where it goes?

I've been married for a long time so I'm probably not a great seer on the subject, but I actually get embarrassed at times watching guys Trying to Pick up Women.
leave the cheesy lines at home and just be yourself, it's a lot easier in the long run!
 
I never even get the chance to talk. I notice when I go out that everyone, guys and girls, avoid eye contact with me, unless I run into someone I know.
 
I never even get the chance to talk. I notice when I go out that everyone, guys and girls, avoid eye contact with me, unless I run into someone I know.
There is no right or wrong place to meet people!
If you don't stand out in the places you're trying to get noticed in then go someplace you do stand out.
Nothing is more attractive than a man in his element--doing something he loves and is good at. Find a way to be in THAT place when you meet people the first time.
Love the outdoors? Get outside where there are other people.
Are you a great cook? Yeah, I'm about to say the grocery store but also wine tastings or cooking classes.
Be where you're comfortable and you'll stand out in a good way. Your best self will be the first thing anyone sees.
 
There is no right or wrong place to meet people!
If you don't stand out in the places you're trying to get noticed in then go someplace you do stand out.
Nothing is more attractive than a man in his element--doing something he loves and is good at. Find a way to be in THAT place when you meet people the first time.
Love the outdoors? Get outside where there are other people.
Are you a great cook? Yeah, I'm about to say the grocery store but also wine tastings or cooking classes.
Be where you're comfortable and you'll stand out in a good way. Your best self will be the first thing anyone sees.

Unfortunately what I am good at, is not populated by women. Or if it is, they are there with their husbands. I am actually a great cook, but at the grocery store, it's like everyone is zombies, or completely unaware of their surroundings. Of course I was there Monday, and every woman I would have cared to talked to had this big shiny thing on their left ring finger.

It's not about being comfortable, it's about being completely ignored - or avoided. Even if I'm the only guy in the place.
 
Pick a joke that will start a conversation.

This one will always never work.

"If it were any more crowded in here, you'd be on my lap."
 
This is my approach on how to pick-up a woman

Confidence and persistence. Make eye contact before you approach. Eye contact from a distance and see how she responds. If she holds your gaze- or even better, if she smiles, go talk to her.

If she is with friends- Don't express interest in both her & her friends .

Make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Often, a woman will go for a man on: how he makes her feel.

good response
 
lol...the best

start easy with the fireman carry , but just bending over and letting them fall across your shoulder and then standing back up with them mounted on you is another good way. And I recomend always lifting with your knees to protect your back. After picking up women alot and you feel confident then try a piggy back carry, women love condence, so go for it!
 
hey, I do this...

My 2 cents?

Don't waste too much time trying to be interesting. Instead try being interested.
This is another person, not some alien being. We aren't that different from you. Be respectful, have a sense of humor, just be nice. Listen as much as you talk and if she wants you to go away then GO.
 
so no...Hey, you're more beautiful than a hundred pink flamingos on a gof course?

Do not use any corny lines, just say Hi, be yourself whomever that may be.

PS. You can undress me with your eyes when I am not looking, but when I am eye contact works.

Also remember within the first minute there is a good chance I have made up my mind if I would sleep with you or not......lmao
 
treat them with respect an make them feel comfortable.

So don't pull it out until she says it's okay?

How about this!

Don't try and pick them up, just talk to them and see where it goes?

I've been married for a long time so I'm probably not a great seer on the subject, but I actually get embarrassed at times watching guys Trying to Pick up Women.
leave the cheesy lines at home and just be yourself, it's a lot easier in the long run!

But I have a good one..."You're so hot you melt the plastic in my underwear. "

I never even get the chance to talk. I notice when I go out that everyone, guys and girls, avoid eye contact with me, unless I run into someone I know.

I would stop grinning while holding a blunt object...that might help
 
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