How to successfully deep throat?

[nurseonnights]

Thank goodness to find a place like this where I can ask a question without embarrassment. My BF and I are very heavily into oral sex. I am trying to experiment with deep throating which i have been able to accomplish with much time and patience. We both enjoy it very much. The problem I have now is that I can get it down my throat but I am trying very hard to stop the gag reflex. I can feel my stomach knotting up as he tries to pump my throat. I do not fear vomiting but I find myself starting to urinate as this reflex starts. This is quite embarrassing. I have not made him aware of this problem yet but it is going to become increasing obvious to him in time.

Another thing I want to try to work past it how he can continually pump my throat with ease. I can take it a few times but after that I tense up and have to take his cock out of my mouth and start again.

Any suggestions?

 

[isshogai7]

try to find some thread here using the search:Anyway,to successfully deepthroath,you must put yourself in a position where the mouth and the esofagus make a straight line,like lyng down with the head tilted back(on the corner of the bed,as example),so you can take him all the way in.(basically the same trick used by swordseaters).Try to do things slowly,take your time,lots of patience from you and your bf also.Remember that past half of the lenght,the penis is not too sensitive.There are lotsa things more interesting to do than that.
Good luck on your practice

 

[SkyyAngel]

You know not to contradict isshogai or anything but I've heard that thing about laying on the edge of the bed and tilting your head back to put your throat in a straight line and all but it's never worked for me. Either the blood rushes to my head and I can't concentrate on what I'm doing and get dizzy or I gag. Which was sorta what you're trying to avoid in the first place. I'm sure it works with some women but I personally can't do it. Plus I find it's extremely hard for me to keep my teeth out of the way in that position.....ouch.

I can deep throat though. Usually he's either sitting or laying down and I'm between his legs or off to the side as I suck on him. The deep throat thing is basically all in the timing. and practice practice practice!!! What I mean by the timing is that I have to time my breathing through my nose usually but if his cocks in my throat it cuts that off too...so I have to time his thrusts on my intake of breath. If I don't do that I gag. Also why I can't have him shove my head down onto his cock...I go at my own pace and it's usually much more pleasureable for the both of us that way.

And really there is just a LOT of practice. I must've given this one guy (the first one I ever did that to) head about 30 times before I got the deep throating down without gagging after a few strokes like you.

I've also found it has to do with the last time I've eaten as well. If I just recently ate (say like anywhere from 5-25 minutes before) I get that nauseous feeling in my stomach.

Hope any of this is helping. If you have any more questions perhaps I can explain this better for you if you don't get my suggestions here.

 

[isshogai7]

thanks for the things you've said you've helped her a lot more than i could do,happy to read that .By the way,i was never attracted to that practice,i think most people like the idea more than anything,but i may be wrong...........

 

[Quint]

I agree entirely with Skyy's point about timing your breathing; it can be really difficult, especially if he's fucking your face, but nothing makes me gag harder than trying to inhale while his cock is blocking my windpipe. You have to really keep control of yourself.

A good technique is to raise your soft palate. If you aren't familiar with the term, here's how. Make yourself yawn. Feel how wide and open your mouth is? The soft palate is the area where the back of your throat meets the roof of your mouth. If it's raised, as it is during a good yawn, you have a much better chance of not gagging. His cock isn't triggering the worst spot.

I don't quite know what's up with urinating when you're deepthroating him. Never heard of this before. My totally wild guess is that it's a panic reaction to feeling like you aren't in control of your own body. All I can recommend for that is to take several deep breaths and keep calm while you're trying this, and to make it perfectly clear to your boyfriend that you're in control of his pace and depth until you're comfortable with it. Once you've mastered it, then he can get a little rowdier, if you want.

Best wishes to you!