How to start?

[wakewake]

Hello

I'm inclined towards d/s, but that's it. I've had relationships, but none exploratory in any degree of seriousness.

My question is naive. How do I start? I obviously need to find someone, but I don't even know the terrain. I guess I'm looking for a primer? I glanced through the library on this forum but was hoping for something more introductory.

Thank you

 

[MeekMe]

Hello

I'm inclined towards d/s, but that's it. I've had relationships, but none exploratory in any degree of seriousness.

My question is naive. How do I start? I obviously need to find someone, but I don't even know the terrain. I guess I'm looking for a primer? I glanced through the library on this forum but was hoping for something more introductory.

Thank you

Welcome to the forum. It looks like you've already gotten started. Checking the library was a good first step. Now that you've looked through some topics, think about what you want to do. What do you want in a relationship?

Do you maybe have more specific questions? This is so general that it's difficult to be helpful.

When looking for someone you can try meeting people through local groups. FetLife is a networking site that can help you find events in your area to meet people and make friends. If online dating is more your thing, I've heard that OKCupid is not bad for finding people interested in power exchange, so you could check that out. With that said, finding someone to enjoy power exchange with is just dating, basically.