How to Show her Off

[frank8355]

I've been texting with this woman who says she likes to be shown off when out. She seems to like a dominate guy and to be into a little pain.

I'm not sure what she means by being shown off if we go out ?

Can anyone help fill in my missing knowledge here ?

Thanks

Frank

 

[DrGeniusWiener]

It means she like to be admired from afar. Hello?

 

[frank8355]

No, that's not what it seems to be. she likes to get a bit kinky out in public, I think she leans more towards public displays, but not sure.

She's good looking so people would admire her anyways.

Any one else

 

[Sir Victor]

I've been texting with this woman who says she likes to be shown off when out. She seems to like a dominate guy and to be into a little pain.

I'm not sure what she means by being shown off if we go out ?

Can anyone help fill in my missing knowledge here ?

Thanks

Frank

Put her in a short skirt without panties or bra, tight top to show off her tits and take her out to a club. Then of course there is the touching her under the table to make her climax. .... There are so many possibilities!
Into pain, nipple clamps under the top!

 

[SweetErika]

I'd suggest having a conversation about this, her other likes, dislikes and limits after you've met in person.

Regardless of what she likes, it's really unwise and poor form to impose your/her kinks on unwilling participants. At best, you're likely to offend people who haven't consented to being part of your kink; at worst, you could get yourself in serious legal trouble.

Revealing clothing and reasonable PDAs in an appropriate venue (like a club, where skimpy outfits and touching is the norm) is one thing, but if you two want to let your exhibitionist flag fly, you really need to go somewhere where that kind of behavior is expected and welcomed. For instance, you could "show her off" and play in front of others at a swingers' or BDSM party.

 

[DrGeniusWiener]

No, that's not what it seems to be. she likes to get a bit kinky out in public, I think she leans more towards public displays, but not sure.

She's good looking so people would admire her anyways.

Any one else

That's what I'm saying, Frank.

She wants you to indulge her exhibitionistic tendencies.

 

[Eilan]

Jesus H. Tebow. Here we go again.

Regardless of what she likes, it's really unwise and poor form to impose your/her kinks on unwilling participants.

This. A million times this.

 

[bailadora]

Jesus H. Tebow. Here we go again. This. A million times this.

Heh. I had the same thought.

 

[frank8355]

I see what you guys are saying, and understand but I think she wants to take things a bit further than that. When I had mentioned these things it was ho hum to her, she showed no interest, but insisted she wanted to be shown off.

 

[bailadora]

I see what you guys are saying, and understand but I think she wants to take things a bit further than that. When I had mentioned these things it was ho hum to her, she showed no interest, but insisted she wanted to be shown off.

Two thoughts here:

1) If she's not willing to give you some idea of what she's after, why are you busting your ass? FFS, you're not a mind reader.

2) If you don't have the express consent of all participants, including the spectators, then her wants are immaterial.

That may sound harsh and blunt, but several of the exhibitionist type people who have come through here lately seem to care less that indulging this type of behavior in public quite often imposes their kink on those who want no part of it.

 

[nakdsub]

I was just going to ask...

Why are you asking us and not her? That's really an ambiguous statement and could mean many things to many people.
I also agree with those who say don't force you kinks on others. Putting her in a small tight skirt with no panties maybe a kick for you but could really be offensive to others, especially if there are children present.
Maybe she wants nude photos taken and submitted to adults websites.
If you're looking for kinky fun in public, try a remote egg. Of course she has to wear panties but they're silent and can driver her crazy in public where she has to control herself.

 

[satindesire]

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=801567

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=801603

These threads are full of good information you need to take into account.

 

[subwannabe]

I've met people online but I've never really met anyone for the sole purpose of sex, which I guess this kind of is, sort of. I realize I'm in the minority but my first thought is what kind of a woman would want to start off a relationship with an internet stranger in such a fashion. It seems like she would want to meet for coffee first instead of expecting you to "show her off" in the coffee shop. I can't help but think there is something wrong with this scenario.

 

[Miles Long]

Rent a billboard and slap her pictures up there. There's one available out on the freeway, about a mile before exit 70 right next to the Cracker Barrel. Now that's exhibitionism!

 

[liljuls]

Showing her off.

First off I would have her paint you a picture using word imagery, perhaps she can tell you a made up story of herself being shown off.

Think of all the many different types of people in the world then add the types of likes to that.

Being shown off could be anything from a fancy ball in an expensive dress to the other forms mentioned above.