How to sext?

[Jada59]

I know how to do it. But.. So often, I either feel like a thesaurus or that I'm repeating myself again and again. How to you strike a balance yet make it sound natural?"

 

[Diemcarpe]

I think that’s where the recipient has to help make it exciting by their participation

 

[Jada59]

I think that’s where the recipient has to help make it exciting by their participation

Of course they do! I just sometimes feel like I am saying the same things over and over again. Of course with real sex there is far less conversation because I just *do*. No need to explain too much.

 

[MistressOfAlaok]

I personally enjoy using multiple words with the same meaning (boobs, tits, breasts...) to keep it from all sounding the same. Also adding detail is helpful for both me, as well as the other person, or so I have found. So for example instead of texting "I want to suck your cock" I would break it up in a few more actions, making it both more realistic as well as personal and easier to imagine. I personally like to add some unique details, oddities or habits that are personal to me/the person I am sexting with ("Would you like to watch how my purple painted nails scratch over her nipples?"). It keeps it both personal as well as fresh and, if you so wish, is a great way to get to know each other.
If your texting partner is not as strong of a replier, try to draw them out, it might help you as well. "I want you to lay on you back, maybe a pillow underneath your lower back. I will crawl in between your legs. Want to have a guess at what I would like to do now?"
If you feel like you both are constantly repeating yourself or struggling to continue the talk, you might just not have found the right partner...

 

[Jada59]

I personally enjoy using multiple words with the same meaning (boobs, tits, breasts...) to keep it from all sounding the same. Also adding detail is helpful for both me, as well as the other person, or so I have found. So for example instead of texting "I want to suck your cock" I would break it up in a few more actions, making it both more realistic as well as personal and easier to imagine. I personally like to add some unique details, oddities or habits that are personal to me/the person I am sexting with ("Would you like to watch how my purple painted nails scratch over her nipples?"). It keeps it both personal as well as fresh and, if you so wish, is a great way to get to know each other.
If your texting partner is not as strong of a replier, try to draw them out, it might help you as well. "I want you to lay on you back, maybe a pillow underneath your lower back. I will crawl in between your legs. Want to have a guess at what I would like to do now?"
If you feel like you both are constantly repeating yourself or struggling to continue the talk, you might just not have found the right partner...

Oh, I do that. I think it just trips me up when it comes to having orgasms. Not sure what to say then.

 

[KimGordon67]

Oh, I do that. I think it just trips me up when it comes to having orgasms. Not sure what to say then.

I used to find 'f6o768gty8ujartohfjpifh' worked quite well to indicate orgasm ... but that's on a proper keyboard.

 

[MutualMatureMike]

I used to find 'f6o768gty8ujartohfjpifh' worked quite well to indicate orgasm ... but that's on a proper keyboard.

Yes, but how do you pronounce that?!

 

[MutualMatureMike]

I know how to do it. But.. So often, I either feel like a thesaurus or that I'm repeating myself again and again. How to you strike a balance yet make it sound natural?"

Maybe it's the luck, or lack of it, present in meeting anyone new. You might really hit it off and the words and sensations just flow and build, or it might just feel a bit me mechanical, not quite firing off eachother, and then maybe become more aware of the words, rather than the hoped for pleasure behind them?

 

[Jada59]

Maybe it's the luck, or lack of it, present in meeting anyone new. You might really hit it off and the words and sensations just flow and build, or it might just feel a bit me mechanical, not quite firing off eachother, and then maybe become more aware of the words, rather than the hoped for pleasure behind them?

Maybe.

 

[30bandits]

want to practice?

 

[PWilton]

On Lit, one learns new things every day.

These tips could help with Lit Chat sessions as well.

 

[Jada59]

want to practice?

Heh. I get lots of practice.

 

[Jada59]

On Lit, one learns new things every day.

These tips could help with Lit Chat sessions as well.

Yes!!!!

 

[Viper_Red_2000]

You know what you are doing

Sounds like you are just refining the art, just takes time but it sounds like you know what you are doing... Think a lot of women are way better at it than some of us guys lol

 

[Jada59]

Sounds like you are just refining the art, just takes time but it sounds like you know what you are doing... Think a lot of women are way better at it than some of us guys lol

Ohhh... Thanks!

 

[Viper_Red_2000]

Anytime

 

[Viper_Red_2000]

Pretty sure I'm not helping much...

 

[Que]

I know how to do it. But.. So often, I either feel like a thesaurus or that I'm repeating myself again and again. How to you strike a balance yet make it sound natural?"

Cut and paste he kepin' it real, yo?

I kid.

 

[Jada59]

Cut and paste he kepin' it real, yo?

I kid.

Hehehe.