How To Seduce Her?

[xhardchick]

Hey there. I'm a bi-sexual woman and I'm in love with my best friend that happens to be bi-sexual too. We've kissed once, it was like heaven for me. I just wanna know how can I seduce her. I invited her to come at my place for the weekend, where I'll be alone. So any tips to make her mine? I know she wants me too but both we're afraid to make a move! I'd appriaciate it a lot if you have any advice to give me!

 

[Mac98]

At the risk of sounding like a junky (I hear coastal-boy running over...)

If you're open to non-harmful drugs... MDMA WILL have her rubbing herself all over you. If both of you are already wanting to be together and you'll both be alone... odds are you'll end up seeing some action. Not only that, but it'll probably be the greatest sex you've ever had.

Just be warned that the next morning, both of you'll feel like Satan's anus...

Otherwise, take it slowly and don't rush things. Send messages and move with how she responds to them.

 

[mtwain4u]

Hey there. I'm a bi-sexual woman and I'm in love with my best friend that happens to be bi-sexual too. We've kissed once, it was like heaven for me. I just wanna know how can I seduce her. I invited her to come at my place for the weekend, where I'll be alone. So any tips to make her mine? I know she wants me too but both we're afraid to make a move! I'd appriaciate it a lot if you have any advice to give me!

Is she going to stay with you (overnight)? If so I've got a pretty good idea how to.

 

[xhardchick]

-Hahaha Mac98 you're funny I don't think I'll try the drugs thing. But this idea with the messages is pretty nice, I just texted her!
-mtwain4u No she's not staying for the night but that's not a problem. Go ahead and tell me

 

[mtwain4u]

-Hahaha Mac98 you're funny I don't think I'll try the drugs thing. But this idea with the messages is pretty nice, I just texted her!
-mtwain4u No she's not staying for the night but that's not a problem. Go ahead and tell me

The key is to let sexual tension form all by itself. You can "help" it along several ways. First, make sure you look your sexy best but in an innocent sort of way. In other words, dress provocatively without looking like you're dressing that way. This is as easy as wearing a blouse but leaving an extra button unbottoned. You want to look casual but still be giving her something to look at. Also, make sure you let her know early on, and in a very NON-suggestive way, that you think she looks really sexy. Make sure the conversation includes sex. Not about your sex life or hers, but sex in general, and make sure to include personal anecdotes like, if talking about a scene in a particular movie say "that REALLY turned me on". In other words, make it explicit about you being turned on without talking about you being turned on. Then, sit next to her and when talking about innocent things, when you are in agreement place you hand/fingers on her knee. Let it linger maybe a second longer than it ordinarily would/should. Make sure you bend down to pick stuff up near her so your ass is near her line of sight. Or pick something up facing her so she inadvertantly gets a down blouse view of you (without bra). Two more things. First, at some point while talking (not during a time when talking about sex) say how worked up you got about something (not in a sexual sense, but in a nervous or excited sense) and say "see, my heart racing just talking about it" and place her hand on your heart (and, your braless breast). Second, at some point after much talking about sex, innuendo, and incidental contact, say you need to change and let her accidently see you naked or in a thong only.

After all of this there should be a LARGE amount of sexual tension in the room where if you are sitting next to her you two can find a way to touch - that will create a moment - and then take advantage of that moment. Gently kiss her neck, or run you fingers softly down her cheek. If she has interest in doing anything with you she won't be able to hold back. If she doesn't want to do anything then she won't. Either way, you'll know and you'll probably be very happy

 

[xhardchick]

That was really helpful! I think I can get her now! I'm a bit worried though, I know her since the 3rd grade, I don't wanna ruin our friendship!

 

[mtwain4u]

That was really helpful! I think I can get her now! I'm a bit worried though, I know her since the 3rd grade, I don't wanna ruin our friendship!

Well, if you do everything EXCEPT the neck kissing or fingers on the face then you should be able to get your answer without jeopardizing anything. ALL the other things are, by design, innocent enough that they can be shrugged off or explained. The idea behind this is to create such sexual tension that if she wants something to happen she will find a way to explicitly let you know. If she doesn't then nothing will happen and you're friendship hasn't been put at risk.

There was one other component that would be handy if she was staying over, but that's for another time

Good luck.

ps, PM me anytime if you want more suggestions.

 

[xhardchick]

Well, if you do everything EXCEPT the neck kissing or fingers on the face then you should be able to get your answer without jeopardizing anything. ALL the other things are, by design, innocent enough that they can be shrugged off or explained. The idea behind this is to create such sexual tension that if she wants something to happen she will find a way to explicitly let you know. If she doesn't then nothing will happen and you're friendship hasn't been put at risk.

There was one other component that would be handy if she was staying over, but that's for another time

Good luck.

ps, PM me anytime if you want more suggestions.

That was really helpful indeed. Sure. I'll also let you know if the seduction worked!

 

[Adrraiya]

Hey there. I'm a bi-sexual woman and I'm in love with my best friend that happens to be bi-sexual too. We've kissed once, it was like heaven for me. I just wanna know how can I seduce her. I invited her to come at my place for the weekend, where I'll be alone. So any tips to make her mine? I know she wants me too but both we're afraid to make a move! I'd appriaciate it a lot if you have any advice to give me!

There is something a man said to me once.... and I am sure it would work from woman-to-woman just was well as it did man-to-woman

similar scenario... in that the man was a best friend... and we had kissed once.... apparently that kiss really hung the moon for him .... I just didn't know that it had


so, one day a while after that kiss...... he came by... we talked about work & life & whatnot & ate dinner (normal things for us to do as friends)

as I walked him to the door....

he stopped....

he looked at me....

and he said: "Do you remember when we kissed?"

and I said :"Yeah"

and he said: "I have wanted nothing more and nothing less than you ever since that kiss & was hoping it would be alright to kiss you again"


needless to say we ended up all over each other in a matter of seconds....


sometimes the simplest statement is the most seductive action of all!

 

[Sonchyenne]

as I walked him to the door....

he stopped....

he looked at me....

and he said: "Do you remember when we kissed?"

and I said :"Yeah"

and he said: "I have wanted nothing more and nothing less than you ever since that kiss & was hoping it would be alright to kiss you again"

That's beautiful, and I'd find it much more charming and less pressure inducing than more elaborate theatrics.

 

[qrayze]

There is something a man said to me once.... and I am sure it would work from woman-to-woman just was well as it did man-to-woman

similar scenario... in that the man was a best friend... and we had kissed once.... apparently that kiss really hung the moon for him .... I just didn't know that it had


so, one day a while after that kiss...... he came by... we talked about work & life & whatnot & ate dinner (normal things for us to do as friends)

as I walked him to the door....

he stopped....

he looked at me....

and he said: "Do you remember when we kissed?"

and I said :"Yeah"

and he said: "I have wanted nothing more and nothing less than you ever since that kiss & was hoping it would be alright to kiss you again"


needless to say we ended up all over each other in a matter of seconds....


sometimes the simplest statement is the most seductive action of all!

wow...just wow

reading that really made me wish for a similar experience and I'm not even into romance (I find it more manipulative than gushy)

That's beautiful, and I'd find it much more charming and less pressure inducing than more elaborate theatrics.

I whole-heartedly agree. A statement like that shows a person just how special and wanted they are by another.

btw, best of luck to you, xhc, I hope you let us know how it goes!

 

[xhardchick]

There is something a man said to me once.... and I am sure it would work from woman-to-woman just was well as it did man-to-woman

similar scenario... in that the man was a best friend... and we had kissed once.... apparently that kiss really hung the moon for him .... I just didn't know that it had


so, one day a while after that kiss...... he came by... we talked about work & life & whatnot & ate dinner (normal things for us to do as friends)

as I walked him to the door....

he stopped....

he looked at me....

and he said: "Do you remember when we kissed?"

and I said :"Yeah"

and he said: "I have wanted nothing more and nothing less than you ever since that kiss & was hoping it would be alright to kiss you again"


needless to say we ended up all over each other in a matter of seconds....


sometimes the simplest statement is the most seductive action of all!

Pretty nice one! Thanks!

 

[Que]

wow...just wow

reading that really made me wish for a similar experience and I'm not even into romance (I find it more manipulative than gushy)

~~~~~~~~~~warning: flirty threadjack ahead ~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Ah, nothing like some heartfelt manipulation. On the other hand, when we use out owrdsw to convey feelings we actually mean, its with intent to persuade, to move our way etc.

I recently was paid a lovely compliment. When I remarked several days later how much her statement had meant to me, she replied that she had 'hoped' it had stuck out to me. Was I manipulated? Hope so.

Beats manual/digital manipulation, no?

~~~~~~~~~end thread jack~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

So, to your question. I realize that each and every woman is different, but there are from time to time similarities....So what with you being a 'chick' and her being a 'chick' I'd go with how do you like to be seduced? Since you responded well to the above well, and you have known her so long with i would guess similar backgrounds and interests, I'd say go with what sounds seductive to you and go confidently.


I think of it like back-rubs. You ever noticed that in GIVING a back-rub, the person either consciously or subconsciously telegraphs how it is they like to be rubbed. So to speak. Are there things she has done that made you feel a little seduced? Parrot those things back.

 

[Carnevil9]

I recommend tequila.

 

[subwannabe]

I don't really understand your question. Asking for advice on how to seduce someone kind of implies that you're trying to land someone who at best is questionable and worst case scenario is not interested. In your case the other person is someone whom you have already kissed, she is already interested, and she is already coming over to your place. I'm sure she knows already that she isn't coming over to your place to play scrabble. Have some wine ready, wear something sexy, and kiss her again! I'm sure the two of you will be able to figure it out after that. Oh, and one more thing: Come back here and give us a detailed play by play of the events. Some of us can only fantasize and would appreciate you letting us be a small part of the action.

 

[Adrraiya]

wow...just wow

reading that really made me wish for a similar experience and I'm not even into romance (I find it more manipulative than gushy)



I whole-heartedly agree. A statement like that shows a person just how special and wanted they are by another.

btw, best of luck to you, xhc, I hope you let us know how it goes!

Yeah... it was WOW... and the end result was a marriage... a good marriage... and here it is ..... 20ish years later & I still remember his saying that... and the scent of him that night & what not........... we are divorced but it was because he found his true soul mate... we parted as best friends after being together just over 10 years.

 

[fma20fma]

Get her drunk, like what hapened to me.

 

[a75]

Hey there. I'm a bi-sexual woman and I'm in love with my best friend that happens to be bi-sexual too. We've kissed once, it was like heaven for me. I just wanna know how can I seduce her. I invited her to come at my place for the weekend, where I'll be alone. So any tips to make her mine? I know she wants me too but both we're afraid to make a move! I'd appriaciate it a lot if you have any advice to give me!

I was reading the replies and I just wondered, why there should be a "seduction method" or something like that. Since you both like each other and you don't have problem with homosexuality, why don't you follow the simple path? Tell her that you like her, that you 're sexually interested in her etc. I think it 'd be the easiest and most honest way for you to have sex.