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How?
~With all due care.
This is not the time to play rodeo queen but do try both cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. If he is an ass-man he may like reverse, a boob man favors standard face- your-partner girl-on-top sex. Me. I like expressions, so I need to see your face.
The other factor is ergonomics, yours and his. I curve up a bit so on most girls facing me is better because it puts my head against their g-spot. I have just under a dozen anecdotal observations but all of you are built different inside so I can't begin to tell you what would feel good to you, so try it both ways. The underside of the guy near the head (at least on me) is the most sensitive so however that gets more pressure is better for me, but in some cases esp with those with P.E. issues that would like to last longer (or you would) you would want to avoid those issues.
The due care part. Your mileage ma var as will his length vs other partners. Do not come completely up off him and slam back down. In fact, slamming is scary. At least for me. Make some tentative strokes until you know how high you can go before he falls out. I would prefer you not use the entire length. Aim to leave a couple of inches in at all times.
Unless you and your partner are very very much in sync with each-other's rhythms it is probably good that one of you stays still. It is possible for him to thrust up from the bottom, and it is fun when you can both move in tandem, but this is advanced play for aficionados of "Lambada- The Forbidden Dance!"
~With all due care.
This is not the time to play rodeo queen but do try both cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. If he is an ass-man he may like reverse, a boob man favors standard face- your-partner girl-on-top sex. Me. I like expressions, so I need to see your face.
The other factor is ergonomics, yours and his. I curve up a bit so on most girls facing me is better because it puts my head against their g-spot. I have just under a dozen anecdotal observations but all of you are built different inside so I can't begin to tell you what would feel good to you, so try it both ways. The underside of the guy near the head (at least on me) is the most sensitive so however that gets more pressure is better for me, but in some cases esp with those with P.E. issues that would like to last longer (or you would) you would want to avoid those issues.
The due care part. Your mileage ma var as will his length vs other partners. Do not come completely up off him and slam back down. In fact, slamming is scary. At least for me. Make some tentative strokes until you know how high you can go before he falls out. I would prefer you not use the entire length. Aim to leave a couple of inches in at all times.
Unless you and your partner are very very much in sync with each-other's rhythms it is probably good that one of you stays still. It is possible for him to thrust up from the bottom, and it is fun when you can both move in tandem, but this is advanced play for aficionados of "Lambada- The Forbidden Dance!"
