How to re-start?

Well, my good friend (who I actually met here 10 years ago!) was kind enough to let me tell him all about the night, so I'll share the chat he and I had. If you'd like the details, they're here. I guess it could go without saying, but the conversation is NSFW.
 
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Yeah. That wasn't passive aggressive at all.

Free tip: if you find something you don't like, don't get involved with it.
 
Well, my good friend (who I actually met here 10 years ago!) was kind enough to let me tell him all about the night, so I'll share the chat he and I had. If you'd like the details, they're here. I guess it could go without saying, but the conversation is NSFW.

wow, amazing shanier! Very hot and sexy. was it as good as you remember? How did he taste? lol
 
wow, amazing shanier! Very hot and sexy. was it as good as you remember? How did he taste? lol
Thank you.
It was as good. Some of it was even better. It was kind of a big relief.

Funnily enough, he tasted a bit salty and a bit like my grandmother's house used to smell. I know that sounds weird, but my grandmother's house was always really clean and the windows were always open. So it was really fresh smelling and a bit like palmolive soap. He didn't taste soapy, but tasted salty, clean, and bright. If that makes any sense at all.
 
Thank you.
It was as good. Some of it was even better. It was kind of a big relief.

Funnily enough, he tasted a bit salty and a bit like my grandmother's house used to smell. I know that sounds weird, but my grandmother's house was always really clean and the windows were always open. So it was really fresh smelling and a bit like palmolive soap. He didn't taste soapy, but tasted salty, clean, and bright. If that makes any sense at all.

Never heard it desribed that way before! lol. I'm really glad you had a good time though. You needed to get that out of the way. Is taking a man in your mouth something you used to do and enjoy before?
 
Never heard it desribed that way before! lol. I'm really glad you had a good time though. You needed to get that out of the way. Is taking a man in your mouth something you used to do and enjoy before?

For the longest time, I'd have said it was my favorite thing. Of course, I do try to be safe and my last two boyfriends didn't like it/want it. The boyfriend before that, well, I was allergic to his semen... Actually, I'm slightly allergic to it all, but his used to really give me problems. Ha. So it's really been a while there.
 
I can't believe you had boyfriends that didn't like it! lol. Never heard of a guy that didnt like that. My first time, in h igh school, I HATED it. Almost puked, and I wouldnt do it again for a long time. But learned in college to do it and it was ok. Then when husband and i started dating, I found I really loved to do it for him. I think it can be very fun, but also at times it can be very intimate and loving.
 
Well, my last boyfriend didn't believe in sex before marriage, so neither he nor I know if he liked it or not...

The fella before him, well, it just wasn't his thing. Or maybe I was/am bad at it?!

I dunno. I find it's hard (no pun intended) to get a straight answer about giving head.

But I have always loved it. The first time I ever did it, I was in my late teens or early 20s. I was with a really patient communicative guy. He had a fantastic penis that was on the smaller side (which I have previously admitted to having a bit of a thing for) and that made it so much easier to manage--I could enjoy what was going on and think about what I was doing and what he was saying/how he was responding without having tooooo much cock to deal with...
 
That sounds great. My first time was with a 16 year old jerk that didnt know anything other than he wanted to feel good. I wish my first time had been with a guy more like yours. I did have a great bf my freshman year in college that was very patient and let me take things at my pace and got me to relax and learn to explore, so that made up for the first time. I do agree that there are times a smaller one is better, especially for learners. My husband is about average size I think, but I think it is absolutley perfect.
 
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