How to over come my problem

[Trkdriver6]

Hi maybe some one else has been through this I have no I deal so here goes my problem. I was married for 30yr lost my lovely wife best friend and lover 2 1/2 years ago. We loved life and had a very open and fun relationship I was the voyeur she was the flasher. We soft swing and made some very good friends. She had a couplle boyfriends that would take her out have sexy with her and send her home to be nothing more sexier than fucking a just fucked pussy while your wife and lover tells you about her adventure. My problem is that since she has passed from his world I cannot cum with another women I do not care if it is a hand job blow job or pure lustfull sex I can bang hump pump and groan and still cannot cum. If i jack off it takes a very long time to make myself cum like an hour. I would like to know if any other person has had this problem and how did you over come it.

Thanks

 

[SweetErika]

First off, I'm so very sorry for your monumental loss.

Secondly, where are you in the grief process, or how are you coping with the loss and grief?

If you dig really deep, what do you think the problem is?

Do you think this may be a sign that you're not really ready to be intimate with others?