How to not puke when deepthroating

[LadyCypris]

My man likes deepthroating - more specifically, he likes facefucking. I love going down on him, and I love the control being taken out of my hands, but the problem is that I seem to have a sensitive gag reflex. I expected that and I'm fine with gagging, but I also keep puking when his cock rams into my throat. It leads to either vomit spilling out, or me swallowing it back down, or having to run to the toilet to spit it out, all of which is kind of a mood dampener.

I've tried just not eating for a while before, but that just made me hurl up lesser amounts of bile. He doesn't mind the vomiting - I think it's a turn on for him, but I don't like wallowing in my regurgitated dinner.

Is this a normal reaction to being facefucked? I've never read about this anywhere before.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Common...

I believe it's common now that aggresive hardcore porn is mainstream.
My best friend gets lockjaw easily and has a horrid gag reflex dispite her husbands average size. For her bachlorette party I got her some trail size lubes from Pure Romance. One was called "Good Head" or something along those lines, she said it helped make her Honeymoon a week to remember! She was finally able to blow him until the finish.
I would try to get your hands on some as well. Hope the suggestion helped. I know it's not a technique tip. Maybe someone else has a few of those?...

 

[TeaforMe]

You are probably going to get some responses on how t accomplish your goal, but quite frankly, sometimes there are just some things that are better left to the movies. If you are having to swallow your own vomit in order to please your man, isn't it time to talk to your man?

 

[dutchrain]

You are probably going to get some responses on how t accomplish your goal, but quite frankly, sometimes there are just some things that are better left to the movies. If you are having to swallow your own vomit in order to please your man, isn't it time to talk to your man?

This ...

My grandmother used to say "When 'they' jump off of the bridge, you are going to jump too?"

Not everyone needs to do everything. Or needs to be capable to do everything.

I once read somewhere -no idea if it is true- some pornstars spray icing-spray in their mouth and throat, to reach a certain state of numbness ... In my opinion this is ridiculous.

There are things I do out of love, and there are things I won't do, not even out of love.

 

[lighterman75]

This ...

My grandmother used to say "When 'they' jump off of the bridge, you are going to jump too?"

Not everyone needs to do everything. Or needs to be capable to do everything.

I once read somewhere -no idea if it is true- some pornstars spray icing-spray in their mouth and throat, to reach a certain state of numbness ... In my opinion this is ridiculous.

There are things I do out of love, and there are things I won't do, not even out of love.

Is that what meat loaf was singing about?

 

[dutchrain]

Is that what meat loaf was singing about?

No, he would do anything for love ...

 

[Loverskitten]

No, he would do anything for love ...

But he won't do that

 

[imnauti]

You are probably going to get some responses on how t accomplish your goal, but quite frankly, sometimes there are just some things that are better left to the movies. If you are having to swallow your own vomit in order to please your man, isn't it time to talk to your man?

This ...

My grandmother used to say "When 'they' jump off of the bridge, you are going to jump too?"

Not everyone needs to do everything. Or needs to be capable to do everything.

I once read somewhere -no idea if it is true- some pornstars spray icing-spray in their mouth and throat, to reach a certain state of numbness ... In my opinion this is ridiculous.

There are things I do out of love, and there are things I won't do, not even out of love.

Yes and yes!

One thing that nobody else has mentioned, is that this can actually be harmful. The acids in your stomach can cause permanent damage to the tissues of your throat and to your teeth. It is one thing to gag once in a while, but when you actually start regurgitating the contents of your stomach on a regular basis, it's time to evaluate whether the benefits outweigh the risk.

 

[SashaGaga999]

This can totally be a drag, but not to fret!

I used to have a pretty strong gag reflex as well, but it is totally possible to learn to control it. It took me about a month or so to learn to just hold it back.

I tell people it is almost like holding back a sneeze--I detailed it in this post I made forever ago, you should check it out: How to Get Rid of Your Gag Reflex--Deepthroating 101

 

[nudeguy76]

the old saying....practice,practice, practice

Im sure he wont be opposed to you practicing on his cock, working on swallowing him. I get that he likes throat fucking you. But slow it down. Work on it! Slowly....get him as deep as you can take him, your tongue flat under his shaft. And swallow as you take more. Feel his penis go deeper, and swallow more. Try this. Anyone else agree with me?

 

[SashaGaga999]

And swallow as you take more. Feel his penis go deeper, and swallow more.

Yeah, this is true, its kind of about opening your throat, dropping your jaw and letting it down. It does also feel like just swallowing, swallowing, swallowing as it keeps going, but you're used to having an empty mouth/throat after that swallowing feeling. it does feel like choking because it kind of is, lol...

 

[LadyCypris]

Thanks very much for the advice! I'll be trying the banana trick - though I'll probably have to find some thinner ones to start with.

If you are having to swallow your own vomit in order to please your man, isn't it time to talk to your man?

Ah, I see how I could have given the impression that I'm doing this just to please him. Well, it partly is, as he clearly enjoys it. But I do too, just not the vomit part. I've also talked to him about it, but sometimes that's where the natural rhythm takes us, and it's just a bummer (for both of us) to have to stop everything so that I can go spit out my vomit.

 

[TwoShades]

This is offtopic... but it reminded me. Long story short... I have a nice cock that is completely under-utilized. Some have even called it beautiful. I have been joking around that I am thinking about putting ad an on craigslist offering my cock to anyone who wants to practice giving head. All ages welcome. No strings attached. Not that I'd expect any responses, but its a fun idea.

Heyyyy.... maybe a fun idea for my first story submission!

 

[GorgeousGeekGirl]

Good news and bad news: gag reflex can be overcome, but not by everyone. You may find that you simply have a limit, but you can work with it.

For vigorous face fucking, have your hand wrapped around his shaft, with the thumb forefinger circle right at your lips so the hand is an extension of your mouth.

For regular deep throating, YOU need to be in control, and yoga breathing techniques really work here. You'll use the same mouth hand extension technique. Inhale, exhale, relax, open your throat, go down, gently ease lower. When you need to breathe or just get a break. Come up, breathe a couple times, inhale, exhale, relax, open, go down, down a little farther, and up. Work your way to it. And stay in charge!

 

[TwoShades]

This post is exactly what I needed to read.

 

[Aquagal]

Hang your head over the side of the bed, it opens your throat up to better get past the gag.

 

[TwoShades]

Hang your head over the side of the bed, it opens your throat up better to better get past the gag.

Not helping.

 

[Aquagal]

Not helping.

I'm sure she'll think it's helpful.

 

[PureAnni]

My man likes deepthroating - more specifically, he likes facefucking. I love going down on him, and I love the control being taken out of my hands, but the problem is that I seem to have a sensitive gag reflex. I expected that and I'm fine with gagging, but I also keep puking when his cock rams into my throat. It leads to either vomit spilling out, or me swallowing it back down, or having to run to the toilet to spit it out, all of which is kind of a mood dampener.

I've tried just not eating for a while before, but that just made me hurl up lesser amounts of bile. He doesn't mind the vomiting - I think it's a turn on for him, but I don't like wallowing in my regurgitated dinner.

Is this a normal reaction to being facefucked? I've never read about this anywhere before.

This has happen to me twice, and god was that nasty...

This can totally be a drag, but not to fret!

I used to have a pretty strong gag reflex as well, but it is totally possible to learn to control it. It took me about a month or so to learn to just hold it back.

I tell people it is almost like holding back a sneeze--I detailed it in this post I made forever ago, you should check it out: How to Get Rid of Your Gag Reflex--Deepthroating 101

Thanks for the How to Thread... I'll be reading that next

 

[Nausea]

Very good question. I have a strong gag reflex.

 

[Kim_Burly]

OK, I'll play. I barfed on Sirs feet and my knees a time or two before I overcame my gag reflex. it wasn't through him raping my throat that I learned how. I got a dildo roughly the same size as him and practiced. I got discouraged when I tried to sneak up on it. But when I plunged it in and out of my throat, as he would, it became much easier. With months of practice, simulator and behind the wheel, I can actually take him all the way down and lick his balls, and you know what, I'm proud of myself for that. I don't think many women, even if they wanted to, could do that. I still hate when he holds himself down my throat and pinches my nose until I panic, he says he just loves seeing "that look" in my eyes.

 

[Rozalin_0123]

OK, I'll play. I barfed on Sirs feet and my knees a time or two before I overcame my gag reflex. it wasn't through him raping my throat that I learned how. I got a dildo roughly the same size as him and practiced. I got discouraged when I tried to sneak up on it. But when I plunged it in and out of my throat, as he would, it became much easier. With months of practice, simulator and behind the wheel, I can actually take him all the way down and lick his balls, and you know what, I'm proud of myself for that. I don't think many women, even if they wanted to, could do that. I still hate when he holds himself down my throat and pinches my nose until I panic, he says he just loves seeing "that look" in my eyes.

I'm also a member of this elite status my husband loves having his balls licked while fully plunged in my mouth.

Back to the topic: I don't have a gag reflex so I can't say from experience but I've heard from a lot of women that "Good Head" and similar products work wonders for women in your situation. If you can't get ahold of some, an alternative that my female lover used is to go to a store and buy an oral anestetic (Oragel, or any other liquid form used for tooth ache pain). Put just a drop on your tongue with a bit of saliva or small amount of water and girgle it and swallow. Wait 5 mins and your throat will be completely numb. Use either of these as training wheels until you get used to it. Practice makes perfect

 

[Aurantica]

I'm also a member of this elite status my husband loves having his balls licked while fully plunged in my mouth.

Back to the topic: I don't have a gag reflex so I can't say from experience but I've heard from a lot of women that "Good Head" and similar products work wonders for women in your situation. If you can't get ahold of some, an alternative that my female lover used is to go to a store and buy an oral anestetic (Oragel, or any other liquid form used for tooth ache pain). Put just a drop on your tongue with a bit of saliva or small amount of water and girgle it and swallow. Wait 5 mins and your throat will be completely numb. Use either of these as training wheels until you get used to it. Practice makes perfect

I just wanted to mention another oral anesthetic I've used in the past when I'm sick. Its called Chloraseptic, comes in a spray bottle, usually flavoured like cherries. Its good because it works fast and you wouldn't have to gargle with it beforehand. And boy oh boy is it effective. I've never used it to give head but I think it could really help you.

 

[tinytina9]

I now want to try - I want to lie on my back and face f***ed senseless - the one that drives me crazy thinking about it is the one where your nose is pinched until you panic or go dizzy

 

[The_Good_Sub]

I learned how to deepthroat by buying a package of bun length hot dogs. They are really flexible and long enough to get down your throat.

I just got in the shower and relaxed and played with myself and got really turned on. Then i just took my time.

One thing that can help is when you start to feel the reflex back off a bit, just keep working right at that point where it gets close. The spit your mouth produces when you do that is much slimier (gross i know) than regular spit. It's a much better lubricant.

Anyway, i actually had to get to the point where i just pushed it passed my reflex point and hold it there and not worry about a bit of vomit. Once i learned to get used to something being in my throat it got easier to control the muscles that make me gag.

So once i got comfortable with hot dogs i bought a flexible dildo that didn;t irritate my throat and practiced on it.

I recently bought this toy http://www.cirillas.com/sex-toys/dildos/mr-slim-dildo/

It is amazing, it's not too thick, its really flexible, the base is firm enough that it stands up and when you put a bit of spit on it it feels very real. It doesnt have hardly any odor and it has enough length to easily deep throat. Plus it has a suction base so you can stick it on something and get on your knees and practice.

Also, like some, hanging my head over the edge of the bed is harder for me to deepthroat.

But, i have practiced enough now that i can let the wife just hold my head and go to town and not have any issues.

Good luck, and even if you can't figure it out it's not a flaw or bad. Some people just can't do it. It's actually normal to not be able to.