How to meet a tg woman for dating?

[Dragonfire76]

Ok I've decided to try this,moving from fantasy to reality.And well not sure where to meet them.I mean I know a few places such as bars and all that but if you're looking for something long term or something with a lot more connection,emotional as well as physical. I'd at least like to try and see if that's something I'd truly want but never know until I find a sweet one I'd like to take out..So any ideas or suggestions? Thanks in advance.

 

[Miles Long]

Ok I've decided to try this,moving from fantasy to reality.And well not sure where to meet them.I mean I know a few places such as bars and all that but if you're looking for something long term or something with a lot more connection,emotional as well as physical. I'd at least like to try and see if that's something I'd truly want but never know until I find a sweet one I'd like to take out..So any ideas or suggestions? Thanks in advance.

Have you looked at the Personals section of this site? There is a whole area devoted to LGBT people, so you might have some luck looking there if you post a personal.

 

[Dragonfire76]

Yes I have but should have been more specific...More Locally. I'm sure there are wonderful ladies on here,but if we never meet then what's the point? So thanks for the reply. Also should add Bars,etc aren't my thing. So if I can meet them at places such as bookstores,coffeehouse etc then I might be more in my element.

 

[Loverskitten]

You could try craigslist personals, or chat sites/apps like Grindr or Skout. Be specific in what you want and that you want a relationship not just an "intimate encounter" a diner or coffe house should be fine for a meet up.

 

[njlauren]

Craigslist might work, they do have one for romance/real relationships, you also can try some of the alt dating sites like alt personals. There are also sites like urnotalone.com,dedicated to t girls all along the spectrum. There are also trans themed clubs and often gay bars that have drag nights will attract some trans girls. There are also the 'back pages' , now generally online, of weekly papers like NY's village voice or the Boston Phoenix.

You can also google "transgender dating" sites and see what is out there. One warning, some of them are not dating sites but ads for transgender prostitutes , which is not your thing.

The other thing to ask of yourself is what do you want from a trans girl...are you looking for the things you are looking for from any woman, companionship, dating, getting to know one another, or is it just about having sex with someone different? I am not asking this snarkily, I a just saying know what you are looking for an be honest. A lot of the guys who seek out T girls often think they are getting someone from a T girl porno movie or something, someone whose whole existence is sex, when most of the t girls I was around were looking for the same thing most women do, a relationship that yes, includes sex, but doesn't revolve around it

If you do a google search on lgbt resources near where you live, that might give a clue. In a lot of places as I wrote before gay or lesbian clubs often have trans girls going there, or you might even find a social circle dedicated to trans girls. Some of the trans websites, like transgender.org or tgforum.com (if it still exists) might have info, I know urnotalone.com has information as well as searching members.

 

[Dragonfire76]

Thanks for the replies. I know I was looking into CL but even that is full of the escorts and fakers. More looking into the resources.That's probably a good local bet.Only thing I see with online things is that it stays online unless your the rarity that actually happens to live in town. Also to be honest I don't know how I'll feel until going on an actual date with one and see how is goes. I believe I'm looking for a relationship situation and hopefully a lot less stuff that genetic girls have put me through. So yeah..That's what I'm hoping anyway.

 

[Somehowyou]

Try Eros Guide Transsexual Escorts. Then chek their rating on The Erotic Review (TER) and in the chat section of TER.

 

[njlauren]

Thanks for the replies. I know I was looking into CL but even that is full of the escorts and fakers. More looking into the resources.That's probably a good local bet.Only thing I see with online things is that it stays online unless your the rarity that actually happens to live in town. Also to be honest I don't know how I'll feel until going on an actual date with one and see how is goes. I believe I'm looking for a relationship situation and hopefully a lot less stuff that genetic girls have put me through. So yeah..That's what I'm hoping anyway.

One comment, purely my own knowledge of t girls, I am not so sure you will find a T girl will be all that much different than a genetic girl,when it comes to relationships and such, I think you will find they can have their own unique forms of baggage, perhaps different than GG's but still baggae. I wish you well in your search, urnotalone.com isn't a bad place to start