How to make my husband....

[Snowbunnie12]

How can I get him to try his cum? It’s perfectly ok for him to make me taste myself( it’s ok I like it) but how can I break the taboo and have him taste himself? After ejaculating he has little interest in any thing kinky...

 

[Brknarrws]

My thoughts:
First, (be strong) tell him that you won't taste it again until he does.
Second, don't get him to try to just gulp down his stuff. That won't work. Slowly work him into it. Move down low on his body and manually stimulate him. Rub your hands on his body. Feel his dick then get him to lick your fingers. He will probably like the warm soft feeling of your fingers so you can start to rub his dick again, and then back to his mouth for another warm up, and then back to his dick again. [Repeat as necessary]. Soon there will be a warm and sloppy dick and he will have been long sucking his precum from your fingers.
After that, you might be able to just make him cum and lick your messy fingers again, or he may at least think about kissing you the next time he cums in your mouth!
Take it slowly. Take the scary out of it.
Good luck! Hope you get what you're looking for!

 

[PG564E]

I wish I was your husband!

How can I get him to try his cum? It’s perfectly ok for him to make me taste myself( it’s ok I like it) but how can I break the taboo and have him taste himself? After ejaculating he has little interest in any thing kinky...

How is this scenario - during a normal day, let him see you caress your breasts as you sit across the room from him. Be sexy, use your eyes and hands to put him in that hypnotic state women are so good at.

He hasn't even been thinking about sex, and now you have taken your blouse off and are provocatively playing with your nipples, wetting your finger and making each glisten as they are hard and wet. Stand up and slowly get out of your jeans and begin rubbing your mound, then sit back and spread your legs and rest your calves on the arm rests.

Play with your clit and pussy. Tell him to watch you be wicked. Use a finger to taste your pussy juices, then two fingers. Tell him to stay where he is and get naked. He should already be very hard, and tell him firmly to jack off for you.

Tell him you need him to arouse you like never before. Tell him that you think it is so hot watching two men jacking each other off. That you want to see him get jacked off by another guy and she wants to see the cum roar out of your cock.

Tell him it's not fair for you to always taste your pussy, all you want for him to do (for now) is to beat off, and use one finger to taste a little of his cum for you. You have had this fantasy for years and please do this for me. Lots of men enjoy their whole load (I've done it for 13 years) and acquire a real liking of warm thick sperm. That your GF's think highly of a guy who will do this for his woman. That a lot of women would love to see their husband actually blow another man for his and her pleasure.

I would do that for any woman who wanted to see it. I love cum, and also sucking strangers dicks and swallowing every drop.

 

[big_bi_Bry]

Also, a good looooonnnnggggg edging session will definitely aid in his willingness to try it.

 

[Jada59]

Start with pre-cum. As you give him a hand job, get some on your finger then press your finger into his mouth. Chances are, he will like it and want more.

 

[SissySalina]

Would suggest the slow start, if he is a squirt and done type then start with the precum. Please do not force the issue but gently slip into it using your fingers. You can try edging him for a while, use you tong on his head and slip your fingers in then wipe them on his tong.
Good luck!

 

[jaketen2016]

Jerk him off onto his own face

 

[Nezhul]

On topic:
First, I would talk to him. See where he's standing. I will be honest with you - sometimes certain things are just plain-out disturbing and disgusting to do, and you can't demand him to do that. If your partner was into peeing in your mouth and you felt sick just thinking about it - would there be any way for him to convince you without pushing you into it? What if he wanted to do a number 2 on your face? You can't say that it's not the same, because essentially it is, for many men.

What I'm saying, is you gotta accept the possibility that he's never gonna be OK about it. I knew women who were not OK tasting their own pussy, and I can see their point and accept their right to draw a line there. So should you.

In a world of fetishes (and tasting cum IS a mild fetish) you gotta be open-minded about things like other people's limits.

Now, there are ways to soften the blow for him. Talk about eating your pussy after he cums inside. Or kissing you after you took it in your mouth. I don't suggest you holding a full load in your mouth and transferring it to him - start small. Swallow it, and then kiss - you'll still have an aftertaste on your lips.

Don't try to just feed him a blob of his cum from your finger. That's a pretty big step for someone who feels icky about it.

Also, you should establish that it's not gay. I feel that many men would see tasting sperm as a gay, i.e. unacceptable for a real man activity. You should talk it through and reassure him in his manliness, and tell him that as long as he's having sex with YOU - anything and everything that he does is a strictly heterosexual play.

Be open about accepting his opinion on the matter. Don't frame it as if you need it - frame it as you wanting to try it, and if it doesn't work than it doesn't work.

Lastly, I will tell you that in my opinion, sperm has a stranger taste than female vaginal fluids. I'm a man of course, but all I'm saying is that LOTS of women are fine tasting their own pussy, but even many women find the taste of semen unpleasant. For a man to taste his own sperm, and then enjoy it, is a far longer reach.

I will stress out again - you can't, and shouldn't want to to MAKE someone do some fetish. But you can learn how to spell out your ideas in an attractive manner, so as to at least get people to try it.

Also, a good looooonnnnggggg edging session will definitely aid in his willingness to try it.

No it will not. Not all people are into edging to begin with, you are projecting and generalizing your own fetishes into it.

Jerk him off onto his own face

Yeah... I can see that working super-well with someone who's icky about tasting his own cum.
Stop thinking with porn scenes, life doesn't work like that.

 

[ReadyOne]

Just ask him.

Explain how the two of you playing with his cum is a turn-on for you.

Talk about things you can do. Assure him you'll be gentle and only do little things. Tell him specifically about each action ahead of time; never spring anything on him.

(Remember that smell is an important component to taste, so work your way up to a real tasting.)

Start by asking if he would smell your fingers in the middle of a hand job. Tell him you'll bring your hand with a little pre-cum on it up to his eye level and away from his face. He is to take your hand and bring it close enough to smell.

If you do oral, stop sucking cock for a moment and suck your fingers. (Act like your fingers are his cock to boost his arousal.) Then give him your fingers to smell.

Next time, tell him you want to brush his lips with your fingers, or put it under his nose. Later, have him suck on them and you act like they are your clit! Another step is a light closed mouth kiss him after you have pre-cum on your lips (or in your mouth).

Try and stretch out play. Have him scoop up his cum as soon as he's squirted a couple of times and them immediately put his fingers inside you. Perhaps getting you off will keep his interest, as opposed to rolling off and snoring.

(He can find your g-spot, right? Exaggerate your response if needed!)

Then have him smell your combined juices on his fingers before he wipes is hand. Better yet, don't let him wipe it off, you lick it off. Maybe he will work up to taking a taste. He does eat pussy, right?

The key is never surprise him with something new, giving immediate positive feedback, treat it as a gift for you and not a turn-on for him.

 

[Curious_Brian]

Jerk him off onto his own face

I've been in that position

 

[amofiga]

How can I get him to try his cum? It’s perfectly ok for him to make me taste myself( it’s ok I like it) but how can I break the taboo and have him taste himself? After ejaculating he has little interest in any thing kinky...

You might try to work with him as I did years back with one lady friend who was reluctant to have me cum in her mouth because she was convinced it would taste horrible. She was willing to let me cum on her face so one day, I shot on her closed mouth and started kissing her. She sort of naturally opened it during he kiss and I licked my cum into her mouth. She just sort of naturally swallowed some. Afterward, I said, "see, was it that bad?" She admitted it wasn't and after also seeing that I wasn't afraid of the taste, she learned to take it regularly.

SO.... perhaps if you are giving your hubby a blowjob (do you do that?) and he cums in your mouth or on your face, go and kiss him and see if he's willing to taste it on you or in your mouth. If he recoils and gets angry, you may never get him to relent. I suppose I'm one of those rare guys who loves to kiss a woman with my cum in her mouth or eat her after I've cum in or on her pussy. On the other hand, I'd never do that with another guy's cum. I read about cucks who clean another guy's cum up. I'll take the bull position but not he cucks.

 

[AssfuckBrenda]

How can I get him to try his cum? It’s perfectly ok for him to make me taste myself( it’s ok I like it) but how can I break the taboo and have him taste himself? After ejaculating he has little interest in any thing kinky...[/QUOTE

I'm sure you have kissed him after giving him a bj , lick your lips before you kiss him , he will lick his lips and taste his cum ...

 

[Dared_To]

That's a good way to start

How can I get him to try his cum? It’s perfectly ok for him to make me taste myself( it’s ok I like it) but how can I break the taboo and have him taste himself? After ejaculating he has little interest in any thing kinky...[/QUOTE

I'm sure you have kissed him after giving him a bj , lick your lips before you kiss him , he will lick his lips and taste his cum ...

That might be the best way to get it going.

 

[tubby424]

a kiss

Do you typically swallow his load after a blow job?? My wife once ,after a blow job, crawled up on top of me a gave me a big wet cum filled kiss. She just simply let it all pour right of her mouth down into mine. I was stunned at first ,but it turned into the hottest kiss we ever shared. A real eye opener for me that has progressed to me cleaning her up after I have fucked her. No fears or inhibitions there at all any more !!

 

[MrRetro]

How can I get him to try his cum? It’s perfectly ok for him to make me taste myself( it’s ok I like it) but how can I break the taboo and have him taste himself? After ejaculating he has little interest in any thing kinky...

First of all you need to find out how he feels about it.. If this is something that truly disgusts him, your chances are slim.. If though he just loses his passion after ejaculation, you might be able to convince him..

There are many ways you can encourage him to taste his own sperm, but you need to keep his arousal high following ejaculation, you’ll know how best to do this.. I’ve read about women who have success with sharing sperm with a passionate kiss, others enjoy cunnilingus following sex..

Have you asked him to try either of these..?

 

[MrRetro]

Start with pre-cum. As you give him a hand job, get some on your finger then press your finger into his mouth. Chances are, he will like it and want more.

Jada makes a really good point here about pre-cum, he’ll likely still be aroused at this point and he’ll probably enjoy it..

 

[krug]

How can I get him to try his cum? It’s perfectly ok for him to make me taste myself( it’s ok I like it) but how can I break the taboo and have him taste himself? After ejaculating he has little interest in any thing kinky...

First, when it comes to relationships don't "make" anyone do what you want. You can encourage them or share your wants & desires.

That said, start by sharing your desire for him to try his cum. Tell him how much it turns you on if he would do this for you.

Have you heard of the "blues" guys suffer from after cumming?
I myself experience the blues repeatedly. Guys get all hot, excited, and turned on leading up to ejaculation. After ejaculating, we loose interest.

Using the blues to your advantage, try offering a finger coated in pre-cum while giving a blow/hand job. Odds are he'll be more willing to try it while aroused as opposed to after ejaculation.

Other suggestions: flavored lube, cream pie eating, cream pie with flavored lube.

I'm envious of you, this has been a desire/fantasise of mine that unfortunately my wife does not share with me.

 

[Bigspurt]

Do you typically swallow his load after a blow job?? My wife once ,after a blow job, crawled up on top of me a gave me a big wet cum filled kiss. She just simply let it all pour right of her mouth down into mine. I was stunned at first ,but it turned into the hottest kiss we ever shared. A real eye opener for me that has progressed to me cleaning her up after I have fucked her. No fears or inhibitions there at all any more !!

Take this to the next level. Tie his wrists next to his body and connect then so he can't pull either hand away from his body. Maybe tie his ankles as well. Fluff him to attention and as he produces precum, smear it on his lips and nipples. Edge him to a point of almost and stop. Some men will ooze a bit of cum while on this little break. Have him taste that from your finger.
Then when you both are ready slip on to his cock and ride him until he cums. When he does cum, position his cock so it is most of the way out. Pull off and move up to ride his face. If you drip a little swipe it up and spread it on his lips making sure you tell him that there is more where that came from and proceed to plant your freshly fucked pussy on his lips. Work his mouth until you cum!

 

[Snowbunnie12]

Ok so update!!! As some who have talked to me know I really don’t like giving blow jobs. And seldom give them to my husband. Valentine’s Day I think he’s earned one and I will try and kiss him afterwards. It’s not much but it’s a start. I may just not swallow it all and let him have a little taste!

 

[Paul_Chance]

Ok so update!!! As some who have talked to me know I really don’t like giving blow jobs. And seldom give them to my husband. Valentine’s Day I think he’s earned one and I will try and kiss him afterwards. It’s not much but it’s a start. I may just not swallow it all and let him have a little taste!

As a guy, I think that is the best approach. Either a kiss with cum on your lips or a the grazing fingertips some of the other posters mentioned. Then, based on his reaction you can have to conversations around it. That is how I was introduced to it - a post blow job kiss. Once I got over the shock and surprise, I found I really had no objection to it and eventually learned to embrace it.

 

[docoral]

Ok so update!!! As some who have talked to me know I really don’t like giving blow jobs. And seldom give them to my husband. Valentine’s Day I think he’s earned one and I will try and kiss him afterwards. It’s not much but it’s a start. I may just not swallow it all and let him have a little taste!

It doesn't make sense to do something you don't enjoy or to try to make anyone else do something they don't enjoy. There are too many good things to do without blurring the line. Doing that for your husband is an act of love. You voluntarily do it for him because he enjoys it, a selfless act on your part.

 

[bicuriohub]

Ok so update!!! As some who have talked to me know I really don’t like giving blow jobs. And seldom give them to my husband. Valentine’s Day I think he’s earned one and I will try and kiss him afterwards. It’s not much but it’s a start. I may just not swallow it all and let him have a little taste!

That seems like a good idea since he’ll be pretty grateful for the blowjob and probably be willing to please you any way he can to reciprocate. A nice,warm kiss should help,that’s the way I prefer to taste my cum is straight from my wife’s mouth,I’m more than happy to eat the entire load! Good luck!!

 

[CamronsInsider]

I can honestly say, I don't like this taste. She does, but I don't. Now, if she would work out a threesome with another woman - I'd do anything she asks. anything.

 

[ready4some]

What's not to like!

I like to taste it wherever I deposited it!

How can I get him to try his cum? It’s perfectly ok for him to make me taste myself( it’s ok I like it) but how can I break the taboo and have him taste himself? After ejaculating he has little interest in any thing kinky...[/QUOTE

I'm sure you have kissed him after giving him a bj , lick your lips before you kiss him , he will lick his lips and taste his cum ...

 

[twister947]

There's a small subset of the male population that thrives on being "made" to do something, especially if it's something we secretly or subliminally want anyway. Just sayin'...