how to make her wet

How does one "finger fudge" and where is "here"?

I wondered the same thing. I mean, if you're sweet talking he in the bedroom like you are here, I don't know how she's not foaming at the gash. (feel free to try that in the bedroom)
 
What's wrong with a kiss, boy? Hmm? Why not start her off with a nice kiss? You don't have to go leaping straight for the clitoris like a bull at a gate. Give her a kiss, boy.

[laughs] Sorry I really really couldn't resist. Points if you can name that movie. ;):D
 
kisses happen alot...and i did read the HT stuff. pretty legit. thanks everyone who didnt troll and actaully giving me some tips and advices
 
kisses happen alot...and i did read the HT stuff. pretty legit. thanks everyone who didnt troll and actaully giving me some tips and advices

Honey, it was a joke but also truth. You seem to be worried about a lot of the moves but forgetting the game. What makes a woman 'wet' happens long before the bedroom. It's the sweet talk, the nuzzling, the kindness.

What I call 'dishpan hands'. Nothing makes me more relaxed, ready and rarin' to go than when my husband shoos me out of the kitchen to go relax in a hot bath while he does the dishes. Guess what. By the time he gets back to the bedroom I have had so much time to sit and relax and think about him and how sweet and wonderful he is. All it takes is one kiss placed on "the spot" and I'm done for.

Have you tried whispering to her, talking to her, telling her what you love about her and her body? Or is it all fingering and nudging and so forth?

Arouse the mind and let the body relax, then you will see the reward.

Good Luck!
 
please elaborate , I am not sure if the Australian slip n slide is the same as the one I have.

I like the girls that get wet from making out.

I think she's saying she likes it sloppy, wet and fast.

And to the original poster...

Here is some good advice. Think about the things you like. Think about the things she does to turn you on. How just going down on you hard and fast gets you going.

Well, don't do any of that. Do the opposite of that. You're a 21 year old guy.
 
Having adequate blood flow can also be important, in response to the 'more lube' comments... If I may be incredibly crude, not having the blood flow there and just using lube can be like... a guy not getting hard, and me just duct-taping sticks around it to get it up. :) (Duct tape - is there anything it can't do? 8) )

My personal belief (which may or may not be an informed belief...) is that you can't really 'make' her get wet... you can only help, same as I can't 'make' a guy get hard, I can only help. :) As NM and others have said, knowing your way around 'girlie parts in general' is important, as is communication with your gf as to what she likes, and what she knows about her body.

Well said. A combination of safety, hotness of thoughts and touch and smell and vision, teasing. All of those things will contribute. I have a weakness for women that get very wet. And I like helping them be that way.
 
I'm behind the old-school thrust on kissing. Get it done there and you're home free.

I'm so full of double entendres today.
 
Now, I have zero first hand knowledge of this... (I feel like I have to begin any post like this when I'm talking about women... 'sigh')

However, I heard that women get wet just by anticipating future "engagements" (Well, not getting engaged...). So talking to their boyfriends/husbands on the phone while he's at work and talking about seeing her when he gets home.

Shit like that. Blah... I don't know wtf I'm talking about. haha!
 
Now, I have zero first hand knowledge of this... (I feel like I have to begin any post like this when I'm talking about women... 'sigh')

However, I heard that women get wet just by anticipating future "engagements" (Well, not getting engaged...). So talking to their boyfriends/husbands on the phone while he's at work and talking about seeing her when he gets home.

Shit like that. Blah... I don't know wtf I'm talking about. haha!


Shit like that.....ah romance at its finest!! :)
 
Shit like that.....ah romance at its finest!! :)

I'm terrible at emotional stuff. It's cheesy at best and I always imagine that I'll end up laughing at any romantic moment.

Either that, or what's more likely to occur is that she'll laugh at me. And then I'll be like "Screw you guys, I'm going home!" And mission failed because no vagina, but I'm too proud to worry about that. haha
 
I'm terrible at emotional stuff. It's cheesy at best and I always imagine that I'll end up laughing at any romantic moment.

Either that, or what's more likely to occur is that she'll laugh at me. And then I'll be like "Screw you guys, I'm going home!" And mission failed because no vagina, but I'm too proud to worry about that. haha

1. It's not cheesy, it's lovely
2. I doubt you'd laugh, but if you did I'm sure it wouldn't be that big of a deal.
3. Screw you guys plural? Until you master your skills with one lady you shouldn't be trying for more than one at a time! And yeah, here's a secret...guy's don't have vaginas. ;)
 
1. It's not cheesy, it's lovely
2. I doubt you'd laugh, but if you did I'm sure it wouldn't be that big of a deal.
3. Screw you guys plural? Until you master your skills with one lady you shouldn't be trying for more than one at a time! And yeah, here's a secret...guy's don't have vaginas. ;)

I have so many women. You have no idea.

And you're right, I probably wouldn't laugh. I'd be too nervous....
 
I do actually agree with Christopher. A nice, slow, build up works wonders. Talk dirty, woo her, tell her what you're going to do to her when she gets home tonight... make it so it's all she can think about.

See there, this dude knows how women work. I've always wondered why women are always undressing as soon as I enter the room.
 
oh you guys are funny.
well i tried kissing and alot of rubbing and that got her super wet

then in the morning i tried the same + boob sucking and alot of nipple teasing + kissing and nothing happen down there..
soo
yeah

Okay, let's be clear on this...

You know those video games where there's a secret key sequence (Up-Up-Down-Down-Left-Right-Left-Right-B-A) and every time you use that key sequence it activates the same power?

Women don't work like that. Arousal is not just about pushing the right buttons on the body, it's also a state of mind, and depending on what else is going on for her the reactions will vary a lot.
 
However, I heard that women get wet just by anticipating future "engagements" (Well, not getting engaged...). So talking to their boyfriends/husbands on the phone while he's at work and talking about seeing her when he gets home.

Shit like that. Blah... I don't know wtf I'm talking about. haha!

No. You were right about the actual engagement thing. :)
 
I can't wait when Chris starts a thread on how to get a girl wet. I can already imagine him saying "You don't understand. Her pubes are in the way. How do I lick around it without getting hair in my mouth?"
 
I can't wait when Chris starts a thread on how to get a girl wet. I can already imagine him saying "You don't understand. Her pubes are in the way. How do I lick around it without getting hair in my mouth?"

Yeah, it'll begin like this.

"So guys, I'm fucking Jane last night and I can't figure out how to get her pubes out of my mouth... As we speak, I'm pulling out this long pube right out of my teeth. You... just.... don't... understand."
 
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