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How to make happy a sub...? :)

In what way(s)?

If you're going to ask a question that requires some sort of specific answer(s), then you must allow the answerer sufficient details to give them some idea *how* to answer. General questions such as "How to make a sub happy?" are somewhat like "What is the meaning of life?" There is no single answer, only answers that apply to the facts and circumstances of each individual. :rolleyes:
 
A fair question

GuySachin2, a fair and simple question. In my opinion, making sure her surrender to your will brings her serenity and enables her to experience bliss and ecstasy.
 
guysachin2 said:
I am not sure...but wha is 42? I know i am sounding stupid....But just asking as i dont know it... :)
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It's a nerd joke. The answer to life, the universe and everything is always 42; thus, the answer to how to make a submissive happy must be 42.

Just because your friend identifies as submissive, doesn't mean your "being dom" (whatever that means) will make her content or happy.
 
guysachin2 said:
:) ok...yeah... I have a friend who is sub, And i want to know How to make her feel content by being dom... Thanks for the reply though....
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Honey, it was a joke. But there is no one right way to do anything. What works for some won't work for you and vice versa. The only way to know how to make "your sub" happy is to know "your sub".

In some ways this lifestyle is no different from the vanilla world. Flowers may work for some girls, but they don't work for all girls. Whips and handcuffs may work for some subs, but they don't work for all subs.

What you are going to hear over and over and over and OVER again is to communicate with the person you are with. Talk to her, find out what she wants, what she needs. And then you need to think if that is something you can give her. But everyone needs to do that regardless of the label you put on your relationship or your kink or your whatever whatever.

And I might urge you to look around for good reading material about this lifestyle. I know that a lot of people have posted some really good books for you to look at. At the moment the titles elude me, but check out the Blank Manual I'm sure there is a sticky there.

Good Luck!
 
spaceche said:
GuySachin2, a fair and simple question. In my opinion, making sure her surrender to your will brings her serenity and enables her to experience bliss and ecstasy.
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Mmmmmm Yep! lol :D

LOVE The "42" answer as well!! lol Good times right there. Always like a little humor thrown in with the serious threads
 
guysachin2 said:
How to make a sub happy...? :)
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There is no such thing as "a sub" there are only submissive women (and men), and what makes them happy is different for each one.

So, to start with, think of them as "people" which they are, and try asking them.
 
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