How to make a woman with a clit ring, cum!

[Wilfulove]

So, there I was, "in situ", kissing and licking my way down until I was face to face, with a beautiful shaved pussy when I noticed her clit ring.
Now, this was an exciting discovery, in all my years, this was a first and having watched wayyy too much porno, I straight away went to town on it. Sucking it in and rolling it around with gusto. Big mistake, quite a few "ooohs and "arrs" but a few "oh and ouch's". So I changed technique, was more gentle, result was no more "ouchs" but a lot less "oohs and arrs".

Now I love to give a lady oral, and get a big kick out of making ladies cum this way.
But now I found myself in a different situation, so I adapted to the challenge, and changed my technique, I started licking all the way up and down her pussy and then her clit gently but firmly, then darting my tongue deep inside her and then back onto her clit, the moans came back deeper this time, but still not quite getting there.
So time to change again, so I slid first one finger and then 2 inside, and started finger fucking her gently but deeply as I licked her clit.
This was working and she was started to tense and grip my fingers, but that damm Clit ring. It was just so strange to feel against my tongue.
I couldnt get her there in the end orally, which was a big disappoint to me and although I did get her off, I was left puzzled and bemused

So, any advice? I thought a clit ring would be sooo straightforward and enhance the experience. I did try talking about it to her, but I havent known her long, and shes pretty quiet anyway

 

[VegasBornWolf]

Try reaching up (or around) with your free hand and grabbing the ring with your thumb and index finger. Pull it (gently) back so her clit is fully exposed and you can get right at it. That works for my wife..but usually only after she's good and warmed up....too much sensation on the bare clit too fast is a bad thing!

So, there I was, "in situ", kissing and licking my way down until I was face to face, with a beautiful shaved pussy when I noticed her clit ring.
Now, this was an exciting discovery, in all my years, this was a first and having watched wayyy too much porno, I straight away went to town on it. Sucking it in and rolling it around with gusto. Big mistake, quite a few "ooohs and "arrs" but a few "oh and ouch's". So I changed technique, was more gentle, result was no more "ouchs" but a lot less "oohs and arrs".

Now I love to give a lady oral, and get a big kick out of making ladies cum this way.
But now I found myself in a different situation, so I adapted to the challenge, and changed my technique, I started licking all the way up and down her pussy and then her clit gently but firmly, then darting my tongue deep inside her and then back onto her clit, the moans came back deeper this time, but still not quite getting there.
So time to change again, so I slid first one finger and then 2 inside, and started finger fucking her gently but deeply as I licked her clit.
This was working and she was started to tense and grip my fingers, but that damm Clit ring. It was just so strange to feel against my tongue.
I couldnt get her there in the end orally, which was a big disappoint to me and although I did get her off, I was left puzzled and bemused

So, any advice? I thought a clit ring would be sooo straightforward and enhance the experience. I did try talking about it to her, but I havent known her long, and shes pretty quiet anyway

 

[NightL]

I did try talking about it to her

try again - just be direct "how do like to be touched? This is my first time with someone who has a clit ring, what feels nice - what should I not do?"

Everyone is different - and I'm sure the same applies to every woman who has a clit ring. Don't be shy - if you want to find out quickly - just ask. If you don't, your fumblings may put her off... and she may say "whatever - next".

Never be afraid of asking - the earlier you do it the more confident you will appear to be - and will actually be - never be afraid to just simply ask.

 

[Eilan]

I couldnt get her there in the end orally, which was a big disappoint to me and although I did get her off, I was left puzzled and bemused

Geez. A " big disappoint" to you? How do you think she felt? And why is her orgasm, or lack thereof, about stroking your ego?

try again - just be direct "how do like to be touched? This is my first time with someone who has a clit ring, what feels nice - what should I not do?"

Everyone is different - and I'm sure the same applies to every woman who has a clit ring. Don't be shy - if you want to find out quickly - just ask. If you don't, your fumblings may put her off... and she may say "whatever - next".

Never be afraid of asking - the earlier you do it the more confident you will appear to be - and will actually be - never be afraid to just simply ask.

Yeah, this.

 

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

try again - just be direct "how do like to be touched? This is my first time with someone who has a clit ring, what feels nice - what should I not do?"

Everyone is different - and I'm sure the same applies to every woman who has a clit ring. Don't be shy - if you want to find out quickly - just ask. If you don't, your fumblings may put her off... and she may say "whatever - next".

Never be afraid of asking - the earlier you do it the more confident you will appear to be - and will actually be - never be afraid to just simply ask.

This. Oh it is such a turn on when a man ask for a guidance

 

[goofygus42]

try again - just be direct "how do like to be touched? This is my first time with someone who has a clit ring, what feels nice - what should I not do?"

Everyone is different - and I'm sure the same applies to every woman who has a clit ring. Don't be shy - if you want to find out quickly - just ask. If you don't, your fumblings may put her off... and she may say "whatever - next".

Never be afraid of asking - the earlier you do it the more confident you will appear to be - and will actually be - never be afraid to just simply ask.

I agree, just ask the lady. Anytime you encounter something a little bit different, or a lot different, ask about it. It will be more fun for both.