how to land a friend?

[guywithglasses]

hey all. a few more questions. i finally got the girl. its awesome. however. i said earlier that she is far more experienced that myself. and well. i am a virgin, and she is going to be my first. we have discussed this at great length, and I am very very excited, this is the scenario i have always looked for to lsot my virginity.

i just need some advice, to perhaps not make me so anxious and well, quite frankly, scared. I know it is going to be a wonderfull experience and I will learn a lot, however, if anyone knows of anything, or has advice for anyone in my situation, i would love some feedback...

thanks, you peeps here are great.

 

[dollface007]

Yay!!! Thanks for keeping us updated...i'm very happy for you. You have to tell us exactly HOW you got the girl, though I'm sure it will be a good reference for all those other shy guys out there with crushes.

Hmmm..advice....
-Jack off beforehand so you won't cum immediately
-use a condom
-LOTS of foreplay for her
-snuggle and pillowtalk afterwards no matter how exhausted you are

i know you've probably been building up the "first time" in your mind, but don't be surprised if it's a bit awkward, and don't get upset if it's not all you've ever dreamed it would be....they'll be plenty more chances, and you'll get better at it (God willing) with more experience

Oh, this also brings to mind an awesome line i heard once in a movie: Sex is like dinner at a chinese restaurant. It ain't over until you both get your cookies

 

[guywithglasses]

well, basically what happened is that we all went out one night,last saturday. and basically, evryone there has a SO, except for us, and as people talk, they were talking about there SO's etc. so we were kinda left out and were sitting next to each other, so i got bored, and asked her.

do you wanna arm wrestle. and she was all, yeah. so we arm wrestled, and i teased her a bit, because she couldnt pin me.

so we were all at a bar, and drinking, and once we all left, we both ended up on IM, drunk,a fterwards, and broke all the stupod BS banners, and decided that we each liked each other, and well, to keep it quiet, around our friends, cause we dont know how far it can/will go, but to have fun in the moment type of deal.

shes been away working since we spoke at great length, but things are going well, just gotta find the right time, etc!