How To Know...

[Marcus2]

How to buy the right sex toy? or even, how to buy the sex toy that will make you love it just like sex? I've asked those questions to myself when my girlfriend baught some vibrators and what not. How do you know what your buying will make you happy with what you got? What if it doesn't make you happy? I know alot of questions. For us guys, like, what's the best sex toy that we can buy that will plesure us beyond belief? And for women, what's your favirote sex toy you enjoy to use or want?

So basically, how do you know what your about to buy will be worth the cost?

 

[christian1971]

Buying a sex toy for the first time as a couple should be shared, to allow each other know all your likes and your kinkness. Some toys mite him or her feel uncomfortable and other mite send a chill up your spins. Play around experiment find what makes you happy and go for it. And if and when you feel more comfortable buy the toys on your own and find newer more exciting toys. Sometimes you can be surprised at what mite make your sex life more exciting then a toy.

 

[LadyJeanne]

You have to consider how the toy works and whether that's the kind of stimulation that gets you off. If a woman needs clit stimulation to come, then a dildo might be interesting and fun, but she's still not likely to climax no matter how cool the dildo is. Does it have a loud motor? It might be too distracting or wake the kids.

Consider how you will be using the toy - solo or with a partner? Some toys are easier to use with a partner than others, like the little vibes that fit between you to stimulate her clit while you're fucking. If you're solo, an electric vibe might work well, but the cord gets in the way when you're with a partner. Does it require lube? Is it easy to clean? Do you want to use it while traveling?

Shopping together is a great idea, and make sure you read the reviews on the websites - they're full of information you might not have considered

 

[fr34k_n45ty]

My boy and I once made a date of going to dinner and a far away porn shop for our anniverary. I was a lot of fun because we got to talk all the way there. When we got there i was completely unsure what I wanted to get so i picked one of them small bullet ones. Once i got sick of that one we did it again and got a different toy. If you're past that point there is a web site that if you order "x" amount of money you got to pick like 3 more toys... so then you both could order a few... you also get the same about of shipping no matter how much you buy. This also gives you the choice to choose a variety.


web site is www.mydearlady.com

 

[SweetErika]

How to buy the right sex toy?

I read lots of reviews from many, many different sources, and some of it's trial-and-error. The first we bought was a rabbit, and because I knew I needed a fair amount of clitoral stimulation, I chose one that was powered by 3 C batteries and the reviews of that particular brand from many sources said it was very strong. Because we didn't have a lot of money to waste on things we didn't know would work semi-well, I bought our first toys in the Mature Audiences section of eBay, and figured I could upgrade later. The $15 rabbit lasted through about 4 years of heavy use (in fact, it's still going, but the battery cover broke when I dropped it, so the contacts are a little iffy). We've bought other inexpensive toys, and some have worked better than others, but we were able to narrow down what we really liked and didn't like for probably around $50.

There's also a great store in Seattle where you can physically pick up and turn on every toy. I get a lot of ideas about what I would and wouldn't like from that store and its knowledgeable staff, as well as friends.

or even, how to buy the sex toy that will make you love it just like sex?

I'm a huge fan of certain toys, and a couple of them give me incredibly intense orgasms, but I think expecting them to be as good as sex is unrealistic because they're definitely not a replacement for another human being.

I've asked those questions to myself when my girlfriend baught some vibrators and what not. How do you know what your buying will make you happy with what you got?What if it doesn't make you happy?

I'd make a list of what you like and don't like about the vibes she has. Consider power/strength, convenience, usability, noise, type of stimulation, versatility, materials, etc. and go from there. As I said, I think you can get a general idea, but you won't know for absolute certain if you'll be happy with a toy. There have been some vibes that we were unhappy with for one purpose (e.g. clit stim), but were great for other things (e.g. on him, anal, etc.). So if it doesn't work for what you originally intended, try it out in different ways and on different parts.

For us guys, like, what's the best sex toy that we can buy that will plesure us beyond belief?

We don't own one, but I've heard good things here and other places about the Fleshlight. Apparently, it's pretty close to actual sex. My hubby loves the straight attachment and general use with the Hitachi Magic Wand, and the Wahl 7-in-1 has a damn good attachment for men as well.

And for women, what's your favirote sex toy you enjoy to use or want?

It was the Rabbit Habit, but I have to say the Hitachi w/ adult attachments wins hands-down over anything I've ever tried. It's bigger, louder, and maybe not that sexy, but ohhhhhhh the orgasms and versatility (you can even make your own attachments) can't be beat!