How to keep him hard...

[jbucksboat]

I would like to know if anyone out there knows ways to keep a man hard longer. Basically keep him from cumming. My guy has an ED problem and takes meds for it. However, if he can get it up it doesn't last long. Cock rings help but not always.
Is there any trick or process that anyone knows has worked for them? I am desperate.

Thanks!
Jenny

 

[M's girl]

Is there any trick or process that anyone knows has worked for them? I am desperate.

Thanks!
Jenny

Well, you start by NOT letting him know or feel your desperation, but you knew that already.... I hope....?

 

[SubNebGuy]

if he truely has ED, and the cock ring isn't working, look into Viagra or one of the generics (from a doctor, not a web-pharmacy)

 

[hogjack]

Option

You might consider not hooking up with guys participating in WWII Veterans parades.

 

[footlongish]

vibrating anal butt plug. Keeps him aroused and keeps the blood from draining out of the base of the penis. I dated a med student for a while...

 

[alltherage]

In gereral it is a lousy idea to point and laugh.

 

[Kronykal]

Every once in awhile, I have a hard time staying hard during intercourse. I'm only 23, but don't believe the problem is enough for medications.

If he finds a way to keep it hard, I usually try to start focusing thinking of non-sexual things until I feel the urge to come surpasses. Thinking about mowing the lawn and picturing it in my head seems to do the trick, lol.

 

[rydia57]

Sounds like both of you are very tense and nervous. Get reallllly relax. Stress will make a guy fall in a second. Try some oral on him, a massage. Those usually work with me. Don' give up ok?


(too bad you can't smoke pot that NEVER fails!)

 

[SlammaJamma]

I would like to know if anyone out there knows ways to keep a man hard longer. Basically keep him from cumming. My guy has an ED problem and takes meds for it. However, if he can get it up it doesn't last long. Cock rings help but not always.
Is there any trick or process that anyone knows has worked for them? I am desperate.

Thanks!
Jenny

The problem is your focusing on the things in life that don't really matter. When I was a kid I had hopes and dreams. We all did. But over time, the daily grind gets in the way and you miss the things that really matter, even though they are right in front of you, staring you in the face. I think the next time you should ask yourself "Am I on the right track here?". I don't mean to be rude but people like you I really pity. So maybe you could use the few brain cells you have and take advantage of the knowledge I have given you now. Good luck.

 

[i_jenjen_i]

I would like to know if anyone out there knows ways to keep a man hard longer. Basically keep him from cumming. My guy has an ED problem and takes meds for it. However, if he can get it up it doesn't last long. Cock rings help but not always.
Is there any trick or process that anyone knows has worked for them? I am desperate.

Thanks!
Jenny

Try massage around his groin area. And I think your moanings (if you cant, just act) will also help to arouse him too.

 

[rab302]

I would like to know if anyone out there knows ways to keep a man hard longer. Basically keep him from cumming. My guy has an ED problem and takes meds for it. However, if he can get it up it doesn't last long. Cock rings help but not always.
Is there any trick or process that anyone knows has worked for them? I am desperate.

Thanks!
Jenny

There are some desensitizing creams available, but the draw back is that it may numb your privates also. You could also try giving him head, then pinching him off before he cums, it helps him learn what muscles to contract to forestall orgasm, but this skill takes some time to develop. The old standby is to use two or three condoms at a time to lessen the sensation to his glands, but some men find the whole condom thing a turnoff. Try some of these out and see if they help. Best of luck and keep trying, that's the fun of it.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Desensitizing creams will just make it worse, if he has a true ED problem. If you are using a REAL med, like Viagra, Cialis or Levitra, and they aren't working, then I would talk to your doctor about switching meds. They all work differently and some work better for some people. I've got a friend who took viagra for some post surgery ED issues, and he said the erection not lasting long enough was NOT a problem. The problem was getting rid of the fucker once it got hard, so it sounds to me like the med your man is using just isn't working right.

Also, if you are trying some of those herbal remedy things, forget it. If he has a true ED issue, go to a doc and get the good stuff. A lot of people are too embarassed to see their MD over this, but it's nothing new. Hell, half the doctors are taking Viagra, so where's the stigma now?

Good Luck, and hang in there. Kudos for trying to help your man out with this problem. Just be understanding and keep trying.