How to insert Hitachi?

Jada59

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How does one insert the whole head of a Hitachi vibe? The women on pornos make it look so easy. Most don't even use lube.

I think I did it some time ago with my old one. I remember trying really hard, then sort of squatting over it and forcing myself down on it. Why I didn't try again until recently, I don't know. But I can't do it!

I was younger and likely more agile when I squatted over it. That doesn't seem to work for me now. I keep trying in bed. I think I got it most of the way in once. But not all the way.

The women in the pornos push it all the way in and take their hands away. That's what I'm aiming for and am going through coconut oil like mad, trying.

There are attachments for the Hitachi. I'm not talking about those. Those are worthless, IMO, I mean the big, roundish head on the Hitachi.

Maybe I am just too tight? I thought about using progressively wider dildos to try to stretch myself but am having no luck there. Seems most are about 1 - 1.5 inches. I already have those. Then they seem to jump up to mammoth size!

Help! Thanks!
 
Part of your problem kitten, is you get way to excited about the mere thought of that wicked vibrating head filling and stretching your tight little cunt, that you tighten up even more.

I've already told you how it will fit.
 
Part of your problem kitten, is you get way to excited about the mere thought of that wicked vibrating head filling and stretching your tight little cunt, that you tighten up even more.

I've already told you how it will fit.

Yes. That's true.
 
On or Off

Would it be easier if it was running? The vibrations might help slowly stretch your vaginal opening.

Too strong, even at half speed? Get a router speed controller to have variable speeds.

(There seems to be only one model from some Chinese factory that everybody is just relabeling. Shop around, as the price seems to have gone up of the last few years. Price widely varies; sex toy sites being the highest. I got mine for $10.)

Note that a lamp dimmer won't work. You need something designed for a motor.
 
They make it look easy just like they make Anal look easy. That is, you aren't shown half an hour of warmup prior to such smooth insertion.

As for lube, in porn they often pre-lube things. You can put a generous amount of lube inside the pussy (or ass), and it won't be visible outside, yet it will seem like everything is just sliding in naturally.

In fact, you will very rarely see lube used in a scene (mostly in gonzo clips), but the reality is it's most often used anyway. The shoot can last between 1 and up to several hours, and keeping things smooth and slippery for that long is a challenge without lube.

If you want practical advice though - the same way you'd start a fisting session. Start with two fingers, then three, then four, and work your way up until the entire fist fits in. Don't force it, the pussy will relax over time naturally to accomodate the large size.
When you get to this point - inserting a Hitachi will be much easier.

If you are doing that alone, you'll need several dildoes (or replacements) from small size towards large. That way you can also stretch the pussy naturally over half an hour of play or so.
Experienced girls can do it much faster. In essence, it's all about relaxing - your pussy is quite large naturally (large enough to give birth). but it's all held tight together by muscles.

I'll also note that "Stretching pussy over time" or "Becomeing more stretched/loose" is a myth. As I said above, vagina is naturally very large (Think the diameter of infant's head or just a bit smaller, but not by much). It doesn't expand for childbirth - it loosens up. A woman can learn to relax it, or she can learn to tighten it through Kegels, but it's all only affecting muscles, not the surface area itself. The skin inside is very elastic, and every single girl is capable of taking the most insane fisting session on first try. It's just a matter of being patient and slowly working your way towards relaxing her.
 
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One of the problems may be the texture and material of the Hitachi head. My wife's is sort of a "rough" texture rubber/plastic stuff. I know there is that smooth blue thing that goes on the head that is easy for vaginal or anal because it's only about the diameter of a large thumb. So:
1) Check to see if Hitachi makes a smooth head. It is removable by the way and be careful pulling it out because the head can come off.
2) Perhaps start with the smooth blue thing till you are REALLY turned on and wet.
3) Have you tried it with another person piloting it? I had a lady friend that could not fist herself because she was intimidated and such. However, I was a bit more demanding as well as giving her lots of dirty word encouragement. I was successful with the fisting where she hadn't been.
4) Listen to the others. LOTS of lube and LOTS of time. The above fisting took well over a half hour starting slow, doing some oral and regular sex, and going back periodically to the fisting. Yes the pornos make it look easy but don't show all the pre-work. BTW... Her orgasm with the fisting and my tongue on her clit was absolutely window shattering.

Good Luck.
 
One of the problems may be the texture and material of the Hitachi head. My wife's is sort of a "rough" texture rubber/plastic stuff. I know there is that smooth blue thing that goes on the head that is easy for vaginal or anal because it's only about the diameter of a large thumb. So:
1) Check to see if Hitachi makes a smooth head. It is removable by the way and be careful pulling it out because the head can come off.
2) Perhaps start with the smooth blue thing till you are REALLY turned on and wet.
3) Have you tried it with another person piloting it? I had a lady friend that could not fist herself because she was intimidated and such. However, I was a bit more demanding as well as giving her lots of dirty word encouragement. I was successful with the fisting where she hadn't been.
4) Listen to the others. LOTS of lube and LOTS of time. The above fisting took well over a half hour starting slow, doing some oral and regular sex, and going back periodically to the fisting. Yes the pornos make it look easy but don't show all the pre-work. BTW... Her orgasm with the fisting and my tongue on her clit was absolutely window shattering.

Good Luck.

I could have sworn that I replied to this. I do need to have someone try to do it to me. I think I'm not getting the right angle.
 
I could have sworn that I replied to this. I do need to have someone try to do it to me. I think I'm not getting the right angle.

I volunteer, I have some experience in nursing and guiding women (and men), and I know how to handle a girl acting too tediously to join a joyful party.
 
If you want to make a hitachi head smoother, you can try to use condom on it.:cattail:
 
Hi Jada,

I had to register a new account just to answer your question! So here it goes - I am one of those women that CAN do it. And no, I don't need hours of prep or gallons of lube. If I am enough in the mood to even get my Hitachi out, it will fit just fine with just what my body can produce, handle and all.

But (yes, there is a but in this story):
1. I have three kids. All of them came out vaginally, no c-sections. And I needed stitches all three times, even though very little tearing on the last one.
2. Self-selection. In the porn you see ONLY the women that CAN do it. But for each one of those how many declined even to try? How many tried, but failed?

First of all, if you are really-really set on getting it in, I would suggest you skip the porn sites for a while and go read up on the maternity. Specifically you are looking for information on perineal massage with oils, it is supposed to help a lot with elasticity. Did not help me much (or maybe I would have had even worse tears without it, who knows), but I know a few doulas that swear by it, so give it a try. Is's been a while, but from what I remember you need to do it at least for a month
to see any results.

Second thing - condoms. I totally agree with Nezhul on that. Not only are they smooth themselves, but they also hold lube much better then the plastic. If condoms irritate your skin, try another brand. Latex vs non-latex? Unlubed? You are going to add your own lube anyway, so you don't need anything on the condom.

Good luck!
 
Hi Jada,

I had to register a new account just to answer your question! So here it goes - I am one of those women that CAN do it. And no, I don't need hours of prep or gallons of lube. If I am enough in the mood to even get my Hitachi out, it will fit just fine with just what my body can produce, handle and all.

But (yes, there is a but in this story):
1. I have three kids. All of them came out vaginally, no c-sections. And I needed stitches all three times, even though very little tearing on the last one.
2. Self-selection. In the porn you see ONLY the women that CAN do it. But for each one of those how many declined even to try? How many tried, but failed?

First of all, if you are really-really set on getting it in, I would suggest you skip the porn sites for a while and go read up on the maternity. Specifically you are looking for information on perineal massage with oils, it is supposed to help a lot with elasticity. Did not help me much (or maybe I would have had even worse tears without it, who knows), but I know a few doulas that swear by it, so give it a try. Is's been a while, but from what I remember you need to do it at least for a month
to see any results.

Second thing - condoms. I totally agree with Nezhul on that. Not only are they smooth themselves, but they also hold lube much better then the plastic. If condoms irritate your skin, try another brand. Latex vs non-latex? Unlubed? You are going to add your own lube anyway, so you don't need anything on the condom.

Good luck!

I did the massage when I was pregnant. Didn't seem to help.

Condoms don't irritate my skin but they don't feel good to me and can give me UTIs. So I just don't like them. But thanks for the advice!
 
I feel sure that if you want to bad enough,,, you will get it in. Many, many years ago, when i wore a younger mans clothes. My new wife got very turned on and would cumm really hard when i stretched her. We had never heard of fisting and there were on movies about it. But i kept trying to stretch her more each time. After about a year of this almost nightly during one of our trys,,, my hand went in. She screamed and had an intense climax and almost passed out. Wa,,la,, all the trying was worth it. Sooo, keep trying. If you want it enough it will happen.
 
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