How to hit without bruising?

[slavebitch]

I am very into pain and I enjoy being hit during sex, but I do not want to have bruises when I go to school or come home to my parents. Does anyone have suggestions on how I can be hit with little to no bruising? Welt's I can deal with, if they will go away within an hour or two.

 

[switchbitch]

I am very into pain and I enjoy being hit during sex, but I do not want to have bruises when I go to school or come home to my parents. Does anyone have suggestions on how I can be hit with little to no bruising? Welt's I can deal with, if they will go away within an hour or two.

What kind of hitting are you talking about,eg flogger,fist,palm,cane,paddle,tawse,querte? minimsing bruising is different in each case.

 

[slavebitch]

Which ever form is the easiest to keep from bruising. I love pain in general and am up for whatever He can do that won't show.

 

[ecstaticsub]

We have a silicone strand flogger which produces a rather sharp stingy pain especially when used on already tortured nipples and pussy lips. Rarely have I had marks lasting more than a few hours with it.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

if one smacks with a slightly cupped hand, it makes a nice loud SMACKING noise, gives a good amount of sting, and fades within a variable number of minutes depending on how often and hard one is smacked.

As a random side note, this is also how one is encouraged to clap for music pieces. (What, where'd you THINK I learned it????)

Also, Crops and dressage whips, while they can bruise, tend not to up to a certain point. Or at least, I've never managed to bruise myself and I've whacked myself good a couple times

on accident, btw. I have a lazy horse. I have way more crops and whips than any one person needs. I have a light blue crop, a light teal crop, and a black crop that are all nice and whippy-stingy, a blue "bat"-type crop, and 2 nice whippy dressage whips. They're not the kinds I REALLY like, but it's hard to find a good fiber dressage whip without a nylon sheath over the length of it these days. but man, I only ever had to hit my horse with that ONCE, and he was good the WHOLE RIDE. Then some fucker stole it >:[ Erm yah. point being. accident. I've whacked myself with a crop for recreational purposes, but very effectively Certainly not to the point of brusing.

 

[slavebitch]

if one smacks with a slightly cupped hand, it makes a nice loud SMACKING noise, gives a good amount of sting, and fades within a variable number of minutes depending on how often and hard one is smacked.

As a random side note, this is also how one is encouraged to clap for music pieces. (What, where'd you THINK I learned it????)

Ha, that is great. I'll have to keep that in mind for my chorus class. Our current music has a lot of clapping.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

Ha, that is great. I'll have to keep that in mind for my chorus class. Our current music has a lot of clapping.

When you're doing it for musical purposes, don't clap evenly palm-to-palm. Slightly cup both hands and hit the curved fingers of one against the cup of the other. Think of cymbals. It makes a slightly sharper sound to use your fingers, but if you're actually trying to go for a more bass sound, go ahead and use the palms.

 

[slavebitch]

When you're doing it for musical purposes, don't clap evenly palm-to-palm. Slightly cup both hands and hit the curved fingers of one against the cup of the other. Think of cymbals. It makes a slightly sharper sound to use your fingers, but if you're actually trying to go for a more bass sound, go ahead and use the palms.

Cool, thanks! For both bits of advice. I'll definately have to try the clapping and hitting.

 

[MasterFrey]

In a skilled hand a whip,flogger,crop or bat can deliver the sensation you may be looking for without real damage.I have a special flogger made from horse tail hair that will set your flesh on fire

 

[slavebitch]

In a skilled hand a whip,flogger,crop or bat can deliver the sensation you may be looking for without real damage.I have a special flogger made from horse tail hair that will set your flesh on fire

How difficult is it to become skilled? Would He easily be able to learn quickly? Also, was the horse hurt in any way for the making of the flogger, and if not, where can I get one?

 

[MasterFrey]

I guess it depends on "he"...practice makes perfect.No the horse isnt hurt...just horse tail hair used in making the flogger

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

What's the ruling on public nudity when you're visiting your parents?

Can't he just make sure he doesn't leave any marks that wouldn't be seen cos they'd be covered by clothes? By underwear at a minimum?

 

[slavebitch]

What's the ruling on public nudity when you're visiting your parents?

Can't he just make sure he doesn't leave any marks that wouldn't be seen cos they'd be covered by clothes? By underwear at a minimum?

I live at home with my mother, and I am on the school swim team.

 

[DVS]

OK, all of this is well and good but at the expense of being seen as the self booster that I am, there is a skill to producing pain without the lasting bruises.

Yes, a horsehair flogger will work. It has a mild sting, but when used on sensitive areas, it can be pretty nasty. Most items can be used, but you have to be aware of the bone structure of your victim and how their body bruises. Also, some people will bruise more because they are taking a medication that has that side effect.

With the hand or paddle on the ass, you need to watch for the redness of the skin. Don't smack in just one area, but all over the ass, to distribute the impact and to intensify the afterglow and residual feeling.

Most thin floggers, whips or crops will only bruise if you use them with a lot of force. And the thinner the striking area, the more pain can be applied without a lot of force. The area will get red and even splotchy in some cases, but the result won't be a bruise. It will still be red for several hours, and hot to the touch for even longer, and when applied to the ass, sitting will be uncomfortable for several days.

If you hit someone where they have a bone, you will more than likely produce a bruise. If you hit someone too hard where there is only muscle and not enough fat tissue, you can also bruise them.

Don't underestimate the power of electricity. With the correct use, a violet wand can be very nasty without leaving any residual effects at all. It's pretty much the same with a TENS unit, but the wand is more portable. Although, there are some TENS attachments that although expensive, will give you the proper jolt with very little effort.

But, when it comes down to it, there is a skill to knowing when to stop. I once had a woman who wanted pain, but couldn't have any lasting bruises. Trust me...she left my house with a satisfied glow on her face as well as on her ass.

 

[00Syd]

Ahem. Everyone is different, and a slap that wouldn't even make my skin red might make someone else's skin bruise. So while there are things you can do that can minimize the possibility of bruising, there is just no sure method. You really need to take the time to learn about your own body and see where it's limits are. Unfortunately, that usually involves getting bruised.

For example, I did a scene a couple of weeks ago that involved face slapping. I'd had my face slapped pretty hard before without a problem, so I didn't give it a second thought. but as it turns out, even though each slap wasn't particularly hard, with a lot of repeated slapping I was going to bruise. So now I know.

 

[slavebitch]

Thank you all for your advice! I am very excited to try it all out.

 

[where]

to echo what syd said, it can vary. I bruise really easily. holding me tight can bruise me as can rope. My daughter... she's like rubber. even falling off horses doesn't make much of a bruise on her. You need to bear that in mind I think.

 

[slavebitch]

to echo what syd said, it can vary. I bruise really easily. holding me tight can bruise me as can rope. My daughter... she's like rubber. even falling off horses doesn't make much of a bruise on her. You need to bear that in mind I think.

In my few experiences thus far, I have found that I am difficult to bruise anywhere but my legs, which will randomly have bruises from I don't know what. But I will definately keep everything said in mind, and carefully experiment to begin with.