How To.. Go Without !

[emmessemm]

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[horny_boi]

Well, I'm currently going on 1+ year without having anyone in my bed, or anywhere else for that matter. About 5 months since I last kissed anyone.

I've gone 4+ years between encounters before, and a year or two is not that unusual for me, to be honest.

As for masturbation, while I'm usually at least daily (often more than that), I've been known to go 3 weeks or more without it.

I just don't find it that difficult to abstain.

My $.02.

3 weeks?!?!?!!?!?! DAMN! so lucky !
is that from just low desire? or because not enough time to do it?

 

[emmessemm]

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[shy little fairy]

no orgasms?

personally, i can't go more than a couple days - like when i have a sleepover at a friends house or something, obviously no time to myself for a while - and i'm having a lot of fun so i don't notice. but usually as soon as i get home and i'm in the shower, i *remember* right away and have to get off right then.

 

[shy little fairy]

never knowing

it is true about how if you don't know what you're missing you may never notice it. probably more true for girls, as our desire can feel more like a strange feeling, a need to pee - or if you aren't used to being "wet" - just especially dischargy, even wrong. my best friend (we can talk about anything) had never masturbated, and i tried to talk her into it. having never had an orgasm, her theory was "i'm fine as i am." i of course, knew she didn't know what she was missing, but what can you do?
well anyways, she has seen the light by now, and of course, even she says "why did i wait so long?"
i think anyone who has had an orgasm (especially if they know they can do it by themselves), has a very hard time not getting off